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Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by CastedAyo: 11:31am On Dec 06, 2021 |
A Nigerian man and father, Mike Ekunno, has in the light of the death of a student of Dowen College, Sylvester Oromoni, narrated how he withdrew his son from a boarding school in 2018, Igbere TV reports. https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10226535435082036&id=1530534549 35 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Shetemi12(m): 11:41am On Dec 06, 2021 |
If this is really the normal norm in the school, the school leadership should be arrested and prosecuted. All reasonable parents should withdraw their children from the school and Ministry of Education should go to other boarding house and talk to those seniors because that's the thread in boarding house. Na who Dem catch be thief! 98 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by BKayy: 12:05pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
No matter how we put it, we can never absolve careless parents from the blame. Look at this considerate parent, he noticed something and he took action because he pays close attention to his ward. There has never been a bully taken too far without it showing signs on the child. The parent if he/she pays attention will notice it in any break or visiting sessions. It is when the parent neglects the sign that we have serious cases. Funny is that some parents don't know that their child is being bullied. This reminds me of the woman that have been fighting deeper life school for months now, many people think that she is overreacting but the truth is that she pays close attention to her child, noticed the danger and took action immediately. If not, her son would have been part of those that died from boarding school insanity this year. Parents should pay attention to their children. 145 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by gentle136(m): 12:10pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Very good action. Some of these problems na we parents dey cause them! We fail to observe, give listening hear or even pay attention to our God given children. It's only when we give them time to confide in us we get to know about things they are going through. Dear parents, we need to be very heedful of our kids. 175 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Asgard73: 12:17pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
The school sef.. |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Waakanda: 12:21pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Now that's a concerned parent who took necessary action. You did well. 114 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by FarahAideed: 12:24pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
I have always said the Nigerian Boarding house system is where we all pick up this self centered survivalist mentality from 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by tooth4tooth: 12:27pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
A stitch in time..... Wise dude. I have never at any point in time be a fan of boarding school Most of my friends are that attended boarding schools turned out to be something else, even girls. 85 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by OssyMalik: 12:32pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Boarding schools have turned to home for children from dysfunctional homes. They go to boarding schools and become violent against well trained kids. Say NO to boarding schools!!! 152 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by kovic7(m): 12:48pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Now, that's how a parent who is really concerned about his/her kid should act... Sadly, the parents of Sylvester were too negligent and the young boy paid the price.. Dammmm niggarrr Isoright 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Pasmos: 12:57pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Personally I see no reason why parents should throw away their kids all in the name of " l am a busy parent" life is all about balancing. Let your learn both formal and informal education as this will help both the school and parents checkmate the activity of the child. My five Kobo. CastedAyo: 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Mrevildoer(m): 1:10pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Whatever makes him happy. What's more important is that the child is still alive A parent that paid attention to their child's wellbeing 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Randy100: 1:13pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Congratulations, you saved him from dying. I hope you school him at home. This is how they train weak ass men. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Bvmsson(m): 1:42pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Thank God we are finally being aware of some wrongs in our society..... So, parents are getting to listen to their kids now abi? Well, this is good... We don dey get sense. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by PARADIZEPRIEST: 2:00pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
THAT IS A WISE AND RESPONSIBLE PARENT WHEN YU NOTICE CLEARLY ANYTHING FISHY AT YOUR KID'S SCHOOL YU ACT FAST. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Robisky001(m): 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
I like the proactive approach these parents took to forestall further damage to their son's wellbeing. Parents out should be sensitive and bold enough to take decisive action when needed. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by DropsMic(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Cool |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Charmingrascal(m): 2:24pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Some of us that attended public schools didn't really experience bullying. I remember on several occasions at United Community Secondary School that I attended, all the senior students that bullied any junior student were dealt with by the junior students when the school closed by 2pm. I remember when JSS 3 students fought SS3 students because they were bullying us. For no reason they would come to our class and beat everybody and term it "general beating" we endured for a while, we reported them to the Principal but nothing was done until the day we had a meeting to confront them, they came and we resisted, it was a serious fight that we were all told to go home by the Principal. I can't imagine me paying over One Million Naira or even 500k for my child education and s/he will come and report to me that someone is bullying him/her. God forbid, if the late Sylvester was my child or relative I would have killed somebody. It could be the school principal, hall master, parents of those who he accused of assaulting him or the accused persons themselves. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Dronedude(m): 2:25pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Boarding school is just a rip off of peoples money. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Danjikanbauchi: 3:19pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
It's turn by turned. We were bullied when we enter school, And when they make us prefect in our senior level we also bullied others, who will also bullied those behind them. The problem is that children of this days are all ajibota, eating indomie day and night. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by delzbaba(m): 3:25pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Back in the old days sending a child to boarding school was a type of punishment to the child, nothing is there just tears,hunger, sickness and psychological trauma 21 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Toluwanise247(m): 3:42pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Good decision 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by stamapro(m): 3:48pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
It takes God's grace to survive bulling in school. I was a victim. I did boarding, was bullied by my seniors and class mates just because I was small in size and sharp in brain. I still remember one of such time that I was pushed to the wall by one of the senior, I had to charge back in a face to face fight, all the seniors there were surprised how I brought this bully(their classmate) to the ground. My God I was so furious, I still can't say where the strength came from. That was my saving grace that day. They had to pull me off him. That was the beginning of another night mare for me till I finished secondary school. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by weslay: 3:57pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Best to get him schooling at home and keep him away from other kids. Cos bullies are everywhere from schools private+boarding, churches and even in homes. Our society has permitted this misconduct for too long. Most parents praise their kids who can't keep their hands to themselves... You hear parents chanting about how strong their kids are, when their kids go about hitting people, instead of scolding such behaviours. This is the main reason cultism thrives in our school system, because there is always a need for protection and vengeance. We are all part of the problem. We need to change the way we raise children and how we relate with ourselves. We also need to speak up against any form of bullying, because the victims today might become oppressors tomorrow 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by GboyegaD(m): 4:24pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Trying to understand why he had to share this news. Glad he took his best decision for his ward but he needs not come rub it in others faces. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by Favemmzar200(m): 4:25pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
The fear of boarding school is now the beginning of wisdom Sad 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by verosem: 4:25pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
This thing is getting out of hands in boarding schools oh. 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by omoadeleye(m): 4:25pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Nice |
Re: Man Withdraws His Kid From Boarding School Over Bullying (Pics) by ImoleNaija: 4:26pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Boarding schools & brouhaha are like 5&6. Seniors would bully. Paedo-staff would assault. 9 Likes 1 Share
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