Dear nairalanders, i want you guys to advice me on this issue. There is this girl i`ve been dating for over one year now; but the problem is that i`m not sure if this girl really love me.I met her through my friend.I invited this gir lto my place of abode but she refused to come on the excuses that she doesn`t go out. i made further effort to make her come but prove futile. so, i decided not to persuade her any longer. i kept visiting her. but what really annoy me about her is that each time i call her she doesn`t seem to be excited about me. And in fact, she doesn`t call me and if she does that mean she want to demand for recharge card. And even if I send the card she will not call me. I`ve already get the girl off my mind now but i want to know if that is the right dicision for me to take.

She simply doesn't love you.

You should know that she doesn't like you.

I'm sorry to say this oo, in as much is its going to hurt, i just have to tell you.

Like the posters before me rightfully stated, she doesnt love you. If she does (Cos we're no mind readers, so we couldnt swear on it) then she has a very funny and weired way of showing it.

With that said, i suggest you have a talk with her.

I can understand that some girls in the name of being "reserved" and "uncheap" dont call nor text, but in a case where she remembers your phone number when she needs a calling/recharge card, then she's one of those greedy money-minded material girls i detest and you my guy gotto buckle up.

Are you her dad?? Don't get me wrong oo, its a good thing you're being such a loving caring boyfriend, very good but not when she's taking advantage of it . . comm'on if she has a right to your generousity, then she has an obligation of being a genuine girlfriend.

If her attitude doesnt change, show her to the door, you can do much better. A relationship should be reciprocal, and seems you my guy are doing a solo!!

Do you speak English with her? Maybe that's why.

has nothing to do with love my good man, she doesnt fancy u, period.

think of it like this, u recharge for her, she calls up the guy she fancy. worse still transfer some of your hard bought credit to him,

DAMN LIFE SUX doesnt it?

johny does she like u first b4 u even talk about love, well she isnt feelin u 4 sure mayb u need to tighten ur game if shes wot it bt since shes already askin 4 credit witout callin u she may have started playin u thinkin ur lame or cant handle a girl like her. when u visit her how does she act? does she smile, laugh, excited, do u she any green lights when u hangout wit her etc? some of this will tell u wat she feels and if u stand a chance wit her,

I believe
a guy should have a lot more important things to think about
than whether a girl likes you or not

Forget her dude.

the lady is a liability not an asset! she believes in a parasitism relationship. just forget about her before you go bankrupt!

She really isnt that into you dude. Just cut her off.