Pataricatering:
shut up , abeg
Will you people die if you don't bitch about women Women this women that yen yen yen - e no dey taya you

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

Lollittaa:

if marriage is designed to make one happy, how come there are so many unhappy married people?

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

ogelekpomgam:

No matter how you have self happiness.. staying or living with someone that makes you unhappy can lead to a chronic and unseen depression.

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

Kriss216:

Marriage is useless if it can't bring happiness.

Sammydanny:
Popular Nigerian cleric, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has candidly told unmarried people about the complexities of marriage.

In a video he posted on his Instagram page, the pastor explained that marriage was not made to make people happy but was designed to make people better. He said marriage is a place you go to give, not a place to go to receive.

Pastor Kingsley explained that people must take care of things making them feel unhappy and unfulfilled before getting married and not hope that getting married will solve all their problems.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmvdSFKziF8

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

RoyalBlu:
What he said is the truth.

Happiness is self created.

How can you make your spouse happy when you're not happy with yourself?

You can only give what you have.

Kriss216:
Of what use is marriage if it's not designed to make me happy?

If one can't find happiness in marriage, why engaging in it?

Realhommie:
This one best qualify as a relationship coach and not a pastor, together with his wife. His teachings or messages have no spiritual substance, always about relationships, datings etc..

TClipz:
I totally agree with what he said,
Some people see marriage as means to escape a lot of things eg poverty, loneliness, abuse and all sorts.

CSTRR:

There is nothing more spiritual than a Godly marriage.
It's a key aspect of Christianity and Christian living.

You can't serve God well if you are in a horrible marriage.

Kobojunkie:
But there is no such thing as a godly marriage as that is a delusion in and of itself. This since Jesus Christ made it absolutely clear that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36

CSTRR:

It doesn't have to be in heaven for it to be Godly.

Godly means to have divine approval.
To satisfy the will of God.

When God brought Eve to Adam that was as Godly as anything you can think of.

Baawaa:

See confusion, how can unhappy person be a better person. Some of these pastors don't understand themselves

WibusJaga:


Some of these pastors like making controversial statements just to draw attention.
But what he should have said was Marriage does not guarantee your happiness. Some people find joy & fulfilment in marriage while others experience hell on earth when they get married, especially married to the wrong spouse.