Hello Nairaland,
I have a very serious situation at hand - my girlfriend - she spends greater percentage of her time on social media particularly Facebook and WhatsApp. When she eventually gets tired of those, she heads straight to her media files and start watching movies. When I tried to explain to her that she should also try and surf the net make researches on various topics instead of wasting data on things that add little or no value to her it becomes problem and what's worst, she will begin to make you feel like she's doing the right thing and you are doing the wrong one. Raising her voice and proving she is always right. I need help please.

Maybe it's an addiction. You need to cut her off from the source of her addiction.

Aidejay:
Maybe it's an addiction. You need to cut her off from the source of her addiction.

It’s not an addiction. Her brain is empty. I had exactly the same experience in the past. Absolute nothing inside her brain.

Please leave that girl alone. If you don't like the way she's behaving go and look for another girl.

Normally cha,any banny wey dey spend more time on social media than working on how to better herself,na coded hook up babe she be . Op, take it or leave it,the day wey you go mistakenly open any of her social media platform,I swear you go put your hands for your head for the kind chats wey you go see

She's not matured enough for a relationship.

The relationship part of her brain is filled with omah lay, tiktok, and Fireboy.

So the relationship no fit work for now......if you like go dey force am....Na you go still cry las las

e go hard for this your babe to know something good o

Holly Gram

I no one CAPRISUN any mater on top dis MATTER


it's SATURDAY


Make I just HIGH my WEED jeje and clean my KALA make e SHINE WELLA



WTF MAN

Snakeeyes10:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a very serious situation at hand - my girlfriend - she spends greater percentage of her time on social media particularly Facebook and WhatsApp. When she eventually gets tired of those, she heads straight to her media files and start watching movies. When I tried to explain to her that she should also try and surf the net make researches on various topics instead of wasting data on things that add little or no value to her it becomes problem and what's worst, she will begin to make you feel like she's doing the right thing and you are doing the wrong one. Raising her voice and proving she is always right. I need help please.

If she had spent all her time with men, u will still be the one complaining. Bro, allow her to kill boredomness. If u were in her shoes, what would have been doing?

Grab her fone then read her chats. When you're done,I'm sure you won't be here asking for help

Just run for life she is addicted to social network she is on coded lovel and coded deals
Any girl that consider her time on social media is a internal bitch prevent your self from that

You don't need help, na she need help.

Don't complain again oga, leave her alone and have it at the back of your mind that you're going to drop her when you're done with her.

Ladies like her are liabilities, no matter how hard you try, they can never add value to your life.

Senseless people

Snakeeyes10:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a very serious situation at hand - my girlfriend - she spends greater percentage of her time on social media particularly Facebook and WhatsApp. When she eventually gets tired of those, she heads straight to her media files and start watching movies. When I tried to explain to her that she should also try and surf the net make researches on various topics instead of wasting data on things that add little or no value to her it becomes problem and what's worst, she will begin to make you feel like she's doing the right thing and you are doing the wrong one. Raising her voice and proving she is always right. I need help please.

lol which one be research? She just doesn’t have a job

She is a low key hoe.

I have a cousin like that,very useless thing,she stays all day on her phone,she finds it hard to clean the house,the only time she gets up is when she wants to eat. She just waste her day from YouTube to Instagram to WhatsApp to Facebook. Sometimes I just feel pity for the man that will marry her. Tueh!

Honestly you should take a break from her and if she asks why, then mention that you don’t like that her phone is always prioritized when you’re with her. She will either realize she took you for granted and change the way she acts in the relationship or she will remain the same and you will save yourself some time from someone who doesn’t give you the attention you deserve

Snakeeyes10:
Hello Nairaland,
I have a very serious situation at hand - my girlfriend - she spends greater percentage of her time on social media particularly Facebook and WhatsApp. When she eventually gets tired of those, she heads straight to her media files and start watching movies. When I tried to explain to her that she should also try and surf the net make researches on various topics instead of wasting data on things that add little or no value to her it becomes problem and what's worst, she will begin to make you feel like she's doing the right thing and you are doing the wrong one. Raising her voice and proving she is always right. I need help please.

Which Help you need again?
If you ain't comfortable break up na.. what's the rant all about..I don't think you can change how she wanna live her life tho..

Carchoice:


It’s not an addiction. Her brain is empty. I had exactly the same experience in the past. Absolute nothing inside her brain.

You see, why are you dating someone with an empty brain. Probably because she is very beautiful and has all the physical asset you need.

You now see the reason why we say all those physical asset is not able to sustain a relationship or marriage. Once few bad character or attitude sets in, you will never remember how beautiful she is again

I am not saying you should not go after your taste or spec oo. Don't just place it above the real thing.

Nevertheless, those your NON-SPEC could still have a very bad character. So your spec with a bad character is far better than non-spec with a bad character.

In a nutshell, if you are not comfortable with the girl, abeg go your way now

Why u telling us now.
Otondo