In our world of today, young ladies feel the world owes them diamond, while ladies above 28 feel they are now a renewed virtuos woman, whose past has been erased, that they should be taken seriously. Unfortunately your past is part of you.
You see, when trying to date most ladies below 25, you realise they are so materialistic, entitled, and unreasonable without plan for future...But by the time they are getting around 28 and above they want we all to take them serious..like worship them and give them engagement ring within the shortest possible time of dating.. otherwise you become the scum.
To me, it's unfair for a young man with fairly promising future or who is just beginning to make good cash for himself to take those old ladies serious in relationship for marriage.
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What did they do with their period of excess, when guys were tripping over just to call and date them...I feel this is particularly more relevant for pretty or endowed ladies.
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I don't care how beautiful they look or how successful, once a single lady is on that panic mode years of husband consciousness, I don't feel pity or need to play into their game of manipulating one to engage them.
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Young men too deserve brand new, or unspoiled woman with less baggage.
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Men should stop marrying those old ladies...we shouldnt normalise the idea of marrying a woman after wasting her youthful age in frivolities and debauchery.

Great piece

Not all the ladies above 29 are bad. What do you say of ladies who decided to pursue their careers and had no time for men? They've achieved a lot but cannot find a responsible man to marry, perhaps because most men feel threatened by their success.

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I fancy a young lady who's achieved some level of success and holds her own, not promiscuous but Godly. Not religious, but Godly. Even if she's above 25!

What are you even saying?
Is it now about the age or the love?


Once you are interested in your partner then go for it regardless of the age(as far as they are above 18)
Stop asking what they were doing at their youthful age.. relationship/marriage is a matter of choice.. simple and I don't think there should be an age limit for who you love or want to start a relationship with..

Arkmanbuddy:
Not all the ladies above 29 are bad. What do you say of ladies who decided to pursue their careers and had no time for men? They've achieved a lot but cannot find a responsible man to marry, perhaps because most men feel threatened by their success.

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I fancy a young lady who's achieved some level of success and holds her own, not promiscuous but Godly. Not religious, but Godly. Even if she's above 25!

I agree with you. Age is indeed just a number. Once the connection is surreal and the chemistry is lit I'm down. Younger or older, changes nothing for me. A beautiful connection is way too rare these days than to toss one out the window over such reason.

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Arkmanbuddy:
Not all the ladies above 29 are bad. What do you say of ladies who decided to pursue their careers and had no time for men? They've achieved a lot but cannot find a responsible man to marry, perhaps because most men feel threatened by their success.

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I fancy a young lady who's achieved some level of success and holds her own, not promiscuous but Godly. Not religious, but Godly. Even if she's above 25!

How many of those ladies above 29 who are stranded without a man truly pursued career?...and how does going to higher institution stop them from frolicking on diick, yet they couldn't make one a long term project?

This one is very confused. Ladies below 28 are materialistic and entitled, ladies above 28 are old cargo. You still went ahead to say men shouls marry ladies below 28, so in essence they should marry materialistic and entitled women?

Sense is getting scarcer these days

Ishilove:
This one is very confused. Ladies below 28 are materialistic and entitled, ladies above 28 are old cargo. You still went ahead to say men shouls marry ladies below 28, so in essence they should marry materialistic and entitled women?

Sense is getting scarcer these days

Is better to marry ladies with less baggage of ex in every state of Nigeria

Sekoni003:




I agree with you. Age is indeed just a number. Once the connection is surreal and the chemistry is lit I'm down. Younger or older, changes nothing for me. A beautiful connection is way too rare these days than to toss one out the window over such reason.

