been in several relationships.looks like am in love at first but as time goes on, I find maself just being used. There's been others too that looks like real love at first but all that is there is just mere infatuation. Am just wondering, for those that has been in love or is in love at the moment.what is it really like?, feels like?, and how do u know if its real

Sorry sweetie i totally feel u on that. fact is how i see it, love is real but not meant for everybody. while some people meet their soul-mates and find true love, others find something that isnt really love but it comes close and its convenient. and then those who never find anyone and end up alone. sorry its sad but true.

Man-eater:

Sorry sweetie i totally feel u on that. fact is how i see it, love is real but not meant for everybody. while some people meet their soul-mates and find true love, others find something that isnt really love but it comes close and its convenient. and then those who never find anyone and end up alone. sorry its sad but true.

Cldn't be better put.

[s]that aint a better way to answer a question !![/s]

Don't give up. I feel your pain. I would say just try as much as possible to enjoy your live and live it fully. I would suggest for you to involve yourself in things that you enjoy. You can't really look for love, it is most likely to come into your life when you are busy living it.

I would also say don't give your heart so quick. Take it easy and get to know people. Real love come with knowing someone and accepting that person for who they are. Please don't go looking. Because you will always find someone that isn't good. Please just do everything that interest you.

Don't give your heart until you know the person is in to you. Love develops over time, from mutual respect. You can't love someone in a few months. Real love is developed slowly. Why don't you start just being friends with various women. You don't have to have a romantic interest in them. Sometime great relationships can follow. Good luck and don't give up.

feel u'r pain just got dumped too 

yes if only u can sit tight and watch and also pray after it .IT IS WELL.

pls, guy examine yourself properly . . . . . . . , maybe it 's your fault

she might be right, may be u are expecting too much from people.
Nobody can make u happy, except yourself

make urself indispensable and no one would wana leave u. simple as dat!

you guys are right

Develop a good self esteem, know that you are invaluable.  Don't expect much from poeple so that you won't be disappointed afterall.
Appreciate yourself and know that there is no other "you" except youself!!! Then all will be well with you.

Real love ke? well i wish u all d best.

i don know

just learn to handle e one u hv maybe it will be ur real love

any way u got real love from GOD already.why r u complaing.is er any other real love more than that.NEVER

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Yes! But you have to start from within first. Love yourself and you will only attract the "best of true loves"---- It radiates!!!!!!