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How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Wizzy13: 8:12am On Jan 05, 2022 |
What Is A Simp? At first, simp (an abbreviation of simpleton) meant a foolish and gullible person. But then the internet culture came in and gave this word a completely new definition. Nowadays, the term simp is used to describe a man who willingly puts himself in a submissive position to women in hopes of winning them over. You might also say that a simp is someone who puts gals before pals. Note that there is a huge difference between a simp and a gentleman. First of all, when a simp is kind, he always wants something in return. On the other hand, a gentleman acts out of kindness and compassion. Secondly, a gentleman will never humiliate himself to get close to girls. Simp, however, has no problem with degrading himself if that means a girl would notice him. Finally, gentlemen prioritize their family and friends over a casual acquaintance. Contrarily, simps forget about their close ones once any girl is in sight. How To Tell If You Are A Simp There are telltale signs that you are a simp, some of which are included in the list below. • Putting yourself in an inferior position to women: If you constantly let girls walk all over you without confronting them, your friends are probably right for calling you a simp. It’s one thing to sacrifice your pride for the ones you love, it’s a totally different thing to be a pushover • You are overly devoted: Just to be clear, paying attention to girls is perfectly normal. What’s not normal is giving all of your energy, time, and money to a person that simply isn’t interested in you. If she friend- zoned you and you are still clinging on to her in hopes of winning her over, you are a total simp. • You use being nice as a tool: Unlike nice guys who are meek and polite, simps are simply manipulative. Their courteous behavior is just a trick, the point of which is to make women like them. However, once the charade is over, they can become quite rude and even aggressive. • You overvalue women you don’t even know: If a woman earns your respect just by being a woman, you might be a simp. It’s OK to appreciate and honor others, even if you don’t know them well. However, going overboard and obeying someone just because of their sex is a definition of simping. How To Stop Being A Simp 1. Don’t Be Anyone’s Butler As a simp, you are constantly tempted to act at her every request. But remember, doing so won’t make you look like boyfriend material. It will make you look like a desperate man that has nothing better to do… ever. Even if you are in a relationship, this behavior will not help you gain her respect. Instead, be respectful of your time. Even if your relationship is thriving, you shouldn’t sacrifice your whole life for it. Spend more time with friends and family, take up a hobby or sport. If her request is messing up your plans, politely refuse it. She might not like that response at the moment, but she will admire your enthusiasm and dedication. However, don’t be an a-hole about it. Respecting your time doesn’t mean completely avoiding her. You shouldn’t ignore her messages and calls, or fake chores to appear more reserved. Be available when she actually needs you, but don’t be her butler. 2. Stop Seeking Validation Bending over backward to get her compliment will get you nowhere. In fact, she will just think you are needy and insecure. Generally speaking, women are more attracted to confident men that are not desperate for anyone’s approval. And oddly enough, that attitude is more likely to inspire respect in others. However, confidence isn’t something you can fake. You’ll first need to convince yourself that you are someone worthy of admiration. You can do this by saying short affirmations in the mirror every day. Although this practice might seem silly at first, it will eventually make you stand tall, and the ladies will love it. 1 Like
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Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by jeffizy(m): 8:19am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Valid analysis and opinion. 1 Like |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by apostle96: 8:20am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Early morning tea
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Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by nickyj19: 8:22am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Nobody: 8:28am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Thanks for this. I hope God set our manipulative simpleton on Nairaland free. Simps are very disgusting. |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Nobody: 8:37am On Jan 05, 2022 |
This article is great...love the way you delianated the difference between the two.. Hope to see more of this from yourself.. |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by DannyXpress: 8:54am On Jan 05, 2022 |
As the Grand commander of the order of simping on nairaland GCOS I feel hurt |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Theboy21: 12:06pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
Op no worry.... no matter ur gentlemanism to girls u will always get fvcked up by em ... So a Simp is synonymous to a gentleman Just be streetwise n this will do |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Nyascobar1414: 4:17pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
A simp is a gentleman... You cant be a gentleman without being a simp. |
Re: How To Know You Are A Simp And Why You Should Stop Being A Simp by Godada(m): 4:50pm On Jan 05, 2022 |
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