December period is like judgement day for Nigerian men.

It is a period where family expects you to show love the most, female friends see as money making period with bros do Christmas /newyear for me. This is the period where most house rent expires and early January school fees (for those with kids) come knocking.

For me personally this period, I set my scale of preference only to attend to those dearest to me.


I have my mom whom I have settled
My siblings I have settled
My girlfriend I have settled
End of the year thanksgiving seed to God I have settled.

Come January I have my rent to renew... So for me it is going to be a quiet Christmas, no clothes, no outing, just me indoor with maybe my fiancee if she comes around.

I have female friends offline and online asking for Christmas and I don't even look at their faces, some I have had to block while calls from unknown numbers I don't pick this period because I know what the calls are


So Guys how are you coping with the demands of this period?

Am good, no be small thing sha but as man wey get sense I gat to make the demands work for me.

If you need anything come to my bed let talk about it then ' l will think about it' simple as ABC

Some ladies do all these too. So, no biggies. Just do the little you can and leave the rest.

**runs outta thread**

Mercychen:
Some ladies do all these too. So, no biggies. Just do the little you can and leave the rest.

**runs outta thread**

Are you daft? Where did the Op insinuate that Ladies don't have such burdens too? Nobody dey follow you argue abeg.

You people really have fish brains.

And as for the post, Only FOOLISH men respond to such requests from Undercover PROSTITUTES whose plan and purpose for you are to Milk you dry of your hard earned resources.

Mercychen:
Some ladies do all these too. So, no biggies. Just do the little you can and leave the rest.

**runs outta thread**

We know but this is for men, we will come to general table later

Lowkey... hope next year gets better

E no easy atall.... but I no go do pass myself

I give when I feel like
Nobody can put any pressure on me to give
If you ask and I don't give you,if I ask you don't give me too,if you feel like
I don't keep malice