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Mhen...

OP don talk en own finish , wetin I know be say the difference between all the outcomes of marriages na understanding cum perception.
Why? e get ones wey dey share all theswe wey OP mention still dey enjoy their marriage, come get ones wey no share them still dey OK, come get ones wey our country dey cater for them finances and our police them dey help for house chores still their matter dey FP for media.

Na as you make your bed na so you go carry put head.

caesymore:
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IMHO these are failed ways to reason...

pinkbarby:
A man carries out financial duties nd d woman helps once in a while or when he's not strong. A woman is in charge of chores duties nd d Man helps once in a while or when she's not strong. This is a Perfect balanced equation.

this is only perfect to some people....if your wife earns more than you then she should pay more, same as if you have a part time job while she has two jobs and works 15hs a day then YOU should do the chores etc its never a black or white issue, everyone can/should adapt for the wellbeing of the family.

There is a huge difference btw helping with duties and sharing of duties.

all duties can be changed/improved/switched etc

Men should stop the mentality of sharing financial duties with women, As women will not share the house chores duties with men.

says who?! you do what you desire in your life and let others do what they desire...

Stingy Men, Lazy men, Redpillers, promiscuous men Etc won't like

most especially, men with common sense wont like the above BS

When boys and girls or men & women are leaving in a house as colleagues, friends, siblings or relatives, there will be sharing but in marriage, it turns to "help".

marriage isnt a military camp...you both do what is best FOR THE FAMILY...if your wife works long hours while you dont and then you come home and do nothing to help the family, and instead wait for wife to come at 10pm to clean cook etc then you are living in la la land.

A man cannot do everything that a woman can do like carrying of pregnancy & breastfeeding. So it can't be shared but "help".

just because a woman can have a baby doesnt mean she is any different than a man when it comes to having a job and taking care of the family through paying the rent and chores.

I don't completely agree with this.

Ahmed0336:
I don't completely agree with this.

So what do you agree with??