This was sent in last week by a married man in Uyo. He is from Akwa Ibom, in his early forties married to an Igbo lady in her 30's. They have been married for 10yrs. According to him, when he saw her years ago she was looking very beautiful and lovely in chocolate complexion, he loved her so much and her complexion dazzled him. They have 3 kids.

Ever since then she has bee fascinated with getting fair and fairer, often spending more than 90% of her salary on different whitening skin care products much to his displeasure. He has kept complaining and urging her to change her lifestyle to no avail.
It became worse over the years as she gradually turned from fair to now white, even way fairer than Bob Risky and she spends way more than N350K monthly to keep up this lifestyle while on a salary of N400K monthly.
He is fed up totally as the wife he married totally neglects her homely duties to the children whilst in pursuit of vain glory of whitening. He wants to know what to do cos he can't take it anymore

Who is she trying to impress with her colouration?

The husband is unpleasant with her colour yet she's bent on turning to snow white...for who?

What's her motivation for bleaching her skin?

Is it to look nice for the husband or for who?

Nigerian women patronizes whitening products most in Africa based on a CNN report. There is no health benefits in bleaching.

Back to the matter, oga should call his in-laws. They should wade into the matter.
They should find an amicable solution. It's wasteful indulgence.

Or he could go stealth.

Hack her comms.

He will be shocked what's really going on.

In any case, it doesn't bode well.

Coke and fanta republic.

You looked for a slay mama, so you have one, deal with your wahala

If this story is true then I have something to say...

You see...
I just realized I have nothing to say.

Op, leave her alone...Na when she go sustain small injury,na then she go realize say na better one chance she don enter.. Because people wey dey bleach can hardly undergo stitches.

Nigeria girls and bleaching are 5 and 6.

Most of them have bleaches their destinies away. OP, that woman is only bleaching just to attract more customers

Inferiority complex..

Those who are not proud of their look..

And after years, they start smelling like mortuary standard as the cream must have killed so many cells.

Don't get married to Slayqueens with Coconut for brains,they won't listen.

I can bet that woman is Prostituting somewhere

why would anyone want to stay with such a wasteful "ghost looking" woman?! the minute she started to change, is the time he should have taken a drastic decision, now its way too late for that.... just jejely acceptn that this is the type of woman you got, as she aint about to change now!

Kriss216:
Who is she trying to impress with her colouration?

The husband is unpleasant with her colour yet she's bent on turning to snow white... for who ?

Seven dwarfs

The man no look well before he go marry? Insecurities are women worse enemies. Many live their whole live trying to impress others with superficial things such as looks, not even the depth of their character, invention, achievements et, something that takes years to build. But fleeting beauty that mostly inpress shallow men.

I've been in a plane before with a lady that did butt engagement, she was sitting right in front of me and I can just tell the pain she is passing through, and she looks so undefined, with her disproportionately big backside. I asked myself, is it worth the pain? Why not just accept yourself? Anyone that looks down on you because you have a small ass is an idiot anyways. You're more than your ass.

Amb1045:
This was sent in last week by a married man in Uyo. He is from Akwa Ibom, in his early forties married to an Igbo lady in her 30's. They have been married for 10yrs. According to him, when he saw her years ago she was looking very beautiful and lovely in chocolate complexion, he loved her so much and her complexion dazzled him. They have 3 kids.

Ever since then she has bee fascinated with getting fair and fairer, often spending more than 90% of her salary on different whitening skin care products much to his displeasure. He has kept complaining and urging her to change her lifestyle to no avail.
It became worse over the years as she gradually turned from fair to now white, even way fairer than Bob Risky and she spends way more than N350K monthly to keep up this lifestyle while on a salary of N400K monthly.
He is fed up totally as the wife he married totally neglects her homely duties to the children whilst in pursuit of vain glory of whitening. He wants to know what to do cos he can't take it anymore

I detest Bleaching.

She wants to be called EGO OYINBO... Reason she had to spend the bulk of her money to be white.
Husband should just be telling her how she will look like in few years time and how she will become an unconverted Alhaja wearing Hijab and long Jalamia to cover her irritating body except money keep flowing in for her for a long period of time before she ages when body will react to it whether she has money or not.

odinson1:
Don't get married to Slayqueens with Coconut for brains,they won't listen.

I can bet that woman is Prostituting somewhere

My brother people change and social media filters is not helping.

Imagine marryimg someone only to later get used to filter apps looking oeng and fair, posting regularly to pepper people who envy her, then boom them jam for real life and they told her you too fine for pics pass real life, next na to bleach to keep up and balance up with filtered pics.