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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 3:07am On Jan 22, 2022
Skyview01:


1000 likes to your question my friend.
Thanks.. cheesy
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by jaxxy(m): 3:34am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

This is the most archaic way of thinking I have ever seen in my life.

If u have low self esteem or poor communication skills or an over-blotted ego to deal with a woman simply because she’s educated I feel sorry for u bro.

I have worked with highly educated ladies and they have always been the easiest to approach and talks to and address.

What kind of weak ass uninformed and insecure men are producing in Nigeria??

I honestly can’t believe what I just read and the dumb members on this site liked the dumb post?? Jeez undecided

For the 1st time I felt like deactivating my account after reading that statement like I’m probably in the wrong site with the wrong people. What kind of reasoning is this?? shocked

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Niceiroko: 3:47am On Jan 22, 2022
Animegirl:
grin I know poverty stricken Redpillers will condemn educated and successful women soon.

Well, they could marry because of love, others no money to afford successful and independent women(Redpillers frustration), while some men marry to control illiterate women.



That's one of the reason you will remain single or the man you hv married will regret all his life,.


Start well , like yes women are met to be submissive but educated ones are met to help their man to push for better living
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Niceiroko: 3:49am On Jan 22, 2022
jaxxy:


This is the most archaic way of thinking I have ever seen in my life.

If u have low self esteem or poor communication skills or an over-blotted ego to deal with a woman simply because she’s educated I feel sorry for u bro.

I have worked with highly educated ladies and they have always been the easiest to approach and talks to and address.

What kind of weak ass uninformed and insecure men are producing in Nigeria??

I honestly can’t believe what I just read and the dumb members on this site liked the dumb post?? Jeez undecided

For the 1st time I felt like deactivating my account after reading that statement like I’m probably in the wrong site with the wrong people. What kind of reasoning is this?? shocked


You lack wisdom
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Awoleesu(m): 3:59am On Jan 22, 2022
Timoleon:
Check the top ten richest people in Nigeria and mention how many non graduates are there.
You missed it!
Is Oyedepo of winners a graduate?TB Joshua nko?

Is Cosmas Maduka of Coscharis a graduate? G.U Okeke nko?

Nuel Ojei, Cletus Ibeto, Innocent of Innosons, Dahiru Mangal, Folorunsho Alakija...

Are these graduates?

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jmichael1(m): 4:01am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

u said it all bro...
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by ogundeleai(m): 4:05am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

'Ibi ti Taye tí yàn-rí koni Kehinde tí yàn tie'
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Moutine(m): 4:16am On Jan 22, 2022
Hmm. .. Cosine they are well charitying
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Goztino(m): 4:19am On Jan 22, 2022
Not only women but uneducated men marry early too.
You need time to finish university, go for NYSC, etc which takes a large portion of your age

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nzewealth: 4:24am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

It's because they know what dey did to their female coursemates while in school, so dey believe everyone is like dt thereby settling with uneducated ones
But truth be told, 70% of university girls nw are into hookups

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by phemmyfour: 4:38am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

A less educated woman won't challenge you as a man. You are far ahead of her exposure wise. So, less argument and total submission in the house.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by eguarojeona: 4:42am On Jan 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Boys on here are scared of an educated woman cos they know she wouldn't tolerate nonsense from you.. grin grin

They hate women power..you are looking for a woman you can use as you want huh.. una go cry tire.. cheesy
And una go old ,marry unasef.Become old aunties
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Chukwudi4naija(m): 4:49am On Jan 22, 2022
I will rather say women that passed through school and not "educated women". Education is far from average Nigerian, let alone women who can also use their privates to pass through school system and remain uneducated. They also use that fashion to survive in corporate world after cruising out of school. No thanks to connection.

The reason behind their arrogance is an exposure to vanity which begets their insatiable expectations. While in schools, most of them were in competition for freebies from men just to live fake and "classic life". How can men satisfy women with such twisted orientation about life? They no longer see their partners as good because they have seen better men from their mental construct.

Men are also culprit to their arrogance. This is because they see women in school and after school as classic, and therefore in competition to win their hearts by giving all, and at the end the 'all' is never enough. School exposes Nigerian women to life of unlimited choices, as they get more attention from lecturers, successful business men, and even internet fraudsters. So they have bragging right in that regard, not that they have intellectual things to offer, even in discussion with them.

The women that were outstanding in school do not have such demeanour, because they were never distracted from their goal. While their unruly counterparts who are in majority jumped from one vehicle to another, patronize all classic salons to remain attractive to highest bidders, they remained focused to their studies. These ones are humble if found available, because they did not pursue vanity while in school.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jagunlabiodua: 4:53am On Jan 22, 2022
And who do you think you are? I'm a Yoruba man and you are a fool for mentioning Yoruba,who are you once more? Can you stand a Yorubaman, you no dey fear Abi? Yoruba will remain your nightmare, EDIOT.

Gravity56:




Public Notice


If you are Yoruba in your best interest please advoid me.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by smasher1(m): 5:09am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..


Such ladies are humble and loyal. Of course, they have deep respect. What else do you want from a lady?
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by smasher1(m): 5:10am On Jan 22, 2022
thesicilian:


Yeah, focus on the top ten who got their wealth not because of their university degrees, but because of their business acumen, while you conveniently ignore the almost 200 million others who are not so fortunate...

