If you've been dating a guy exclusively for a couple of months but you've never heard him address you as his girlfriend it simply means that he is enjoying whatever you have right now. He probably wants the relationship where it is exactly at the moment and he will not take it to the next level unless he is stirred to. It doesn't seem fair, does it? You think about him 24/7, you have this unbelievable connection and you are dying to tell the world that he is your man and yet you don't know where you stand in his life. Don't give up just yet because there are ways on how to get him to ask you to be his girlfriend without him thinking that you are needy and desperate.

If you must bring it up, do it once and that's it. Most guys have the tendency to back out a little bit when all the fun and thrills start to wear off. They try to avoid drama in as much as they can so if you keep badgering him about this issue, he is going to walk away and this is especially true if the guy is not sure about his feelings yet. Don't bring it up more than when you have to because you are going to ruin every joy you share in the relationship. Then your relationship suddenly becomes a big battle of wills and then it becomes less likely for a guy to commit. A guy wouldn't want to stay if it doesn't feel good anymore because he is going to think that he is bound to face all these drama in the coming weeks or months of the relationship. He is probably thinking that it's only going to get worse. If you brought it up and he refuses to talk about it, it either means that he wants to stay right where you are in the relationship or he doesn't see himself sticking around longer. If you are not satisfied with his answer then it's up to you if you still want to stay or move on.

The most important thing you can do is to realize your self-worth. Don't turn into one of those clingy, insecure women that are too desperate to call someone their boyfriend. Men love women who know what they are made of. Confidence is sexy. If you show a guy that you are the type of woman who goes after what she wants and you would not settle for anything less than what you deserve, he is going to fall in love with you even more. Of course you can't just switch to this kind of thinking. It will take time but once you drive to that road, there is no stopping you. Focus more on being interesting and fun so the guy would want more of you. Enjoy whatever you have with the guy now. The more you stress out about it the less fun it becomes for the two of you. Your world does not need to revolve around one guy. Go out with your girl friends and start new hobbies that do not include him. Don't give him more than what he is giving in the relationship.

When it comes to how to get him to ask you to be his girlfriend, it's also critical that you establish friendship and subtle romance. Show him that you see him more than a friend. Use understated flirting so he'll get your message. Touch him and lean in close to him when you are sitting together on the couch or at the movie. Give him a shoulder massage when you notice he's tired. All these tiny acts of flirting will assure your place out of the "friend zone".

any girl that is not making money should not be called girlfriend.

That ur last sentence 'FriendZone'. . Get me outta it. . Suppose to be the title