Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ no send anyone relationship coaching though

ppogba:


You can see the make-up of his congregants. Hardly will you see someone above fifty.
What he preaches is exactly what the members mainly youth want to hear.
In marketing, get your clients and you are good to go.

JavaScript9091:
Happy people by default brings happiness into a marriage. But when a woman us bitter by default, she will export her bitterness into the life of her man and marriage

gazza07:
To get better and not happy? Confusion oo

JavaScript9091:
Happy people by default brings happiness into a marriage. But when a woman us bitter by default, she will export her bitterness into the life of her man and marriage

I don't think people are actually happy by default. I could be wrong though. Those people that appear happy all the time have just mastered their feelings. They have separate box for everything in their heads . If they're alone, they will open the box with their problems, once they step out, they will open fresh box for outsiders.

They're unhappy but it's hidden.

What I have come to understand is that happiness is temporary, we need to keep doing things that make us happy to be happy. Things like solving our problems. There's no stage one will get in life and they will become happy permanently.

And to be happy, we need problems . The best happiness comes from solving problems. Once one finds a partner, he or she will be happy because one problem has been solved but in solving that one, they have created others.

They will be happy for a while and that's all, to be happy in marriage, they will need to solve the daily problems that comes in marriage.

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

Godswillu:
If you are single do not comment let the married once comment.
I am sure 95% of the married men and women can relate.

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

Chevrolet076:


See this w3r3y.... Awọn God of men... The sheeples too go soon dey shout daddy daddy up and down

JavaScript9091:
Happy people by default brings happiness into a marriage. But when a woman us bitter by default, she will export her bitterness into the life of her man and marriage

Mrbenny001:
Many if you saying trash didn't watch the video..try watch what he said and how he said it before commenting...if you hate yourself and you're going to marriage expecting someone else to make you happy and fulfilled without playing your part and make sacrifices is foolishness...but end time children will not learn..they are so quick to criticize

habsydiamond:
Some pastors talk atimes as if they have left their brains at home while preaching with empty skull.. How will u say marriage is not designed to make u happy.. A union that doesn't make u happy is heading for a divorce... Thats not marriage at all that's a war.

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

SmartPolician:


You people didn't watch the video.

If you did and still wrote this, I shake my head in disbelief.

Simran94:

And when a man is bitter by default , what happens?

AlphaAlex:
Then he will Carry the Bitterness into the Marriage and if he doesn’t work on his Bitter attitude he will ruin his marriage stop using Emotion to judge situations every time sometimes use Logic there’s a reason why you have a logical part of your brain too ..

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

Lionnation:
how can someone be better and yet not happy

BouquiLake:
Abi e ma gbo were!!! God does not know what He was doing niyen o? Oooode

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

Czario:



Oh yes oh yes...can relate.
Nobody told me this 7 years ago ..
You single guys reading this are Soo lucky

RoyalBlu:
What he said is the truth.

Happiness is self created.

How can you make your spouse happy when you're not happy with yourself?

You can only give what you have.

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?