GurlFriend:

Oya give me lines in the story that 'gave me away' , as you claim

There are so many statements that gave you away in this your fiction. Every paragraph has it own clue to point out how fake this story is.

I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

Your first statement is the foundation of ur intention of making this thread. This is a situation whereby a particular woman has read a lot of bad stories that men tell about women and she is fed up. She decided to take a revenge on men by forming her own story. What do you think?

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick.

Women hardly accept this description about themselves. They will always tell you that they are the youngest even wen they can see deep wrinkles on their faces. You are trying so hard here to make your story look real. We know the trick.

He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

Evidence of fakes abound here.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone.

You sounds like someone who likes good sex. A woman that is a good sex lover cannot spend two years wt a man that has this kind of serious sex issue for 2 yrs and still goes ahead to marry him unless you are telling us that you get satisfactions from outside. Meanwhile, Mr. Kingsley already had a child before meeting you. So what is that thing too special about him that you got stuck to him?

I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

There was an agreement between both of you not to sleep night over till after ur wedding. You went to his apartment. You did not call him from the time u went there you waited till 10pm he came back. Who does that. A man that u will be getting married to few weeks did not come back home till 10pm and you did not call. That means if he had stayed till 1am you will still not call, meanwhile, you were not supposed to sleep over and you said you don’t which to spend the hot evening alone in ur apartment. The person you came to be wt was not around and u did not bother. Did u planned to stay with his empty apartment or with him?

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time.

Why did u single out this file in his Laptop to ask what the content was? Which other file in his laptop did you ask him about it’s content outside 'Don Quixote.exe? This line looks suspicious.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

If you were as shocked as u want us to believe, you may not even have the appetite to eat not to talk of when the food was not already cooked. After crying you still went to the kitchen and prepare dinner. (Oh, you planned sleeping over?). Do you carry Lexotan around or you went out to get it from a Chemist shop?

Kingsley came back with a male friend. Guilt all over his face. He couldn’t give coherent answer. You concluded that the guy is his homosexual partner. You “yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parent’s house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.” Just for seeing two males not that u caught them doing anything ungodly. Then the guys started begging you. Begging you for what naa? Is he a fool to accept a suspicion as grave as dat. Even if he is guilty. U did not catch him in the act.
Finally, you went to ur parents and told them your suspicion and they are already making arrangement to confront Kingsley’s family for cancelation of the wedding and labeling Kingsley a confused man even without hearing from him. What kind of family do u have?
You tried to say much in this ur fiction and at the end left many loopholes. That is why a Lawyer will always tell his client to respond with very few words.

Yes ooo
Marriage is peaceful
I can attest to it

Amotolongbo:
Seems like there should be another section for boyfriends and girlfriends issues on Nairaland.

Married people who have legal commitments and backups don’t have as much issues as these gf and bf people.

Imagine having to struggle with another man (not woman like one) for one’s partner’s dick

lovchalice:

Yes ooo
Marriage is peaceful
I can attest to it

And we are enduring the little storm in it

siofra:

This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

But as you fine reach you still dey vex for men-folk . Babi coolu ya tempa

Elporo:
Sorry, can't relate. I have long accepted gay people as humans. If we have to live with Feminists - that want to destroy men, why not the rainbow people.

As for your 2 years; Men have given far more to women and got nothing back.

Like you said you still attract boys. Hopefully, you won't be heading to Shiloh anytime soon.

And just so other people know. Nigerian women are fatter than Nigerian men, in or out of marriage.

I don't think the issue is primarily about sexuality but rather about deception.

OP, consider yourself very, very lucky. You could have discovered this after the marriage and/or after you’ve got a child/children for him. Then you’ll feel irrevocably screwed.

You’ll be fine, eventually. Just ensure you open your eyes widely.

GurlFriend:
I see a bunch of threads here created by guys who see nothing good in the women folk, but if I start writing about the evils that men commit, the mods may move the thread to the literature section.

