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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 12:10pm On Nov 03, 2022
Dathypebruv:


whats the 411 ?
takeoff is gone damn!

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 4:32pm On Nov 03, 2022
leetylee:
takeoff is gone damn!

You just knew ?

How can I wey Dey Ewon know news pass you grin

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 1:12pm On Nov 04, 2022
Dathypebruv:


You just knew ?

How can I wey Dey Ewon know news pass you grin
grin
You nuh go leave me... I really nuh dey active and I nuh first Believe am cuz it's unreal....

He come be like say Na one of MK distant relative dem off dude has been sad

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 4:48pm On Nov 04, 2022
leetylee:
grin
You nuh go leave me... I really nuh dey active and I nuh first Believe am cuz it's unreal....

He come be like say Na one of MK distant relative dem off dude has been sad
fr

Haven't heard from him tho
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 7:27am On Nov 07, 2022
Dathypebruv:
fr

Haven't heard from him tho
blud, I wish you the best today, may it be in your favour.

Fingers crossed cool
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 11:32pm On Nov 07, 2022
leetylee:
blud, I wish you the best today, may it be in your favour.

Fingers crossed cool

Thanks bro, got a later date
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 10:20pm On Nov 09, 2022
I
Dathypebruv:


days are the same to me, nothing new under the sun

join the convo

Cc.
@Haynnie
Manny whatsup ive been off and on here most times
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 10:20pm On Nov 09, 2022
Dathypebruv:


days are the same to me, nothing new under the sun

join the convo

Cc.
@Haynnie
Gee I’m late
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 9:21am On Nov 12, 2022
Haynnie:
Gee I’m late
You wey i see for ashawo thread grin

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 12:01pm On Nov 12, 2022
Dathypebruv:
You wey i see for ashawo thread grin
I dey there na but not active grin
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 5:09pm On Nov 12, 2022
Haynnie:

I dey there na but not active grin
na so, i also sight you for food section

boy dey h,come do small tin for me make i take follow up my stomach infrastructure budget for here

nor be dis everyday shakpa wey wan kee me grin

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 9:41pm On Nov 12, 2022
Dathypebruv:

na so, i also sight you for food section

boy dey h,come do small tin for me make i take follow up my stomach infrastructure budget for here

nor be dis everyday shakpa wey wan kee me grin
Bro I called u back but the network no dey available
Anyways send aza make I drop small thing wey dey my hand for u. You go dey aiite ong
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 6:51pm On Nov 14, 2022
Haynnie:

Bro I called u back but the network no dey available
Anyways send aza make I drop small thing wey dey my hand for u. You go dey aiite ong

correct g,i go text am for your dm now

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 7:17pm On Nov 14, 2022
Dathypebruv:


correct g,i go text am for your dm now

Seen
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 7:34pm On Nov 14, 2022
Haynnie:
Seen
thanks my gee,appreciate 100

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 10:41pm On Nov 14, 2022
Dathypebruv:
thanks my gee,appreciate 100
Bless God
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 8:31pm On Nov 15, 2022
Haynnie:
Bless God
Please post MK album link here and review

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 11:10pm On Nov 15, 2022
Dathypebruv:
Please post MK album link here and review
Ok
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 11:16am On Nov 24, 2022
Haynnie:
Ok
404 lifestyle

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 11:18am On Nov 24, 2022
i lost access to my account yesterday and its going to be tough Recovering it from here sad

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 3:14pm On Nov 25, 2022
Dathypebruv:
i lost access to my account yesterday and its going to be tough Recovering it from here sad
Facebook??
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 3:51pm On Nov 25, 2022
leetylee:
Facebook??

Yeah but its tricky shit, sometimes I'm logged out and other times I have access

Maybe due to network because its very poor here
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by jomarick(m): 4:24pm On Nov 25, 2022
Old story/folk tale of about 10years ago. This guy still dey use am dey form real story shocked
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Laturuturu: 4:29pm On Nov 25, 2022
Dathypebruv:
Something happened in this December that shook my entire being.

We have this guy that has been barbing my son's hair for over a year now. He does home service for us. But this particular weekend, he could not come. He said he was extra busy and if the barbing was that expedient, I should bring Simon to his shop. I didn't have any other alternative, so we went. He was busy when I got there, two more people were on queue as well, so I had to drop my son with his aunt there.

