I'm at a loss here. If you can advise me, it'll be very helpful. I have two pretty girls and really can't make my mind on who to let go.

Joy

I met Joy about a year ago. She's pretty. Extremely pretty and fair, the way I like my girl. She's quite shy and gentle but around me, she'll talk her heart till forever.

I love that she can gist and laugh at my joke. And I am 100% sure that she loves me. Like a lot.

On the other hand, she's not that passionate about achievement. I mean she will be happy if she becomes something in life. But that drive is not just there.

Not like she's lazy. No she's not. But when it comes to studies, I sometimes feel I have to force her to study her books.


She's 22 but kind of like a baby and always want me to be in charge especially in things that are important to her. She always want me to take the lead and some things I thought she should have done, she will still be waiting for a go ahead from me.

This is good, I understand but I sometimes just wish she takes the initiative to do those things. And she's scared of people. She sometimes can't say no and will go out of her way to do things just to make other people feel happy even when it's killing her.

And sexually, she's kind of selfish. Once she's satisfied, that marks the end. I sometimes think she's naive as she's still very young.

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Blessing

She doesn't talk much. Always laugh at my joke but she's kind of reserve.

Think of her as a girl that sits between been a born again Christian and the free world. She's like on that fence.

She kind of hold herself in high esteem and works really hard. I'm not yet in a relationship with her, she feels I'll distract her from her studies.

I know I can get her because I can see her already loosening up around me. I don't yet know much about her other than that she's very purposeful and extremely hard working.

She's very pretty too, but not like Joy. But the bottomline is, she's quite hard working and independent. I love that in a lady.

Not their real names o

Blessing

You never put your own attribute there, we don't know your likes and dislikes.

Face your studies well, don't come here posting that they are pregnant by mistake

Two are better than one.

How old are you? Sorry to ask?

Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww..
You wish.

Somebody suggests that:

Make the two ladies fight each other physically.

Go for the one that loses the fight.

E get why

Stick with what you have for now...


Joy is young... she will "mature" over time.

follow your heart

This man....No be juju be this

Yinkakolawole:
Two are better than one.

How old is blessing?

Women are scum
Women are thrash

Women are useless

Women are cursed

Women are animals

Spits spits

Women are scum

newbornmacho:
Women are scum Women are thrash
Women are useless
Women are cursed
Women are animals
Spits spits
Women are scum

Your mother is a scum
Oniranu!

Candidlady:
How old is blessing?

19

Mercychen:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww.. You wish.

Bittered soul...
Go get a life

SavageBoy:


Your mother is a scum

Oniranu!

Women are scum

Spits spits spits

newbornmacho:
Women are scum Women are thrash
Women are useless
Women are cursed
Women are animals
Spits spits
Women are scum

all these closet gays.

*spits

newbornmacho:
Women are scum Women are thrash
Women are useless
Women are cursed
Women are animals
Spits spits
Women are scum

Daah.. Wetin dem do you.. Calm down bikonu

Olunmercy56:
Face your studies well, don't come here posting that they are pregnant by mistake

lolz

Like my guy said up there..
2 is better than 1

Nyascobar1414:


Daah..
Wetin dem do you..
Calm down bikonu

Hopefully you don't experience these evil beasts

Crystalom3:
all these closet gays.


*spits

simp

Spits

I Could sense subtle bias from your description of Joy. Whatever the case, one thing is certain - No matter what we say here, at the end of the day you are likely to go with Blessing. It appears to me that Joy genuinely loves you, yet you plan displacing her with a new catch - If that is your way, keep this in mind; you will always come across someone better than your Gf/spouse, nothing beats contentment.So love what you have and cherish it, you may not realise how lucky you are untill you lose it.

Crystalom3:
19

hmmm
19 and 22

19>disqualified

okay 22 student or working?

newbornmacho:


Hopefully you don't experience these evil beasts

I no wan experience am oo

Candidlady:


hmmm

19 and 22


19>disqualified


okay
22 student or working?

E'hmmm abeg no dey ask jamb question for here

When am i getting my Xmas package from u?

SmellySperm:
E'hmmm abeg no dey ask jamb question for here
When am i getting my Xmas package from u?

When ur dick reach 9 inch

SmellySperm:
E'hmmm abeg no dey ask jamb question for here
When am i getting my Xmas package from u?

swallow calm pill
lemme finish this liverpool's game first. We talk bout your package

See wetin man dey reason... You never see life.

Just stay with the fair one..