My Experience

I am pretty, well kept and groomed and at an age where although I may not be a spring chick, I am still young enough to attract attention from guys in their early 20s who have no qualms about toasting their elder sister's age mates. I have had my fair share lovers but I am currently sworn off men till such a time I recover from the trauma of my latest experience in the hands of the 'ejaculating gender.'

My now ex, let's call him Kingsley was supposed to be a godsent. He is fair, heavily bearded, handsome and a single father. He is also terrible in bed. TERRIBLE. He doesn't last more than 4 minutes, and once he reaches the four minutes mark, he spurts his disgusting seed into the condom and goes limp for the rest of the time with him. Even if I squeeze and massage his small member like bitter leave, he will remain limp like golden penny noodles.

That did not stop me from giving two years of my life to him because I genuinely loved him and felt I could cope with the terrible sex; man shall not live by nacks alone. I had met his family, he had met mine, we were literally 5 and 6. We fixed the wedding for January 8 next year. I'm looking at the stupid IV as I'm typing this.

So we closed for the year at my work place on December 24th and I decided to spend the evening with him. We had agreed that no more nights over till the wedding since it was barely a month away, so we might as well start living right before God. None the less, I had closed by 2pm, I didn't look forward to spending the whole evening in my hot apartment alone so I, against better judgement went to his place and let myself in. His line of work doesn't give him the luxury of closing early like me, so the apartment was also empty but he has a generator and AC.

I settled in, began watching movies on his laptop. I don't know the devil that pushed me to leave the film I was watching to start snooping through his files. In my two years of dating I have never gone through his phone or PC because if you cherish your peace of mind, never snoop through your partner's devices otherwise you will see things. What you are looking for, you will find it.

He has this folder in his laptop called 'Don Quixote.exe' which I see all the time. I asked him what it was some time back and he casually said they are program files and if I mess with them, I will disorganize his laptop. The same devil I had earlier mentioned pushed me to open Don Quixote, and behold, what did I see?

Gay porn. Man nacking man. Woman nacking woman. My fiance is gay, I think. Or bi-sexual. I don't know. My hands are shaking again.

I'm so hurt. Photos upon photos of homosexual and lesbian contents. But this is not where the story ends.

After the initial shock of these disgusting photos, I was confused, shocked, disappointed. I quickly shut down the laptop, prepared dinner (Indomie) and cried myself to sleep on the bed because I'm a very emotional person. I took Lexotan so I could sleep.

Around 10, I think, Kingley came back. He didn't know I was in the house because I left the lights off. He, however didn't come back alone. He came back with a guest. A male guest. I know this dude is his lover because I know him from the office and I have always been suspicious of his sexuality. What kind of masculine man wears purple skinny jeans and wiggles his bum when he thinks no one is watching? I also saw a TikTok video of this guy dancing, wiggling his bum and twirling his dreadlocks?

That is the colleague Kingley brought home by 10 in the night.

Anyway, Kingley walked into the bedroom, saw me and the guilt written all over his face made me ask him who was in the parlour with him after hearing another male voice. When he couldn't give a coherent answer, I went to the parlour and saw Uncle Purple Skinny jeans. Now added to the gay porn I discovered in his laptop, you will not blame me for having a meltdown. I yelled, screamed, cussed, threw his ring into the toilet and flushed it. I ordered Uber to my parents house that night and spent 25th chopping breakfast with tears.

Two years, with a bi-sexual man. Or maybe he is gay himself. I don't know. He has been begging me not to expose him to his family, but it's too late. I have told my family and they intend to formally let his family know that their daughter cannot marry a 'confused' man, as my father says.

What do men want?! Two years of my life, plus all the wedding expenses, gone down the drain. I am so heart broken and humiliated.

I don't want to say men are scum because I have a wonderful father and loving brothers, so I will leave it. I'm done with men.

no big deal here. same thing men suffer from some women.

That's just humans for you

siofra:

This is what these redpillers do. 80% of the redpillers on this forum are homosexuals. Yeessss they are.


I'm sorry dear. Men are scum and useless. Disgrace him and tell all his friends. For two years he deceived you.

Since you're a very emotional woman I suggest you go to therapy because the months to come will not be easy for you at all.

