Whether it's this stupid culture that tells men that being
rejected by a women somehow is an invitation to pursue
her further, whether it's some backwards logic that tells
men the more a women says no the more attractive it is to
pursue her, or whether its men
who cant control their hormones, this has gotten ridiculous.
I'm in the middle of an argument on WhatsApp until my phone starts flooding with texts. My sister was crying and
complaining to me how some men in my Area keep
harassing her with obscene sexual innuendo and trying to
flirt with her despite repeated rejections. Now my little
sister use to dresses in shorts and a tank top when she works out, and yes men consider her extremely
attractive, so much so just about every guy in my
Area has tried to hit on her at one point or another. Now however she dresses and however attractive guys
thinks she is I dont give a damn. When my sister cant work
out without some Hot men, the same ones mind you,
constantly harassing her and making dirty comments to
her, then we need to have a talk
My sister doesnt wear make up and dress beautifully to
attract creeps; she does that because she likes to look
beautiful and pretty like a princess since that's who she is
To the person on WhatsApp I was arguing with I'm going to have
to put our debate on hold because of this emergency.
Looks like some men going to need a talk And to the men who do this, which to be fair most people
on this forum are respectful towards women and dont act
like this, but if you are one of those types of men who are
so desperate for a girl violating her boundaries even after
repeatedly being told no, please stop. Most women get
creeped the hell out by this and if they dont show it its
because many women are too scared to react strongly
knowing the power imbalance between men and women
And if you want to talk to a women you find attractive at
least have common sense and dont think making
comments about her body is cute. It may work for some
guys but in most cases its weird

Toast wey we don dey dey toast since 120B.C... Na your sister now...u come dey vex...

U just dey para for nothing, being a woman has its advantages and disadvantages....
One of them is advances from men...

If it’s the men that she likes now... she won’t tell you..she will smile and enjoy the attention.
Now it’s the men she doesn’t like... you and her don’t want us to hear word..


Please...we have bigger issues in Nigeria ..diesel is now 350 per liter