BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE

SECRET 1:
1: Everyone you marry has a weakness.
2: Only GOD does not have a weakness.
3: So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

SECRET 2:
1: Everyone has a dark history.
2: No one is an angel.
3: When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past.
4: What matters most is the present life of your partner.
5: Old things have passed away.
6: Forgive and forget.
7: Focus on the present and the future.

SECRET 3:
1: Every marriage has its own challenges.
2: Marriage is not a bed of roses.
3: Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire.
4: True love proves in times of challenges.
5: Fight for your marriage.
6: Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need.
7: Remember the vow For better for worse.
8: In sickness and in health be there.

SECRET 4:
1: Every marriage has different levels of success.
2: Don't compare your marriage with any one else.
3: We can never be equal.
4: Some will be far, some behind.
5: To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

SECRET 5:
1: To get married is declaring war.
2: When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage.
Some enemies of marriage are:
a: Ignorance
b: Prayerlessness
c: Unforgiveness
d: Third party influence
e: Stinginess
f: Stubbornness
g: Lack of love
h: Rudeness
i: Laziness
j: Disrespect
k: Cheating
3: Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

SECRET 6:
1: There is no perfect marriage.
2: There is no ready made marriage.
3: Marriage is hard work.
4: Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.
5: Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service.
6: If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances.
7: Let us not be careless about our marriages.

SECRET 7:
1: GOD cannot give you a complete person you desire.
2: He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire.
3: This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience.

SECRET 8:
1: Getting married is taking a huge risk.
2: You can not predict what will happen in the future.
3: Situations may change so leave room for adjustments.
4: Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies.
5: All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

SECRET 9:
1: Marriage is not a contract.
2: It is permanent.
3: It needs total commitment.
4: Love is the glue that sticks the couple together.
5: Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind.
6: Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce.
7: Never threaten your spouse with divorce.
8: Choose to remain married.
9: GOD hates divorce.

SECRET 10:
1: Every marriage has a price to pay.
2: Marriage is like a bank account.
3: It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw.
4: If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

Please, let us always pray for our marriages.

May the Almighty GOD bless our marriages......Amen