Pedo

do what works for you

LordVoldermort:
Pedo

Lol hell no. "Younger" doesn't mean a minor

You have a point from your write up but it doesn't apply to everybody.
Some few years ago I met this nice babe who was around 25,she was never materialistic, all she ever wanted was a future where you both can be committed to each other, she worked for it and being with her was fun.
I also know of another lady who is currently 28 turning 29 in two months time, she feels she is too good for any guy, you know why?
Her nature hides her real age and she will never disclose it to you (unless people like me that goes beyond every barrier or wall of defense a lady tries to set up), the kind of man she dreams about is way beyond her level and class, but she don't know that, am sure in 2025 she will start going to shiloh (I told her already) just like her older sis.

ParpahSeventy:
You have a point from your write up but it doesn't apply to everybody.
Some few years ago I met this nice babe who was around 25,she was never materialistic, all she ever wanted was a future where you both can be committed to each other, she worked for it and being with her was fun.
I also know of another lady who is currently 28 turning 29 in two months time, she feels she is too good for any guy, you know why?
Her nature hides her real age and she will never disclose it to you (unless people like me that goes beyond every barrier or wall of defense a lady tries to set up), the kind of man she dreams about is way beyond her level and class, but she don't know that, am sure in 2025 she will start going to shiloh (I told her already) just like her older sis.

Hmmmm. Only few are exception to the rule. I know this as a fact. But the legion of ladies we have around these days are just nothing to write home abt....and I'm sure they will realise they are truly exception to the rule

ParpahSeventy:
You have a point from your write up but it doesn't apply to everybody.
Some few years ago I met this nice babe who was around 25,she was never materialistic, all she ever wanted was a future where you both can be committed to each other, she worked for it and being with her was fun.
I also know of another lady who is currently 28 turning 29 in two months time, she feels she is too good for any guy, you know why?
Her nature hides her real age and she will never disclose it to you (unless people like me that goes beyond every barrier or wall of defense a lady tries to set up), the kind of man she dreams about is way beyond her level and class, but she don't know that, am sure in 2025 she will start going to shiloh (I told her already) just like her older sis.

Same thing with my ex, quite older than me, but she has that baby face lol...but when u look her through her body very well...u go know she don old she would never disclose her real age, but she told me anyway, and my guess was just right.
I feel pity for her, but she wouldn't pity herself, although she's desperate, but me I don japa.......

Kuriosmynd:

Hmmmm. Only few are exception to the rule. I know this as a fact. But the legion of ladies we have around these days are just nothing to write home abt....and I'm sure they will realise they are truly exception to the rule

Lol.
That's true, many ladies want what they can't afford, I told that to one lady, "don't taste for men you can't afford" most of them think that their body is ok, I can't roll with a lady who is intellectually broke, most of them are not proactive but they want intelligent, successful and classy guys, I found myself around 6 ladies and to bring myself to get to wed one of them, it means I have to condense a fraction or more than a fraction of each them into just one, but when you are saying this, they think you are a womanizer, it's not difficult for me to tell a lady you are not what I want to settle for.
But... Just like you said there are few exceptions to the rule, those exceptions are fun to be with.

worldclass68:




Same thing with my ex, quite older than me, but she has that baby face lol...but when u look her through her body very well...u go know she don old she would never disclose her real age, but she told me anyway, and my guess was just right.
I feel pity for her, but she wouldn't pity herself, although she's desperate, but me I don japa.......

Lol.. Same with this lady I told you about, an old man actually accused me of playing around with a minor, ffs this lady is 28.
And she was happy they mistook her for 18 with her baby face and stature.

ParpahSeventy:

Lol.. Same with this lady I told you about, an old man actually accused me of playing around with a minor, ffs this lady is 28.
And she was happy they mistook her for 18 with her baby face and stature.

Mine is already 29....but u won't know lol

worldclass68:




Mine is already 29....but u won't know lol

All the best with ur 29 fiancee

OP. Be more open minded,ok?. Some 21 year old Girls are fat, overfuckked and have loose,flabby skins! E.g Angel in bbnaija! She cannot compare wit some 28 yr old ladies!