But you'll heal and you'll be fine. Men areee scuuuummmm.

Your emotions are affecting your season of reasoning.

What does an homo has to do with red pillers?
Are you OK at all?

The op was in a relationship with a confused idiot and not a man!

Take care of yourself.You will be fine with time.

OP,
Which one is what does men want?
You dated a gay and classified him as a real man? So all the "men" out there are gays na abi?

I find this story incoherent and incongruous!!

You were in a relationship with a gay, A gay has nothing to do with a real man.

You're just looking for a way to insult the red pillers, and please if you must insult men, insult them with sense, because gays can never be part of "normal" people.

You are among the tattered unkept aboki ripping the asses* of young innocent boys in the mosque, spoiling innocent kids. You will pay with your anus dripping urine and feaces. Stupiddd SOG.

Qatar2022:

Frustrated hoe leave that young man and go to street where you belong. What a stupid reason to leave a man

Sure
I never knew it will be this sweet
I entered prepared for war

Amotolongbo:
And we are enduring the little storm in it

They are commiting an offense because they will continue to recruit innocent people to practice their queer lifestyles. The 14yrs sentence is not bad at all

Techguy96:

Alot of animals do practice homosexuality, lion is one of such. Being progressive by accepting them not by killing them or sending them to prison for 14yrs.

As long as they didn't commit any offense, being queer should not be an offense. That's what I mean by progressive.

lovchalice:
Sure
I never knew it will be this sweet
I entered prepared for war

You prepared for worse, but you were disappointed and have the best side of marriage.
If you had prepared for peace and tranquil, you may likely end up being disappointed

Say who? Always talking trash.

Toks2008:

Very very sad.

To find husband no easy o

Very sensible comment. Exactly the same thing I keep saying.

franciskaine:
bros, nature dint create dem queer, they created themselves queer. You either make laws to prevent others joining dem or watch the entire population go into it.

Really sorry about your experience.

Let’s shame them here jor

GurlFriend:

There is one popular guy on TikTok that people call 'uncle'. He is not a Nigerian, I think. This skinny jeans guy acts exactly like Uncle, even down to the dancing part. Uncle likes one trending song by Arya Star

Walkee:
majority of men infected with HIV got it from women who pretend to be normal girlfriend in the after but slip out in the evening to go do 5k hook up

HIV is more rampart among gay men than heterosexual couples. Shift your purple tight wearing ass away from my sight. Eeiish

Techguy96:

Alot of animals do practice homosexuality, lion is one of such. Being progressive by accepting them not by killing them or sending them to prison for 14yrs.

As long as they didn't commit any offense, being queer should not be an offense. That's what I mean by progressive.

Sebi lion dey live for your backyard ni? How many times have you seen a lion in your lifetime to validate the nonsense you put up there?
This rotten homosexual LGBT lifestyle is destroying America and also showing its ugly head down here. No wonder, China is doing well by taking sissy men off TV.
The more you view something, the lesser your dislike for it. The more normal it begins to look.
Now pedophiles are pushing seriously to be accepted. Mad people.

JooEeL:
Why should you be so jealous your boyfriend is gay?

Is it more painful than cheating on u with a more beautiful woman? Mtcheew.

She how she dey shout for nairaland seff.

I keep saying it: cheating is not so painful to these ladies if you think about it. Most know their place because they know the efforts, especially financially, than men make in a relationship.

A homo is spotted.

AGurlnoname:
the worst thing that can ever happen to you, is going through a man's browsing history, videos, hidden vault on his phone and WhatsApp chat.

Men are hypocrites.

Don't worry don't give up on love, you'll soon find the right one.

You said "men are hypocrites" and you said "you'll soon find the right one", conflicting phrases in one sentence, you mean she'll find the right hypocrite. An'oloriburuku lo po ju nnu yin se, confused iguana.

I like your writing skill. You have a way of adding humour to your story telling ability. Keep it up.
How could you have spent 2 good years without noticing any sign of his confused sexuality?
It is never late to find true love. Do not give up in your quest for true love. My sympathy for the heartbreak and wasted years.