Hi Nairaland, i felt the need to share this with you guys for i am beginning to feel like i am not okay.


I used to be a flirt , party, chop life and all of that, but for a year now , a lot have changed in me that i can't even tell how these changes came to be. I no longer find any of those lifestyles appealing to me. Could it be a sign of DEPRESSION?

No Friends to hangout with, (the few i had, are abroad), and I'm just addicted to the Internet(source of income).

What should i do to revert back to default settings?

There's time and season to everything son,

Move on.!!

reset to default settings like flirting is a good way of life?

you are becoming matured.
accept it.

brosom:
There's time and season to everything son,

Move on.!!

Hmmm! You have a point

anthonyuncle:
reset to default settings like flirting is a good way of life?

you are becoming matured.
accept it.

Minus the flirting part

Antell95:


Minus the flirting part

it is included.

let us run a check.

how has your finances been since you stopped those lifestyles?
increase or decrease?

anthonyuncle:


it is included.

let us run a check.

how has your finances been since you stopped those lifestyles?
increase or decrease?

Increase! But, you sound like a counselor? Are you sure it isn't signs of depression?

Worst of it is that i don't even follow football the way i used to, well, i can blame it on Ole..

most habits of mine just went AWOL

Antell95:


Increase! But, you sound like a counselor? Are you sure it isn't signs of depression?

this isn't depression at all.

you are encountering increase in one important area of your life.

what you need to do is (once in a while) take some time off, go to somewhere to chill, enjoy yourself, visit friends around, family members and relatives.

give yourself routine breaks

anthonyuncle:


this isn't depression at all.

you are encountering increase in one important area of your life.

what you need to do is (once in a while) take some time off, go to somewhere to chill, enjoy yourself, visit friends around, family members and relatives.

give yourself routine breaks

I'll see if this will work

Thanks for your time.

1. Maturity & Responsibility
2. Harsh realities of the Nigerian economy ( most bars and clubs now experience sales shortages and low patronage, as people have less money to throw around socialising)
3. Time: no more free time to lavish on frivolities as you have to spend more time online to earn some money). Your friends are equally investing their time to earn income!
4. Stupid covid

Saynoomore:
1. Maturity & Responsibility
2. Harsh realities of the Nigerian economy ( most bars and clubs now experience sales shortages and low patronage, as people have less money to throw around socialising)
3. Time: no more free time to lavish on frivolities as you have to spend more time online to earn some money). Your friends are equally investing their time to earn income!
4. Stupid covid

Give your life to Christ
And enjoy a free life in Christ

Nah Nah

Not a depression at all. You could have mistakenly open your third eye ( Chakra) without knowing.

Maturity , new information gathered and exposure could also be responsible.

The more you go out, the more you are vulnerable to whatever.

The more you stay at home, the more money you save.

The more you find comfort in being alone, the more you have time for life problems and solve them.

And in addition, we sometimes make use of too much energy ( brain energy) while hanging out compared to working .

How?

Most hangouts always go with drinks. With or without drink, you would want to flow with the conversation which required quick thinking and response . Now imagine when you are intoxicated, trying to be coherent would be somehow hard while at the same time, you wouldn't want to fup for getting high

Antell95:
Hi Nairaland, i felt the need to share this with you guys for i am beginning to feel like i am not okay.


I used to be a flirt , party, chop life and all of that, but for a year now , a lot have changed in me that i can't even tell how these changes came to be. I no longer find any of those lifestyles appealing to me. Could it be a sign of DEPRESSION?

No Friends to hangout with, (the few i had, are abroad), and I'm just addicted to the Internet(source of income).

What should i do to revert back to default settings?

The first question that popped up in my head was, how old are you?
This should give the best guide as to what advise/opinion to give, if you are serious.

Antell95:
Hi Nairaland, i felt the need to share this with you guys for i am beginning to feel like i am not okay.


I used to be a flirt , party, chop life and all of that, but for a year now , a lot have changed in me that i can't even tell how these changes came to be. I no longer find any of those lifestyles appealing to me. Could it be a sign of DEPRESSION?

No Friends to hangout with, (the few i had, are abroad), and I'm just addicted to the Internet(source of income).

What should i do to revert back to default settings?

Maybe you are just too busy and focused on hustling, which isn't necessarily bad. U might just need to make a conscious effort to create time for some of the things you miss.

Hope your hustle is legit sha? If not . . .






Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

whirlwind7:


The first question that popped up in my head was, how old are you?
This should give the best guide as to what advise/opinion to give, if you are serious.

25

Conwarden:



Maybe you are just too busy and focused on hustling, which isn't necessarily bad. U might just need to make a conscious effort to create time for some of the things you miss.

Hope your hustle is legit sha? If not . . .






Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

Abeg o, e legit.. I'm a blogger , develops website, creates ads copies n contents.

Antell95:
25

Unless you have other issues you don't want to mention, i see no problem here.
Life has phases. Some come earlier or later. Change is a constant thing.
Those vices you seem to have lost interest in, there's nothing wrong with that. You should be worried if you lose interest in EVERYTHING else, including upgrading your knowledge and earnings and every facet of life.
As you develop interest in better things, it will expose you to people with similar interests and friendship becomes inevitable.

Final advice: don't be afraid to be different.
In fact, be a lone wolf, if your nature desires it along the line. Just become better every day.
I am not in Nigeria, and 90% of my friends live in different countries. These are friends I made during high school and university days. We don't even communicate every day, but that doesn't change the basis of our friendship.

whirlwind7:


Unless you have other issues you don't want to mention, i see no problem here.
Life has phases. Some come earlier or later. Change is a constant thing.
Those vices you seem to have lost interest in, there's nothing wrong with that. You should be worried if you lose interest in EVERYTHING else, including upgrading your knowledge and earnings and every facet of life.
As you develop interest in better things, it will expose you to people with similar interests and friendship becomes inevitable.

Final advice: don't be afraid to be different.
In fact, be a lone wolf, if your nature desires it along the line. Just become better every day.
I am not in Nigeria, and 90% of my friends live in different countries. These are friends I made during high school and university days. We don't even communicate every day, but that doesn't change the basis of our friendship.

@bolded: Nothing hidden, i understand you very well.

Thanks for your input

Antell95:
25

case closed.. its a natural something.. maturity and responsibilities are settling in..
Very critical moment of your life.. I dey same age group. Baba e no easy.. every day na thinking. More scared of the future than being scared of death..

Abovebest:
Give your life to Christ
And enjoy a free life in Christ

helinues:
Nah Nah

Not a depression at all. You could have mistakenly open your third eye ( Chakra) without knowing.

Maturity , new information gathered and exposure could also be responsible.

The more you go out, the more you are vulnerable to whatever.

The more you stay at home, the more money you save.

The more you find comfort in being alone, the more you have time for life problems and solve them.

And in addition, we sometimes make use of too much energy ( brain energy) while hanging out compared to working .

How?

Most hangouts always go with drinks. With or without drink, you would want to flow with the conversation which required quick thinking and response . Now imagine when you are intoxicated, trying to be coherent would be somehow hard while at the same time, you wouldn't want to fup for getting high

The bolded is revealing