moralistic:
I regret bin married

ithink7:


Please why are you women like this. I’m dealing with a similar situation, only for the girl to tell me “if I’m not giving you hot hot who else will “
Men basically want peace of mind.

Lessons123:
We are in the same shoes that makes two of us. I have realized that every Marraige has its own issues. But we all have to manage. My wife was also the most peaceful woman in courtship till after some years in marriage and if I had seen these attitudes I would have not made this mistake. @oladiddy just tolerate the best you can and as advised try and get another self contained apartment close to your home to work leave in the morning and return back home after work from the apartment note you must do everything not to allow her make you loose your job.

oladiddy:
My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday.

Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again.

Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss.

Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly.

My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again.

Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like.

Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge.

I am loosing my mind.

Please push to FP!

Guyman02:
I went through a similar situation and lost my job, she then came to her senses after we passed through some difficult times and she realised that nobody cared about us.
Go and stay somewhere else and do your job diligently, your daughter will be fine with her, just send them upkeep money.
If only you know what I went through been out of job for several months because of interference from my wife you won't be tolerating the nonsense going on in your home

Kriss216:
I'm not yet married, but I'm 100% certain once I get married, if my wife want Peace, I'll give her Heaven. But, if she choose trouble, I'll give her War!

I don't have this believe of pleasing a woman just to maintain a happy home. I believe in fighting fire with fire.

99thEnemy:
Which nationality will she be?

Kriss216:
I'm not yet married, but I'm 100% certain once I get married, if my wife want Peace, I'll give her Heaven. But, if she choose trouble, I'll give her War!

I don't have this believe of pleasing a woman just to maintain a happy home. I believe in fighting fire with fire.

99thEnemy:
Which nationality will she be?

Candidlady:

What kinda absurd question is this...?

Kriss216: