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Urgent Advise Needed by Meektunz: 2:12pm On Dec 04, 2021

I did a DNA test and found out that my first child isn't mine. But my major concern is how i can confront her because she is a drama queen & can do anything like destroying my house and other unpredictable things. Confronting her with the result has to be far away from the house. Someone said i should tell her that we are going to visit her parents and when we get there i can let the can out of the bag and let her remain there. But my fear is that she can go any length just to make my life miserable or even to hurt me. How best can i handle this?

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by everythinggirly(f): 2:14pm On Dec 04, 2021

You can't speak to your wife? Nairaland redpilllers are coming for you. Wait for it.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by Haakeem(m): 2:18pm On Dec 04, 2021

Shake the simp of a husband off ur body and follow the first advice given to you.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by Haakeem(m): 2:19pm On Dec 04, 2021

everythinggirly:

You can't speak to your wife? Nairaland redpilllers are coming for you. Wait for it.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by DaddyRochie1642: 2:40pm On Dec 04, 2021

You knew that she was a violent woman and a drama queen and you still went ahead to marry her.

Oga You saw all the red flags and you still went ahead to put that ya Coconut head and go for marriage grin

Now see how a full grown man like you is probably scared of probably a 5foot 4inches woman, you're scared because she may decide to break that ya coconut head because you're too WEAK grin

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by Meektunz: 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021

DaddyRochie1642:
You knew that she was a violent woman and a drama queen and you still went ahead to marry her.

Oga You saw all the red flags and you still went ahead to put that ya Coconut head and go for marriage

Now see how a full grown man like you is probably scared of probably a 5foot 4inches woman, you're scared because she may decided to break that ya coconut head because you're too WEAK.

You might not believe it but the truth is that i never saw a single red flag, she was so nice and calm infact she is still nice and calm just that her anger when it comes to anything is out of this world and this one will really get her so angry instead of sober.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by DaddyRochie1642: 3:36pm On Dec 04, 2021

Meektunz:
You might not believe it but the truth is that i never saw a single red flag, she was so nice and calm infact she is still nice and calm just that her anger when it comes to anything is out of this world and this one will really get her so angry instead of sober.

The Lord is your strength grin

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by babavik: 4:04pm On Dec 04, 2021

Is like you're scared of your wife and she's capitalising on it.
Oga just be a man and confront her squarely, head to head.
Keeping mute on an issue of this magnitude will be KILLING you daily without you knowing it.
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Go for an all out confrontation as a man if you die you die but let it be that you are not the cheating type.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by aanuoluwami14(f): 4:08pm On Dec 04, 2021

Or she is the one financing the house? Why would you be afraid to confront her? She can kill you or poison you so It's better you inform your parents want to do, your foundation is faulty already

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by omolasho: 7:16am On Dec 05, 2021

Meektunz:
I did a DNA test and found out that my first child isn't mine. But my major concern is how i can confront her because she is a drama queen & can do anything like destroying my house and other unpredictable things. Confronting her with the result has to be far away from the house. Someone said i should tell her that we are going to visit her parents and when we get there i can let the can out of the bag and let her remain there. But my fear is that she can go any length just to make my life miserable or even to hurt me. How best can i handle this?

See this were, your wife is currently cheating on you with other men! Come, an old uncle use to tell say, "if you dey fear make neibour no hear una, your wife go carry you do yeye"

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by MufasaLion: 7:20am On Dec 05, 2021

You married a violent woman. And as if that ain't enough, she saw you as a weakling that you are, and she cheated on you severally with different men that she couldn't point the one that impregnated her. You're the father of an illegitimate child.

Divorce her!!!

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by MufasaLion: 7:22am On Dec 05, 2021

Meektunz:
You might not believe it but the truth is that i never saw a single red flag, she was so nice and calm infact she is still nice and calm just that her anger when it comes to anything is out of this world and this one will really get her so angry instead of sober.

You seem to be too quiet and that's made you weak and not smart enough, hence the reason you were blinded by her pretence during courtship.

I don't pity men like you that got blinded easily by love.

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Re: Urgent Advise Needed by reward9ja12: 7:23am On Dec 05, 2021

Call police so that they will stay around oh

Meektunz:
I did a DNA test and found out that my first child isn't mine. But my major concern is how i can confront her because she is a drama queen & can do anything like destroying my house and other unpredictable things. Confronting her with the result has to be far away from the house. Someone said i should tell her that we are going to visit her parents and when we get there i can let the can out of the bag and let her remain there. But my fear is that she can go any length just to make my life miserable or even to hurt me. How best can i handle this?

Re: Urgent Advise Needed by reward9ja12: 7:25am On Dec 05, 2021

Forget oh my brother nothing soften a man oh

MufasaLion:

You seem to be too quiet and that's made you weak and not smart enough, hence the reason you were blinded by her pretence during courtship.

I don't pity men like you that got blinded easily by love.

Re: Urgent Advise Needed by Nobody: 7:28am On Dec 05, 2021

You can't speak to your wife?

Re: Urgent Advise Needed by MufasaLion: 7:29am On Dec 05, 2021

reward9ja12:

Forget oh my brother nothing soften a man oh

Says who? Bro, no lies, no woman can easily decieve me if we're dating.

Re: Urgent Advise Needed by Pweetiedude(m): 11:44am On Dec 05, 2021

OP don jam better agbako

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