You are right

Someone else will do it if you can't.

D etc is for nacking... Stop collecting money from him as well and stop nacking... So if d relationship no work out nobody go vex

Guys stop giving your girlfriends urgent 2k and all that they will see you as a simp and wont marry you after years only your wife deserves care and at least your cash will go to your children upbringing.

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

when you know your limits as a girl friend, you should know ur limit when it comes to money

Idiaaats feel they have the answer to everything....

It's not all guys that's take as advantage of people....

I have met a lady that did things out of love he had for a friend.... She's now his wife since 2013...

I know 2 other ladies that do all the things you are advising against, the are both married to the guys.

Ladies if it's in your nature to do things and do good.... Do it

Because at the end your good can never be rewarded with bad.

All these yeye talk of people that have not a half idea on how things work will just open their mouth waaaaaa

BadRadio:
stop sounding like a broken record... saying such nonsense should stop. U take delight in verbalising such nonsense because u have more like minds on Nairaland who will always glorify that thoughtlessness

He is close to the truth.

Officialhorlah:
Guys, Don't take the role of husband while dating, You're his boyfriend jooor!

You give money

You give more money

You will still give massive money

Etc.

Know your limits as a boyfriend abeg.

If she gets too much from you she'll make you her ATM and you become a Simp

Guess what !!!

She will keep u as his boyfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

So a boyfriend has only money to give while a girlfriend will go market, cook, wash clothes, clean house, some even fetch water and do abortion? Wow

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mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Hypnotized zombie!

You know say the thing dey shack. They won't know when they assume the role of a wife especially if it someone you truly love.

On a more serious note, during courtship, you're advised to do some chores for your husband to be. I'm not talking about mere dating between boyfriend and girlfriend.

Mature christian courtship.

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Don't be a fool in the name of being woke or getting likes.

Let me give you the flipside of your entire post.

1. Men should not be responsible in a relationship until marriage.

2. Men should not give any gifts of financial support in a relationship until marriage.

3. Men should not love in a relationship until marriage.

4. Men should not please their woman in relationship until marriage.

5. Men should neither wash, cook nor clean until marriage.

I'm sure you realise how foolish your post is now.

Whatever you enjoy in a relationship by all means do it
Do not however over-do what you will not be able to keep up with in marriage.

Some relationships will not end in marriage. Which could really hurt especially when you gave your all.

While some relationships will end in marriage.

Somehow like Vegas everybody go dey alright las las.

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Guys should stop spending on girls for the following

Making hair
Sending cards
Paying her bill
Paying for transportation
Paying for upkeep.

She's just your girlfriend and not your wife.
She will see you as just another ATM and wouldn't wanna settle with you.

Stupid post….just when u thought you had sense, BOOM! You let yourself down with this trash, and the MOD who pushed this to FP is as daft as you are

Everyday women dis, women that.. OP abeg getat!

nnenwa5:


So a boyfriend has only money to give while a girlfriend will go market, cook, wash clothes, clean house, some even fetch water and do abortion? Wow

If u actually had sense, u will know all you listed can be done with the same money….bar abortion, which I don’t see any reason u added it… get sense joor

Vice Versa

BadRadio:
stop sounding like a broken record... saying such nonsense should stop. U take delight in verbalising such nonsense because u have more like minds on Nairaland who will always glorify that thoughtlessness

@badradio mind your business that guy is our role model

That is y we have broken marriages everywhere.marriage is HONORABLE AND THE BED UNDIFILED.boyfriend girlfriend is a sin

WHITELIGHTER:


If u actually had sense, u will know all you listed can be done with the same money….bar abortion, which I don’t see any reason u added it… get sense joor

And if you get sense you will use that your money to employ house girl(how many of you can afford it?)

Women/girls often do those things when they're treated well in a relationship so the man would know she can also look after him.

Such a useless post

nnenwa5:

And if you get sense you will use that your money to employ house girl(how many of you can afford it?)

And if u have sense u will know cooking and doing laundry doesn’t make a woman a slave….continue with what u can’t finish, one day ur story will also hit front page and we know the rest….or does paying her bills make u her atm? Ode and Simp in one package

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Collecting money from him belongs to "role of a wife" too. They should stop that too

Men, women do whatever pleases you in your relationship, don't let someone with no knowledge of your relationship tell you what to do. You do good, you no do good na for your pocket. Person wey go marry you go marry you, person wey go jaapa go do so sooner or later. If it's meant to be it's meant to be and if it is not, ON TO THE NEXT ONE!

WHITELIGHTER:


And if u have sense u will know cooking and doing laundry doesn’t make a woman a slave….continue with what u can’t finish, one day ur story will also hit front page and we know the rest….or does paying her bills make u her atm? Ode and Simp in one package

And if you have sense, you will not call your girlfriend over to come and cook and clean house for you. Continue, na your type dey dey bitter because the girl moved on to a more stable guy with prospect. While you come to Nairaland to cry, wail, and lament how girls are useless.

topeka:
but even if you want to discipline yourself not to do domestic chores, it will be irresponsible seeing things in awry and not to add a little helping hands.

See, you're well brought up. That's the attitude there. It's enough. That's what many ladies lack.

I don't think this is done by every woman in a relationship. It is most likely done by those women who want a long term relationship with the particular individual. They are simply showing what they bring to the table. You most certainly can't want to be with someone long term and not show him or her what you bring to the table. It will be a daft man or woman who will take you to the alter or go there with you when there is no clarity on what you bring to the table. That is, apart from the men who are happy to marry liabilities/locusts and vice versa!

If you are a man who is self aware and know exactly what you're looking for, don't focus on her words . Focus on and examine her actions. That will show you how she really feels about you and what she really wants. It's that simple. However, I don't understand why a woman will be showing you what she brings to the table for two years. Show him what you bring to the table for six months and if he is not ready, japa!

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

You just said girlfriend...do girlfriends live with their boyfriends...if she does then they are not just dating but cohabiting..so a lady should wake up and leave the house without cleaning and washing at least? or you mean she shouldn't do any of this even at the occasional visit...then how does she show she will be a good home carer and a wife material.

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Relationships will be good if everyone knew their limits.

Rilwizy:
Make sure you are not collecting money from him too, he is your boyfriend not your father

Thanks

Seconded

BadRadio:
You are a wife material already but you don't have to overdo or try too much to impress him by going to his house and start doing domestic chores upandan.

You cook

You wash

You clean

Etc.

Know your limits as a girlfriend abeg.

If he gets too much from you just as he would when he decide to make you his wife then he won't propose to you, cos you are already doing what a wife should do. So he may have no need to ask you to be his wife.

Guess what !!!

He will keep u as his girlfriend for years without thinking about marriage.

Me i want am ooo. Na I.T to me.