2kurupt:

Success is not just about the amount of money in your bank account.

[s]Being educated especially tertiary education goes beyond just learning how to read & express yourself. It opens up your mind, makes you exposed and builds your character. That's why University degree certificates say you've been found worthy in "character and learning". No amount of money or maturity gives you these attributes..[/s]

Marriage is a very complex union that the couple must be vibing at very intricate levels, which might be a problem if they're not matched educationally.

2kurupt:
It's her choice why argue with her?

Meanwhile I support her because most men in the uneducated category have serious case of insecurity and trust issues when dealing with their educated wives.

Evolutionlove:


Not In Shiiithole Though, Too many Agberos with that yeye and worthless certificate. I Spit on you Zombies.....

Kobojunkie:
That na the only thing you note of the "uneducated/unenlightened" Nigerian mind?

2kurupt:

Success is not just about the amount of money in your bank account.

Being educated especially tertiary education goes beyond just learning how to read & express yourself. It opens up your mind, makes you exposed and builds your character. That's why University degree certificates say you've been found worthy in "character and learning". No amount of money or maturity gives you these attributes.

Marriage is a very complex union that the couple must be vibing at very intricate levels, which might be a problem if they're not matched educationally.

Vision101:
@Lamanii22
I never wanted a degree educated man anyway, I have always wanted to be more educated than my husband I don't know why....



@me
So that you will dominate him and be making shakara for him.

Mariangeles:
No formal education as in non at all?

Well, as long as he's vastly learned, keeps learning, confident, successful, we understand each other and flow conversation wise, why not?

Kobojunkie:
How many times has this happened to you with naija folks abeg?

*disclaimer, me sef wey I dey talk, i no be graduate .

2kurupt:

Success is not just about the amount of money in your bank account.

Being educated especially tertiary education goes beyond just learning how to read & express yourself. It opens up your mind, makes you exposed and builds your character. That's why University degree certificates say you've been found worthy in "character and learning". No amount of money or maturity gives you these attributes.

Marriage is a very complex union that the couple must be vibing at very intricate levels, which might be a problem if they're not matched educationally.

SeaTrade:
Not like it matters but he is right.
How do I know?Well, I have no degree and trust me,you really won't notice if I don't tell you.
And I mean in all aspects of life,the whole nine yards.
There's no exposure education can give you that you can't give yourself if you add value to yourself and work through the ranks.
I would love to go back to school,not for societal acceptance but for my love for mathematics and maybe participate in more complex solutions/things asides running a trading enterprise.

Kobojunkie:
You have no formal education - didn't even finish high school- , , or you just didn't graduate college, which one?

SeaTrade:
Dropped out at 300l in the university.

Mariangeles:
No formal education as in non at all?

Well, as long as he's vastly learned, keeps learning, confident, successful, we understand each other and flow conversation wise, why not?

Skyview01:


Honestly, it will depend on the connection i have with each of them.

Naturally, i would want to go with the one with education but occasionally, you come accross individuals are exceptional even without a formal education.

I think it will be a case by case basis consideration.

Munzy14:

Hmmmmmmmmmmm...

Mariangeles:


Ngwa kwuo.

Munzy14:

I marala ihe m choro ikwu na..

Uche gi di mma as a liberal person, mana it doesn't work that way o, Even to 45%....A wu m nwoke, amara nwoke ibe m karia.
In fact ufodu nwoke choro ha jiri degree, ka Nwnunye ha jiri OND ma o wu NCE m, ma okwanu just O'level...

Just few men will allow their woman continue studying and acquire knowledge....Just my my kind though.

Naturally nwoke ahu ga adi go di insecure with udi mmadu gi di free spirited.

Otu a i na eji akparita nkata with guys ebe a freely, nwoke na agahu tertiary won't understand it that way o...O ga eche we ihe ozo...

In short o daba ahu...Unless ma oji ego, ga edi way ufodu omume ya...Mana ishi okwu wuzi ruo ole mgbe

Onwe hu kwa ihe kariri partner nwere nghota...The bigger part of life will be lived happier....Ego anahu azuta kwa happiness o..nani nghota ga emeli ya.

SeaTrade:
That "educationally" you talked about does not necessarily translate to holding a degree or classroom curricular activities.
There are some really smart people in this world,degree or no degree.
Money is not a criterion for intelligence as any idiot can make it by chance,true no doubt about that but value and continuity is.
Do you know the kind of strategic thinking,advanced calculations and scheming ,lobbying,interactions it takes to build a succesful enterprise?How many of the so called "literates" can do that?
Have you ever thought to yourself how some supposed "illiterates" run succesful engineering firms and businesses?
Now would you say someone that has built such value chain isn't educated because he has no degree?
Do you know the kind of people he/she mingles with and thr places they've been?
What sort of exposure do you people keep talking about that you can get in school that these people don't have?
The stereotype of seeing the so called "illiterates" as not exposed is really naive if you ask me .

Mariangeles:


Eeeh?

I didn't think of it this way o. Nsogbu kariri.
Owu ihe m jiri tinye confidence na the list.

SeaTrade:
That "educationally" you talked about does not necessarily translate to holding a degree or classroom curricular activities.
There are some really smart people in this world,degree or no degree.
Money is not a criterion for intelligence as any idiot can make it by chance,true no doubt about that but value and continuity is.
Do you know the kind of strategic thinking,advanced calculations and scheming ,lobbying,interactions it takes to build a succesful enterprise?How many of the so called "literates" can do that?
Have you ever thought to yourself how some supposed "illiterates" run succesful engineering firms and businesses?
Now would you say someone that has built such value chain isn't educated because he has no degree?
Do you know the kind of people he/she mingles with and thr places they've been?
What sort of exposure do you people keep talking about that you can get in school that these people don't have?
The stereotype of seeing the so called "illiterates" as not exposed is really naive if you ask me .

2kurupt:
I understand your stand point but please let's not make it seem like we're undermining the abilities of non-graduates, that's far from what I have in mind. My take is on a person's reasoning and mentality influenced by years of attaining formal education up to tertiary levels. This has its bearing on decision making in marriages and how couples relate with one another.

Like you said in response to someone you have already acquired tertiary education to an extent thus you don't even come close to these category of persons.

Just last December I know a lady who's husband divorced after years of a toxic marriage that was fuelled by the difference in educational status between her and the husband, the man in question is an Omata (don't know if I got the spelling right) as in Igbo land those guys that left for business training early in life as against going to the University. This is just a marriage of less than 6 years with 3 children.

The level of distrust & insecurities by the ex-husband which ultimately ended the marriage would have been avoided if he was up to par with the lady educationally.

Skyview01:
I absolutely love your reasoning.
Learning can occur outside of the forewalls of a formal institution.