When I got back there to pick them up, I could not recognise my son. He had given him a new look. He barbed off the whole hair. The whole effing hair. I was stunned, no angry...No I was mad. Is mad even the right word? I was on the loose. Both vocally and facially. This is the same guy that has been barbing my boy for years. How could he have forgotten his trademark cut. The punk style (I'm not sure I know what the name is though). But that style that they'll leave a lil bit in front with a parting slant in between. I was enraged. I told him he was stupid and blind. I called him idiot. He told me he has forgotten his hairdo or so. I didn't even bother to listen to his explanation. I threw the money on the floor and left.

All through my drive home, I was still bitter at him. I kept cussing him beneath my breadth. Simon, obviously unaware of the whole situation was playing and having so much fun. He couldn't care less. When I got home, my spirit was troubled. I knew I had over-reacted. Is it not hair? Ordinary hair that will grow back within days. So I'm gonna trade this relationship because of hair? I told myself I just have to call him. I have to apologize.

And so I did. He was surprised. He pleaded with me on the phone. That his mind was elsewhere. And I shouldn't be angry. I was still fuming but I just had to accept the apology. Even if I rain fire and brimstone, the hair wouldn't glue itself back. He promised coming to my house the next day, Sunday to shapen the front. I didn't allow him do all that at his shop cos madness wouldn't let me be. I told him I was deeply sorry too. For letting out too much unecessary steam. For the abusive words. We ended the convo with laughter and my spirit became lighter.

Sunday came and we waited for him at the time he was supposed to come. I called his number and it kept ringing. Hours passed and it was still the same. I was already thinking, 'this people have come again'. After a while, I decided to take my son to his shop. If Mohammed cannot go to mountain, at least let mountain go to Mohammed. We got there and it was locked. 'No wahala' I thought. His house is just a stone throw to his shop. We arrived the house and we saw people wailing. 'What could have happened', I wondered to myself as I alighted from my car.

On getting there, I got one of the most shocking news of my life. This guy has passed away. This same guy gangan. Our barber. The one I saw yesterday. The one that was seemingly hale and hearty. I was told he died on his way to the theatre. He had been battling kidney problems. He has been managing his health. He told no one except his siblings. It became severe on Saturday evening and he had to be rushed to the hospital. My tears became uncontrollable. I felt so much pity for his aged mum. I was mad at myself. So he was sick, that yesterday. He has been sick...Ohmaigod! Even though I had mended my wrong, I was still frigging mad at myself. I cried and cried. A young nice guy, cut at his prime.

I got a lot of lessons from this experience.

●Be slow to anger, even when you have every reasons to
●Give people the opportunity to express themselves, even if you are convinced they'll talk trash. There might just be a lil sense in their explanations.
●React less when you are hurting. You never can tell the deep shit the other party is going through.
●Be empathic. Be sympathetic
●Learn to let go of things that cannot be changed
●Say sorry even though you are at the receiving end. It doesn't make you less of what you are. It only shows you value the relationship more than your ego.
●Forgive that person even though you are deeply hurt.
●Forgive again.
●Las las, forgive.

Make that call today, apologize, say you are sorry, let go. I know you are still grieving about the hurt, the betrayals. If the altercation is beyond saying sorry, if the wound is deep and can't be in any way covered, if the friendship can't be in any way re-ignited, just let go of it in your heart.

It's very much possible!

DECLOGG YOUR HEART OF UNECESSARY TOXIC FEELINGS!

Bury it with 2021.

Wishing us all a triumphant and bitter-free entry into 2022.

I'm glad I made that call.



You are right Atiku can't win in the eastern part of Nigeria. I agree with everything you said.
Valid points

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 4:34pm On Nov 25, 2022
Dathypebruv:


Yeah but its tricky shit, sometimes I'm logged out and other times I have access

Maybe due to network because its very poor here
probably
What’s good though?
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 3:34pm On Nov 27, 2022
Laturuturu:




You are right Atiku can't win in the eastern part of Nigeria. I agree with everything you said.
Valid points
grin
Laturuturu:




You are right Atiku can't win in the eastern part of Nigeria. I agree with everything you said.
Valid points
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 3:36pm On Nov 27, 2022
leetylee:
probably What’s good though?
happy sunday gee, looking forward to next month/year

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Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by leetylee: 8:26pm On Nov 30, 2022
Dathypebruv:


happy sunday gee, looking forward to next month/year
man not without you around
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Haynnie: 9:13pm On Nov 30, 2022
Dathypebruv:


happy sunday gee, looking forward to next month/year
Frfr?
Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(m): 12:54pm On Dec 02, 2022
leetylee:
man not without you around
GOD speed bro

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