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How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 8:03pm On Dec 11, 2021
1. Is the essence of marriage no longer important to people?

2. Did the lady made a mistake by getting pregnant for an irresponsible man?

3. Is the lady so irresponsible that the man can live up with her, hence they separated?

4. Is it the unreadiness of both couples?

5. By mistake?

6. By choice

7. Death of a partner?


So sad seeing so many pretty ladies turned single Parent and I feel so bad.... These ladies should be wives and not single Parents...

Married people, abeg why the rise in single parenting these recent days?
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Ebubechuwku(m): 8:13pm On Dec 11, 2021
We are now in a free world.... grin grin grin


Gone are dose days ,when you can tie man with marriage or kids, now everybody is free to do whatever they want... no commitment again...

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Dec 11, 2021
Dat wat they chose to become
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Hathor5(f): 9:16pm On Dec 11, 2021
What if they are better off being single?

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by MsFaith: 9:35pm On Dec 11, 2021
A serious topic of discussion.

Aside those who were legally married before they lost their husbands or divorced, single motherhood is a no no.

It’s better to wait longer for marriage to happen than rush to have kids outside wedlock.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Smartb0y: 11:36pm On Dec 11, 2021
MsFaith:
A serious topic of discussion.

Aside those who were legally married before they lost their husbands or divorced, single motherhood is a no no.

It’s better to wait longer for marriage to happen than rush to have kids outside wedlock.
They don't rush to have kids.
They hoe their way into having kids wink

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by newbornmacho(m): 11:38pm On Dec 11, 2021
See them useless olosho vaginarians talking thrash above .

Useless cursed gender, single parenthood kill all of una, plus una useless evening newspaper mama.

Idiots.

Spits...women are scum
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by DontBullshitMe: 5:19am On Dec 12, 2021
TURN not turned.
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 6:27am On Dec 12, 2021
DontBullshitMe:
TURN not turned.


Thank you bro.....
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by emmanuelbrown26: 7:44am On Dec 12, 2021
Honestly ehhhhh, the rate of single mothers this day is something else. I hv being trying to get an answer but I can't. Though is a very common thing among the yorubas.
Yoruba land, a girl of 16 dun turn to a mother and Lagos is just the worst place. Here in Lagos. Once u get job and accommodation automatically a girl dun enter house, gbam u dun turn to okomi.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by JeffreyJunior: 8:13am On Dec 12, 2021
Some bad ladies have become bold with their lifestyles which now attract neither punishment nor condemnation, no thanks to civilization.

On the other hand, some good ladies who have been serially abused by the society, having reached their elastic limits are now firing back by embracing new lifestyles. Thanks to civilization for giving them the platform.

Sometimes, "wrong" get entangled with "right" so before you condemn, look deeply.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by ObaOfUyo: 8:51am On Dec 12, 2021
JeffreyJunior:
Some bad ladies have become bold with their lifestyles which now attract neither punishment nor condemnation, no thanks to civilization.

On the other hand, some good ladies who have been serially abused by the society, having reached their elastic limits are now firing back by embracing new lifestyles. Thanks to civilization for giving them the platform.

Sometimes, "wrong" get entangled with "right" so before you condemn, look deeply.



I smell a Baby Daddy grin
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by greenie77: 9:05am On Dec 12, 2021
In addition to what some have already listed, I add the following.

1.The child's father taking the highway after denying pregnancy, some of those who acknowleged being the father have chosen to be anonymous in their children' lives.

2. Some women with multiple sexual partners and not sure who the biological father is.

3. Some women who opted for Intrauterine insemination (IUI) where the sperm (paid for) is injected directly into their wombs as not all women are looking forward to getting married and sharing a child or children with a man while still involved in heterosexual relationships and IUI na also sure way for lesbians whey wan born pikin.

4. A woman who is financially comfortable is less likely to be scared of being a single mother as she won't be involved in the drama of dragging a man for the child's upkeep.

5. The rate of male Nairalanders who post marriage to be scam and drawn to having baby mamas, so will there be an increase of unmanned women with children.

Others can add theirs. wink

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 9:28am On Dec 12, 2021
Cc: lalasticlala seun mynd44

Promise land
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Saintmary(f): 11:31am On Dec 12, 2021
Very interesting topic.


However, for every single Mom you see, there is a single dad hiding somewhere pretending to not have kids.

That's the majority of the cases, so there are exceptions too.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by frozen70(f): 2:41pm On Dec 12, 2021
Timekeeper:
1. Is the essence of marriage no longer important to people?

2. Did the lady made a mistake by getting pregnant for an irresponsible man?

3. Is the lady so irresponsible that the man can live up with her, hence they separated?

4. Is it the unreadiness of both couples?

5. By mistake?

6. By choice

7. Death of a partner?


So sad seeing so many pretty ladies turned single Parent and I feel so bad.... These ladies should be wives and not single Parents...

Married people, abeg why the rise in single parenting these recent days?

Being a single parent is not a stigma on the person

As we have single mothers so the father of that child is also a single parent

Any thing and every thing can lead to single parenthood, even ordinary lack of manners

Marriage is for matured minds

Marriage is nit ordinary friendship

When in friendship, you can kick any obstacles out, just for you to have your right of way

But in marriage, you can't really kick it out, you have to, take that obstacles with caution
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Whyzaid(f): 2:49pm On Dec 12, 2021
To add to what you have listed

Many women of today don't longer live at the mercy of their husband's financial status

Secondly, civilization
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by toughchic(f): 3:39pm On Dec 12, 2021
Isn't it so ironically how the responsible parent is the one being bashed.