Vinnie2000:
OP. Be more open minded,ok?. Some 21 year old Girls are fat, overfuckked and have loose,flabby skins! E.g Angel in bbnaija! She cannot compare wit some 28 yr old ladies!

where did u guys meet those over phucked 21 yr olds?

Southernigbo:
where did u guys meet those over phucked 21 yr olds?

Lol, see you. U nor know how life don spoil. There are even overfuckked 18 years old girls!

Kuriosmynd:

All the best with ur 29 fiancee

I don run leave her....how I go marry person wey old pass me

Kuriosmynd:
In our world of today, young ladies feel the world owes them diamond, while ladies above 28 feel they are now a renewed virtuos woman, whose past has been erased, that they should be taken seriously. Unfortunately your past is part of you.
You see, when trying to date most ladies below 25, you realise they are so materialistic, entitled, and unreasonable without plan for future...But by the time they are getting around 28 and above they want we all to take them serious..like worship them and give them engagement ring within the shortest possible time of dating.. otherwise you become the scum.
To me, it's unfair for a young man with fairly promising future or who is just beginning to make good cash for himself to take those old ladies serious in relationship for marriage.
.
What did they do with their period of excess, when guys were tripping over just to call and date them...I feel this is particularly more relevant for pretty or endowed ladies.
.
I don't care how beautiful they look or how successful, once a single lady is on that panic mode years of husband consciousness, I don't feel pity or need to play into their game of manipulating one to engage them.
.
Young men too deserve brand new, or unspoiled woman with less baggage.
.
Men should stop marrying those old ladies...we shouldnt normalise the idea of marrying a woman after wasting her youthful age in frivolities and debauchery.

Not sure why a lady hasn't taken the time to respond to this and tear it to shreds.
Age is nothing but a number. It's really about how you feel on the inside.
Not all ladies waste their youthful age - And even if they do, they do it with whom ? Its a dude.
Just last week someone posted a thread where she was suing her b/f of 8 years for wasting her time and quitting the relationship.
It is a man who will complain that the woman isn't "putting out" and when she tries and preserve herself for marriage , you will call her all sorts of names.
You want to marry an older lady, they are matured and don't have time to fool around. Most of the are successful -( Money, house and Cars) and were working on furthering their career before children come into the picture. They will do anything to keep the marriage and relationship spicy.
Nothing wrong with marrying a younger lady - Just keep your options open.
If you haven't met cougars or matured women - change your friends and mindset.

Most young guys that gets married to an older women, do so bcs of the financial achievement most of those women have made. A young rich dude will always go for a young and pretty chick around. unless in rare occasions

Such girls don't exist in naija.

Arkmanbuddy:
Not all the ladies above 29 are bad. What do you say of ladies who decided to pursue their careers and had no time for men? They've achieved a lot but cannot find a responsible man to marry, perhaps because most men feel threatened by their success.

---

I fancy a young lady who's achieved some level of success and holds her own, not promiscuous but Godly. Not religious, but Godly. Even if she's above 25!

worldclass68:




I don run leave her....how I go marry person wey old pass me

Finally u give yourself brain

rickleye:


Not sure why a lady hasn't taken the time to respond to this and tear it to shreds.
Age is nothing but a number. It's really about how you feel on the inside.
Not all ladies waste their youthful age - And even if they do, they do it with whom ? Its a dude.
Just last week someone posted a thread where she was suing her b/f of 8 years for wasting her time and quitting the relationship.
It is a man who will complain that the woman isn't "putting out" and when she tries and preserve herself for marriage , you will call her all sorts of names.
You want to marry an older lady, they are matured and don't have time to fool around. Most of the are successful -( Money, house and Cars) and were working on furthering their career before children come into the picture. They will do anything to keep the marriage and relationship spicy.
Nothing wrong with marrying a younger lady - Just keep your options open.
If you haven't met cougars or matured women - change your friends and mindset.

Kindly marry your expired older women