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Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by ppogba: 8:43pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
The pastor is an Arsenal, I will reserve my comment for now. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Lionnation: 8:44pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kriss216:same thing I am asking, now I want to marry honestly but whenever she is around I am unhappy I go through stress, I couldn't find. The reason I need her, I am single and unhappy and wanting to get married and that's adds to the problem of unhappiness what should I do |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Realhommie(m): 8:44pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Of course.. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Realhommie(m): 8:45pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
ppogba:You're right, lol.. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Munzy14(m): 8:45pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
JavaScript9091:Truth. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Olunmercy56(f): 8:47pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
My marriage must make me happy by God's grace 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Mrbenny001: 8:48pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Many if you saying trash didn't watch the video..try watch what he said and how he said it before commenting...if you hate yourself and you're going to marriage expecting someone else to make you happy and fulfilled without playing your part and make sacrifices is foolishness...but end time children will not learn..they are so quick to criticize 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Lionnation: 8:49pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
gazza07:how can someone be better and yet not happy |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Tallesty1(m): 8:51pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
JavaScript9091:I don't think people are actually happy by default. I could be wrong though. Those people that appear happy all the time have just mastered their feelings. They have separate box for everything in their heads . If they're alone, they will open the box with their problems, once they step out, they will open fresh box for outsiders. They're unhappy but it's hidden. What I have come to understand is that happiness is temporary, we need to keep doing things that make us happy to be happy. Things like solving our problems. There's no stage one will get in life and they will become happy permanently. And to be happy, we need problems . The best happiness comes from solving problems. Once one finds a partner, he or she will be happy because one problem has been solved but in solving that one, they have created others. They will be happy for a while and that's all, to be happy in marriage, they will need to solve the daily problems that comes in marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Oloruntade4(m): 8:54pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Sammydanny: Unwise |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Czario: 8:54pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Godswillu: Oh yes oh yes...can relate. Nobody told me this 7 years ago .. You single guys reading this are Soo lucky 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Janosky: 8:57pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Sammydanny:Believe his GIBBERISH at the detriment of your emotional and marital stability. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Chevrolet076:shut up and listen to the message he’s speaking facts you didn’t listen you just used your hatred for pastors to Comment . Listen to the Message . Listen to the Message . Marriage is a union of two people. It shouldn’t be your means of finding Happiness you should be Happy On your own first before you invite someone else to share in the Abundance of your Happiness. Some of you Cows never listen or digest Information you just rush to Talk the rubbish you have been holding in . Shut up Calm down and listen to the Message Don’t be an Ignorant Fool. If you like Quote me I go insult you tire . 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
JavaScript9091:And when a man is bitter by default , what happens? |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:00pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Mrbenny001:No be lie you talk these People always fail to digest and process information before saying whatever rubbish they are Holding in . |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by EyenNtokon: 9:01pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
When i grow up, i want to be like PRESIDENT BUHARI. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by SmartPolician: 9:01pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
habsydiamond: You people didn't watch the video. If you did and still wrote this, I shake my head in disbelief. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by BigIyanga: 9:02pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
WibusJaga: The theme of his message is lost on you. You give more than you receive in marriage.. if not to your spouse, then to your kids. Your kids dont care... they keep receiving until they turn to adult to take care of themselves. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by habsydiamond(m): 9:02pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
SmartPolician:u caught me... I didn't 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Simran94:Then he will Carry the Bitterness into the Marriage and if he doesn’t work on his Bitter attitude he will ruin his marriage stop using Emotion to judge situations every time sometimes use Logic there’s a reason why you have a logical part of your brain too .. |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
AlphaAlex: This is why I don't usually reply you Nairaland boys. The person I quoted made it seem like women are the only bitters ones, that was why I asked him what about the men? You are the one who needs to use his logical part of his brain 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by efficiencie(m): 9:12pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Sammydanny: I am sorry ohh. He is a pastor. And he is probably called by God but this doctrine is rubbish and unscriptural. The wise preacher, by the HolyGhost, informed us through Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12 about the benefits of marriage and these benefits bring happiness. If one person is cold the partner will provide warmth. If one falls his/her partner will be there to help and if two work together they will get a better reward than when one person works alone. If I have to be fulfilled all by myself and I can be happy all by myself then I don't need a marriage. Instead of getting married I will dedicated my life to serving the LORD and men but if I have a deficit in my life and I need help then it would make sense to get married. Deficit was the basis for the first marriage. As perfect and good as Adam was God saw that it was not good that man should be alone. Every man has to find out himself the deficit in his life that makes it not good for him to be alone. And every woman has to figure out for themselves the man whose deficit they are equipped to effectively address. Herein lies the idea of a match. Marry your match and support each other. Leave all this motivational talk that are impracticable and out of touch with the realities of marriage! 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by gazza07(m): 9:16pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
I'm yet to understand this Lionnation: |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by pansophist(m): 9:17pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Marriage is a mirror. If you ain't happy with yourself, you'll be sad in it. He spoke the truth. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Timoleon(m): 9:18pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
BouquiLake:Genesis 6: 5-6 |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by vickydevoka(m): 9:19pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kriss216:Procreation and societal pressure |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by vickydevoka(m): 9:20pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
WibusJaga:Not even. Wrong spouse. Untrained child. Spoilt brat without manners. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
WibusJaga: Marriage does not guarantee happiness. Spot On. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Timoleon(m): 9:22pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Lucky bunch lol Czario: 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by ogelekpomgam(m): 9:22pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
RoyalBlu:No matter how you have self happiness.. staying or living with someone that makes you unhappy can lead to a chronic and unseen depression. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Was Not Designed To Make You Happy - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo (video) by Nobody: 9:25pm On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kriss216:if marriage is designed to make one happy, how come there are so many unhappy married people? 3 Likes |
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