According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics, 22.5 million of the 35.5 million in the labor force did not receive a tertiary education, while 6.29 million never attended school. Not just that, they also found out that SSCE holders are the most employed in the country, with an impressive 13.2 million gainfully employed.

Thanks for the statistics!

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Okeyc230: 5:11am On Jan 22, 2022
Because they are used to test and exams while in school so, they have to test every man to orove their teacher right.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by smasher1(m): 5:12am On Jan 22, 2022
Jeon:


yet they said that they dislike housewife .

Who dislike housewife? I love housewife. They are more hardworking than those who are not.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by smasher1(m): 5:13am On Jan 22, 2022
BigBellyBurst:
This is not entirely true. Infact it's not true.
You see those uneducated ones?
Them they fvck like rabbit. (Not in all cases tho)
Yeah they may be submissive and shyte, buh promiscuity dey dia DNA.

The educated ones maybe as promiscuous and it's not even in every case that they may have those qualities u listed above.

It's actually an issue of chosen the lesser of two evils and it's somewhat wierd and foolish for a man to marry an uneducated lady simply because he feels she would give him peace of mind.

Peace of mind is the ultimate in marriage. You can't buy it with money.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 5:20am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

This is close to the truth.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jumbojax(m): 5:26am On Jan 22, 2022
It's cause educated women can't marry with love anyone lower than her education level, so the more heights she attains, the older she gets, the more unmarriable she becomes cry

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Teymanhenry(f): 5:26am On Jan 22, 2022
Some men may not want to marry an educated or more educated woman because they feel she would not be able to take care of their homes.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by lordatkinson07(m): 5:29am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry


You just nailed the board GBOAAAA!
No mincing word.


That is exactly what they are, those of us who married them we are the one who know where the shoes is pinching us.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Gravity56: 5:33am On Jan 22, 2022
Jagunlabiodua:
And who do you think you are? I'm a Yoruba man and you are a fool for mentioning Yoruba,who are you once more? Can you stand a Yorubaman, you no dey fear Abi? Yoruba will remain your nightmare, EDIOT.




I can't stand a Yoruba man , you people irritate me... Full of shit
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by InvertedHammer: 5:34am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

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Do Nigerians really understand the meaning of formal education? They think it is a traditional title. That's why they have Engineers that are subservient to mere technicians from Lebanon. How else do you explain many Nigerian virologists whose grasp of coronavirus is only on papers? Heck. They are waiting like anyone else to get the covid vaccine delivered to them.

Moving on...a lady who studied freaking Sociology in a University thinks she is way beyond a trader with 10+ years life experience. Go figure! Education is supposed to give a certain level of exposure but the definition of such exposure is different for Black people especially Nigerians. It is all about the ego. Who knew that Bill Clinton is a lawyer? Imagine if he is a Nigerian. The appendages to his name would fill a book. Why do you think Cubana Chief Priest bought a doctorate degree and confidently refers to himself as Dr. Ezemuo? It is because Nigerians are crazy for titles without the responsibilities that come with such title.

Marry a wise lady. The so-called educated ladies who "sorted" their ways through the system are living in a fantasy world.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by mediainc: 5:56am On Jan 22, 2022
A man that has money and is successful needs a lady to serve and respect him, this is enjoyment of life. Men wey dey manage na dem dey marry old mama to support income, old mama with her small money sabi form, she no go wash your clothes, cook your food everyday.
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Godmademan(m): 6:03am On Jan 22, 2022
Fafesot:
My uncle, who is well learned and financially bouyant got married to a lady who barely finished secondary school. At first, our family members felt indignited toward this, but when they saw he was insistence on getting married to her, they let them be. They've been married for ten years now and we do visit them.. One thing I observe about them is; they are happy and also play like small children.

Aside this, I've seen many well-educated men who decided to take less educated or non educated ladies as wife and has always yielded a happy Union. I do say this; is there something about learned men going for less educated ladies.
As for me, I can marry an illiterate. You must be educated as I am..

Let's hear your opinion and experience..

Education in the true sense occurs at the basic to secondary school level. What happens in tertiary institution is just advancement towards a particular field. A well educated person at secondary level is good to go any time any day. Problem is that the Nigerian education system is so f**ked and many students are non-chalant about acquiring education at the secondary level. The miracle centers are not helping matters at all. I've seen undergraduates who are uneducated.

That said, I wouldn't mind having a secondary school leaver as a wife if she is well educated. We'll grow together.

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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by AdeniyiA(m): 6:04am On Jan 22, 2022
GoodHardDick:
MOST Educated ladies are arrogant, disrespectful and full of pride. They hardly submit to a man unlike an uneducated lady who's just the opposite. angry

#fixed
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by LordErrk: 6:11am On Jan 22, 2022
thesicilian:


Yeah, focus on the top ten who got their wealth not because of their university degrees, but because of their business acumen, while you conveniently ignore the almost 200 million others who are not so fortunate...

According to the Nigerian Bureau of Statistics, 22.5 million of the 35.5 million in the labor force did not receive a tertiary education, while 6.29 million never attended school. Not just that, they also found out that SSCE holders are the most employed in the country, with an impressive 13.2 million gainfully employed.

These SSCE holders and your stats are from the older generation. Get a statistic on how many newer generation adults, are very comfortable without a formal education...and I'm not talking about yahoo boys or people into any shady business
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jilo83(m): 6:15am On Jan 22, 2022
Na school
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:16am On Jan 22, 2022
eguarojeona:
And una go old ,marry unasef.Become old aunties
Yeah. cheesy

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