Single mother? Doesn't the child have a father?

Lemme rephrase this question, why are men so irresponsible that they're so comfortable being mere sperm donors?

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 4:41pm On Dec 12, 2021
....I think is since they started listening to Blessing Okoro.ceo

Na joke o. grin
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by missimelda01(f): 8:03pm On Dec 12, 2021
Before now I used to think that women only get pregnant when they want to i.e it’s an intentional decision, but with the recent happenings I’m beginning to think otherwise
This new development is the reason some men think they can avoid ‘marriage’ and still enjoy it’s full benefits.
Women, we can do better kiss
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 8:34pm On Dec 12, 2021
grin
JONNYSPUTE:
....I think is since they started listening to Blessing Okoro.ceo

Na joke o. grin
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by sisisioge: 8:44pm On Dec 12, 2021
Our men made them single parents....women havent been able to breakthrough the self impregnation phenomenon yet....a sperm that belongs to a man must be involved,whether through natural copulation or artificial insemination. Either way, na collective effort.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 8:56pm On Dec 12, 2021
sisisioge:
Our men made them single parents....women havent been able to breakthrough the self impregnation phenomenon yet....a sperm that belongs to a man must be involved,whether through natural copulation or artificial insemination. Either way, na collective effort.

Lo grin
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by efficiencie(m): 10:04pm On Dec 12, 2021
Timekeeper:
1. Is the essence of marriage no longer important to people?

2. Did the lady made a mistake by getting pregnant for an irresponsible man?

3. Is the lady so irresponsible that the man can live up with her, hence they separated?

4. Is it the unreadiness of both couples?

5. By mistake?

6. By choice

7. Death of a partner?


So sad seeing so many pretty ladies turned single Parent and I feel so bad.... These ladies should be wives and not single Parents...

Married people, abeg why the rise in single parenting these recent days?

This is the result of promoting sexual immorality and lack of proper upbringing. Today many have agreed that it is okay to fuuk extensively up to your mid 20s before settling down. How will a lady that has spent over a decade fuuking different sizes of sticks have a stable marriage with one man, how? The moment the thing starts to scratch her and her man is at work she will slide into her neighbor's studio so that the DJ can work on her itching hullabaloo. How will a man that has punctured so many holes and contributed to the widening of many other holes be content with one wife, how? It's just not possible na. This is in addition to the total absence of home training. Many ladies have horrendous manners and many men have a lot of horrible fantasies all as a result of the absence of home training. Many go into marriages with loads of dangerous secrets. It is becoming normal to hide body counts from one's spouse. It is becoming normal to even hide past children, abortions and even sexual disability from one's spouse. When you put all this madness together what we get is broken marriage after broken marriage.

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by kaboninc(m): 3:32am On Dec 13, 2021
sisisioge:
Our men made them single parents....women havent been able to breakthrough the self impregnation phenomenon yet....a sperm that belongs to a man must be involved,whether through natural copulation or artificial insemination. Either way, na collective effort.

Lol
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by kaboninc(m): 3:33am On Dec 13, 2021
efficiencie:


This is the result of promoting sexual immorality and lack of proper upbringing. Today many have agreed that it is okay to fuuk extensively up to your mid 20s before settling down. How will a lady that has spent over a decade fuuking different sizes of sticks have a stable marriage with one man, how? The moment the thing starts to scratch her and her man is at work she will slide into her neighbor's studio so that the DJ can work on her itching hullabaloo. How will a man that has punctured so many holes and contributed to the widening of many other holes be content with one wife, how? It's just not possible na. This is in addition to the total absence of home training. Many ladies have horrendous manners and many men have a lot of horrible fantasies all as a result of the absence of home training. Many go into marriages with loads of dangerous secrets. It is becoming normal to hide body counts from one's spouse. It is becoming normal to even hide past children, abortions and even sexual disability from one's spouse. When you put all this madness together what we get is broken marriage after broken marriage.

Lol
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by kaboninc(m): 3:55am On Dec 13, 2021
missimelda01:
Before now I used to think that women only get pregnant when they want to i.e it’s an intentional decision, but with the recent happenings I’m beginning to think otherwise
This new development is the reason some men think they can avoid ‘marriage’ and still enjoy it’s full benefits.
Women, we can do better kiss

Yes you can....
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by kaboninc(m): 3:55am On Dec 13, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
We are now in a free world.... grin grin grin


Gone are dose days ,when you can tie man with marriage or kids, now everybody is free to do whatever they want... no commitment again...

Yes. Very true
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by kaboninc(m): 3:56am On Dec 13, 2021
MsFaith:
A serious topic of discussion.

Aside those who were legally married before they lost their husbands or divorced, single motherhood is a no no.

It’s better to wait longer for marriage to happen than rush to have kids outside wedlock.

Abi...
Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by mosdii(m): 5:39pm On Dec 13, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Mariangeles(f): 6:30pm On Dec 13, 2021
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mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
[/s]

Seun! How long will you allow this kind of insanity on this forum?
DO SOMETHING WILL YOU!?

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Re: How Did Our Ladies Turn To Single Parent? by Timekeeper: 6:39pm On Dec 13, 2021
Mariangeles:
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Seun! How long will you allow this kind of insanity on this forum?
DO SOMETHING WILL YOU!?

Even though I don't agree with him, u can't get seun to ban him.. Everyone with their own decision na

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