Pls mature mind in the house.
What would you advise a young lady whose husband is into betting, any salary, loan, contributions that enters his account, he wouldn't tell her, until he finished it.

They have no accommodation right now, they are squatting with a family friend.
Because the husband can not save and he is into loan.

Last night, she said she took her husband's ATM card because his salary has entered
few days ago and he has started withdrawing little by little on betting as usual. He was looking for it this morning, but she denied.
Would you advise her to go and withdraw his money without his permission? What would you advise such person?

She's my colleague and I don't want to give wrong advise.

The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

MCKitchen:
The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

Good and bad advice... They need an apartment of their own... Gamble can ruin ones life if care is not taken

MCKitchen:
The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

You mean she should also learn and start betting?

Pls, advice

The best for that woman is to leave that man.

A gambler is worst than any social vice on earth. Even if the man builds a house,he would rather sell it and bet more money. They can only change when the bet shop has been closed which means it will be very hard to change them.

I only pity that woman because she has alot of work to do but the best is to leave that man,because any man that cant provide for his family is an unbeliever.

How long has he been into betting? How has he been affording the rent? Is this an addiction borne out of frustration, greed or pressure to provide for the family? She has a job right? What can that afford them? The information you provided isn’t really enough, my recommendation is to communicate with the man to find a solution rather than be sneaky about the situation. This is also NOT the best time to start having kids till they figure out their financial situation

socialmediaman:
How long has he been into betting? How has he been affording the rent? Is this an addiction borne out of frustration, greed or pressure to provide for the family? She has a job right? What can that afford them? The information you provided isn’t really enough, my recommendation is to communicate with the man to find a solution rather than be sneaky about the situation. This is also NOT the best time to start having kids till they figure out their financial situation

He has been into betting even before they got married, but she didn't know. They have never paid for a rent. From parent/ family house to where they're presently squatting

Na her Money? . She better go out there and find a way to be making her own money and leave our brother alone .

Dainy1:
He has been into betting even before the got married. They have never paid for a rent. From parent/ family house to where they're presently squatting

She needs to talk to him. It's unacceptable, but she can't resolve it by hiding his ATM. Who knows, maybe before they got married, he hyped everything like guys typically do, but reality has set in. A man has to become more responsible and drastically limit his risks at some point in his life. He's already failing in his responsibilities of providing shelter for the family, and it's not because he doesn't have a job, it's because he gambles it away trying to get rich quick. He needs help.

Dainy1:
Last night, she said she took her husband's ATM card because his salary has entered
few days ago and he has started withdrawing little by little on betting as usual. He was looking for it this morning, but she denied.
Would you advise her to go and withdraw his money without his permission? What would you advise such person?

She's my colleague and I don't want to give wrong advise.

Does your colleague have a job of her own?
If yes, she should begin to save up and work on improving her stance as an individual so she can get accommodation her family needs.
If no, then what in the world is she waiting for?

As for her taking her husband's bankcard, I would recommend she communicate the needs of the household to him and they should both work on having that directly deposited first to her account once his salary is dropped into his account.

Should she use the card in her hands? That is up to her as she knows why she took it in the first place.

Sonnobax15:

Na her Money? . She better go out there and find a way to be making her own money and leave our brother alone .

Yes, it is her money too since she is his wife. Marriage is two become one...remember?

Kobojunkie:
Does your colleague have a job of her own?
If yes, she should begin to save up and work on improving her stance as an individual so she can get accommodation her family needs.
If no, then what in the world is she waiting for?

As for her taking her husband's bankcard, I would recommend she communicate the needs of the household to him and they should both work on having that directly deposited first to her account once his salary is dropped into his account.

Should she use the card in her hands? That is up to her as she knows why she took it in the first place.

Yes. She has a job but little salary.

Dainy1:
Yes. She has a job but little salary.

She needs to work on her growth cause marriage of the kind she is in... she will need it.

Damnnn niggar

I don't know why people see gambling as a bad thing

For everyday we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to become a millionaire of which Gambling is among

M

They should create a joint account den...

@OP, tell your friend to do the right thing before she is used to place a bet also!

MCKitchen:
The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

You post lack any iota of sense.
We are sorry to say.

ClassicMan202:

Teach her which game? Na wa for you o

Na real wa for the poster.

Betting is the worst form of addiction

If they're yet to have kids, she should divorce that man ASAP, relocate to another place and get her life together.

If she can work and has kids, she should still relocate with the kids and maybe get the man to sign an undertaking to pay a certain amount of money for the kids upbringing then get herself a job or possibly remarry.

It'd be hard to stop a grown man from betting.

Very soon he'll start beating the lady out of frustration.

Prayer and fasting is a solution

I don't subscribe to that

I think sanity test should be made compulsory before marriage plans. Some habits are not good for a married person. And, if we look into it properly, he did not just start after getting married. A second thought should always be given before going ahead with any plan.

My sister go ahead! Withdraw from his account

Topic should be: Should she continue stealing?


Rubbish

Even though the woman ia you, I'll advice you do not create more problems than there is already.

She should just find a way to talk to him and help him change than going to steal his money.

Honestly one need to be careful before getting married, alot of people are just walking around with different forms of problems and ancestral curses.

I am very sure, it is after the money finishes he'll come back to his senses. Just help him to break the addiction by all means possible that is physical, emotional (therapy) or even spiritual. Instead of starting another problem by stealing his money.

MCKitchen:
The woman is senseless and instead of finding the root of her husband predicament she wants to create another atmosphere of tension and abuse.
She should as well join the husband in betting, who knows where the luck might come from. First she should return the Atm and ask the husband to teach her the game. See as the man will overturn her request that way he will minimize his waywardness.

NB: betting is no crime (+18)

Teach her which game? Na wa for you o