SOBER MEN & LADIES CAN AVOID ANOTHER HONEY MOUSE TRAPS

If you cannot learn from past relationships and you keep on making the same mistakes based on beauty, endowment or bleached skin, blame yourself not your partners. There are sober men and women that have not learnt their lessons.

The hype that men can handle more women than women is a myth based on some cultural prowess of men. They rely on this sexual prowess past their boisterous age as a young man taking multiple ladies as wives or girlfriends. Other ladies trap rich or powerful men by one-try. They know their captives cannot meet their sexual needs. Both take advantage of each other.

It was not surprising as the parade of young ladies for the choice of a new Queen of Swaziland was unraveled by a young Nothando Dube that strayed in disguise into the comfort of King's Justice Minister, Ndumiso Mamba. Despite all the cultural consequences. https://www.news24.com/News24/Swazi-kings-wife-in-sex-scandal-20150430

So is the case of Alafin of Oyo who at an advanced age has an eye for pretty young ladies that want status. He explained that those young ladies decided on their own, after sending them to school, to stay with him. He likes them young and some of the ladies use him as a stepping stone. No matter how the relationships end, there is something in there for both.

However, that of Ooni of Ife is different because he is relatively younger and his choice of women are closer to his age compared to Alafin of Oyo. The motive for both partners remains the same in the case of Alafin and Ooni. The ladies are marrying up to enhance their profiles as symbols. Indeed, the title of Mrs or married men carry some advantages in a society.

Former Deji of Akure was deposed on 10th of June, 2010; for abusing his estranged wife he claimed was a walk-about. She liked visiting other monarchs around the country. There are various ways of enforcing chastity of women in different cultures but once a lady or a man has broken their sexual appetite, none of these works well. They only instill fear in some ladies.

The discipline and the fear of community ostracization may work better than the curse of mythical repercussions. It takes a great deal of discipline, loyalty and respect for women to wait their turns after a new wife as they get older; before the king gets to them, if ever. This creates resentment within. Whoever fulfil their long-term sexual duties is not our business.......

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If only we fear God as much as we fear and tremble before mere mortals and tradition; The only way to instill decipline and curtail lust and greed_ is the fear of God!

The discipline and the fear of community ostracization may work better than the curse of mythical repercussions. It takes a great deal of discipline, loyalty and respect for women to wait their turns after a new wife as they get older; before the king gets to them, if ever. This creates resentment within. Whoever fulfil their long-term sexual duties is not our business.

Unfortunately, trying to fulfill the desire of younger ladies with sex enhancing drugs can be fatal. One-night-stand could be the bragging rights of different partners in order to gain access and the privilege of the association. It is enough to claim pregnancy. Stories abound of secret service men that fulfill the duties to younger women that are sex starved in high positions.

We may then wonder why some of the prettiest folks marry ugly men or women. They may prefer average or ugly looking partners after some failures for security and peace of mind. Security in terms of what matters most. It may be your bank account, far from what is in your front pocket. Peace of mind in terms of not worrying about being attractive to everyone else. But neither is always the case. The ugly lady you want for peace of mind to avoid being serviced, may also be attractive to others thinking like you!

https://www.thenigerianvoice.com/news/304827/sober-men-ladies-can-avoid-another-honey-mouse-traps.html

How to know Honey Mouse Trap?

When they come out of nowhere and declare a crush on you.

Their first statement, they have their own money and don't need yours.

No wonder there are so many poor that cannot find a crush!