Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

YES, BECAUSE THERE'S NO MORE SINGLE LADY IN THE LAND

NONSENSE AND 2020

Fmlao:
YES, BECAUSE THERE'S NO MORE SINGLE LADY IN THE LAND

NONSENSE AND 2020

Like seriously?

If you want peaceful and long life then the answer is having Baby mamas

#TEAM
Cr7
Davido
Bigwiz
Don jazzy

Have you ever heard of settling for less?

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

Wait for the elders with experience to show up...!!
This one go reach FP soon

Stomoney:
If you want peaceful and long life then the answer is having Baby mamas

#TEAM
Cr7
Davido
Bigwiz
Don jazzy

But i loathe sharing woman

She's begging? Like seriously?

You sounded like an innocent fellow or perhaps let me say a nice person with a decent lifestyle, I won't advice you to marry her, innocent people deserves the best.

That woman is meant for men with the same past life...(smokers, Single fathers, Brothel customers, e.t.c)

And you need opinions n validation?
Well I'd say no football match starts 0-1 or 1-0..
But all the same, your choice..
But why marry at all as a man, sit down son n think of the advantages n disadvantages

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

She's not
She's desperate to settle down and get a man for herself that's why she shows you her best sides.........

Any woman her shoe would do the same thing

playapayaski:
And you need opinions n validation?
Well I'd say no football match starts 0-1 or 1-0..
But all the same, your choice..
But why marry at all as a man, sit down son n think of the advantages n disadvantages

Bro I've tried it.we all need a woman in our lives,good or bad.

Which means you need a partner you can trust right?. The day you understand that those women can be trusted the day you free

Radicool:

But i loathe sharing woman

If you love her, go ahead. most Baby Mamas are good and hard working. I have a baby mama and if I have a chance of seeing half quality of her in any woman, I will marry her. I love her but genotype is keeping us away. Those who kept their baby from abortion due to fear of God are called Baby Mama while those that abort are called slay qu.... And so on.

Radicool:

Bro I've tried it.we all need a woman in our lives,good or bad.

That's what the society n everyone says, what do you say n think? Do you need a woman in your life or you're going with the societal norm..
If you think you do then what for? If the needs outweighs the nots then pls bro by all means get married. You only live once

I won't marry a single dad.

are you sure ur so-called dalliance with her didn't result in a fetus or fetuses

How will a young man start his marital life with unnecessary baggage? Not good at all. It is always good to start on a clean slate, if you get what i mean. Make single father marry single mother. Let the dead mingle with the dead.

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

Hmmmm....
OP sir...
Tis not about what people will say o...
Tis solely about YOU...
After all, if there's trouble in the home, it is not "people" that will suffer it, it is you...

Personally...
I won't marry a single mother...
I won't even marry a girl who is not a virgin...

But since you're considering marrying a single mother, you need to ask yourself some questions...

1. Why did her baby daddy go away? Could it be because of her character that pushed him away? ((I don't believe a man will abandon a woman without a very valid reason find out that reason first))...
2. Is there a possibility of him coming back?
3. If he comes back, can I deal with the thoughts of him, being with my step child? Can I accommodate his presence in her life?
4. Will I be second to the child in her life or will I be first? Am I allowed to scold & discipline the child where possible? ((Some single mothers are very possessive of their children o, even in marriage))...
5. Am I willing to take responsibility for the mother and the child?
6. What happened in the past that resulted in her being a single mother?
7.....

OP sir...
Ask questions o!!!!!!!
Investigate her past o!!!!
Marrying a single mother is at a whole different level from marrying a single lady o...
Don't take chances...

Good luck Chief...

Don't do it

Favfables1:


Hmmmm....
OP sir...
Tis not about what people will say o...
Tis solely about YOU...
After all, if there's trouble in the home, it is not "people" that will suffer it, it is you...

Personally...
I won't marry a single mother...
I won't even marry a girl who is not a virgin...

But since you're considering marrying a single mother, you need to ask yourself some questions...

1. Why did her baby daddy go away? Could it be because of her character that pushed him away? ((I don't believe a man will abandon a woman without a very valid reason find out that reason first))...
2. Is there a possibility of him coming back?
3. If he comes back, can I deal with the thoughts of him, being with my step child? Can I accommodate his presence in her life?
4. Will I be second to the child in her life or will I be first? Am I allowed to scold & discipline the child where possible? ((Some single mothers are very possessive of their children o, even in marriage))...
5. Am I willing to take responsibility for the mother and the child?
6. What happened in the past that resulted in her being a single mother?
7.....

OP sir...
Ask questions o!!!!!!!
Investigate her past o!!!!
Marrying a single mother is at a whole different level from marrying a single lady o...
Don't take chances...

Good luck Chief...

Thanks a lot.I appreciate this.

Quality20:
are you sure ur so-called dalliance with her didn't result in a fetus or fetuses

No,thanks.

There's nothing honourable about it, but If u have tested her am round and she passed.... I think your heart Is there

Apply wisdom, did you ask questions how comes the baby and who was responsible?

Don't even try it.

The only reason you should consider it is if you are extremely broke and she's extremely rich.

Are you a Single Dad?

If it's a No, then forget about it, there's nothing honourable there.

Leave Single Mums for Single Dad's.

She may be good though, but the Single Mums I know are hoes.

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

You do realize that you're going to be financially responsible for her child right?

Baffles me how any sane young man would start his married life with a step-father title.

Her desperation and single-mum status should set off alarms bells in your head, but the simp in you won't let you take note.

Radicool:
Good morning friends.
Pls i need your candid advice.
I have never been married.I had a dalliance with a single mum sometime last year and now she wants marriage.
Infact,she's begging for it.
I have tested her in many ways and she passed.she is hardworking and submissive.
I am confused.She has proved she is serious in everyway but what will people say?

I dont think u should care wat other ppl think or say. If u make each other happy and shed make a good wife thats wats important. Ur the one gotta live the life not the ppl whos opinions u ask for. Ppl will say wat they gotta say then go on with their lives n here u were making decisions for ur own life on wat other ppl think. I think u should just do wat u want.

The problem isn't in marrying single mother, the problem is, are you emotionally and financially capable to provide for another man's child without suffering that child?

Ask yourself that question, if you believe you can do that, then go ahead to marrying her.

The problem is the baggage they come with. Apart from that they can make wonderful wives having seen the evils of life inside and out unlike some young girls who think the entire world revolves around them