This was sent in by a lady from Lagos. She is in her early 30's and her husband is 35yrs, a lawyer also based in lagos. They have a baby girl in a 5yrs marriage. She complains that her husband is too handsome that girls find him irresistible. He is talk, solidly built with a perfectly sculpted body with natural red lips, exudes such a wonderful charm that makes ladies take more than just a second look everywhere he passes and on top of that, he knows how to choose his clothes and perfumes to make up that unmatchable appeal to the opposite gender. She agrees that her husband is wayyyy finer than her and this hasn't helped matters at all instead it has fueled her insecurity. She also opines that he is liberal, he likes to listen to people and take their problem as his own and he is the type that is open minded. He helps people a lot and doesn't really say NO.

She checks his phone on the daily and scoops all his chats, she always want to go out with him everywhere he goes, it's driving him nuts that his wife can't seem to stop suspecting him. In all that 5 yrs, she hasn't seen anything yet to suggest that he is having an affair but that has even made her more suspicious that perhaps he is very good at covering his tracks. He has been continously reassuring her that he loves her so much and given her access to all his devices to check on at any time but that only made issues worse.

Now the husband travelled abroad for a 1 month course and she can't stop video calling every hour even when he is in class. If he can't answer, she starts sending him text messages that he knows he is screwing his side chicks and that she always knew he can't be trusted. The man has now gotten fed up with all of it and wants out of the whole marriage.

She is writing to me to tell her what to do. Oya na
over to your court of public opinion. I listen

Lord knows I can't stay with such women.

Even tho you framed up this story..
Regardless of the gender anyone who does that is insecured..

Tell the woman that I said that it's there in the Bible, the Bible said that God told Adam to be Fruitful and Multiply .

You think alot of married women don't know that their husband is cheating outside, they already know but as long as the man is carrying out his responsibility in the Family and discharging his duties as the man of the house, the have no problem with it as long as the man doesn't bring the side chick to their matrimonial bed .

If she is not willing to Share , she should go and marry an ugly man

Useless story like this should be thrown into the mud

DaddyRochie1642:
Tell the woman that I said that it's there in the Bible, the Bible said that God told Adam to be Fruitful and Multiply .

You think alot of married women don't know that their husband is cheating outside, they already know but as long as the man is carrying out his responsibility in the Family and discharging his duties as the man of the house, the have no problem with it as long as the man doesn't bring the side chick to their matrimonial bed .

If she is not willing to Share , she should go and marry an ugly man

But if it was a woman you will call her a h*e?
Nairaland boys are really clowns oo..

You ain't ok for supporting immorality in marriage..see inequality Abeg..
So the man is free to cheat but when a woman does that you dense individuals call her a h*e..

Amb1045:
This was sent in by a lady from Lagos. She is in her early 30's and her husband is 35yrs, a lawyer also based in lagos. They have a baby girl in a 5yrs marriage. She complains that her husband is too handsome that girls find him irresistible. He is talk, solidly built with a perfectly sculpted body with natural red lips,

you forgot to add Dark...
BECAUSE SOME MENTALLY UNSTABLE HUMANS SAID THAT EVERY LADY DREAM IS TALL AND HANDSOME DARK..

exudes such a wonderful charm that makes ladies take more than just a second look everywhere he passes and on top of that, he knows how to choose his clothes and perfumes to make up that unmatchable appeal to the opposite gender.

maybe he is from the air espeacilly the MISCHIEVOUS PEOPLE WITH VENUS.....

she agrees that her husband is wayyyy finer than her and this hasn't helped matters at all instead it has fueled her insecurity. She also opines that he is liberal, he likes to listen to people and take their problem as his own and he is the type that is open minded. He helps people a lot and doesn't really say NO.

that is their nature..
THEY ARE PEOPLE PLEASERS

she checks his phone on the daily and scoops all his chats, she always want to go out with him everywhere he goes, it's driving him nuts that his wife can't seem to stop suspecting him. In all that 5 yrs, she hasn't seen anything yet to suggest that he is having an affair but that has even made her more suspicious that perhaps he is very good at covering his tracks. He has been continously reassuring her that he loves her so much and given her access to all his devices to check on at any time but that only made issues worse.

lol my dear wife you better sit down.. those attractive creatures under Venus are too smart and can never be figured out even though They are involved in this your imagination essay.

Now the husband travelled abroad for a 1 month course and she can't stop video calling every hour even when he is in class. If he can't answer, she starts sending him text messages that he knows he is screwing his side chicks and that she always knew he can't be trusted. The man has now gotten fed up with all of it and wants out of the whole marriage.

She is writing to me to tell her what to do. Oya na
over to your court of public opinion. I listen

this story just be like this me and my babe own, the story just funny die.

Amb1045:
This was sent in by a lady from Lagos. She is in her early 30's and her husband is 35yrs, a lawyer also based in lagos. They have a baby girl in a 5yrs marriage. She complains that her husband is too handsome that girls find him irresistible. He is talk, solidly built with a perfectly sculpted body with natural red lips, exudes such a wonderful charm that makes ladies take more than just a second look everywhere he passes and on top of that, he knows how to choose his clothes and perfumes to make up that unmatchable appeal to the opposite gender. She agrees that her husband is wayyyy finer than her and this hasn't helped matters at all instead it has fueled her insecurity. She also opines that he is liberal, he likes to listen to people and take their problem as his own and he is the type that is open minded. He helps people a lot and doesn't really say NO.

She checks his phone on the daily and scoops all his chats, she always want to go out with him everywhere he goes, it's driving him nuts that his wife can't seem to stop suspecting him. In all that 5 yrs, she hasn't seen anything yet to suggest that he is having an affair but that has even made her more suspicious that perhaps he is very good at covering his tracks. He has been continously reassuring her that he loves her so much and given her access to all his devices to check on at any time but that only made issues worse.

Now the husband travelled abroad for a 1 month course and she can't stop video calling every hour even when he is in class. If he can't answer, she starts sending him text messages that he knows he is screwing his side chicks and that she always knew he can't be trusted. The man has now gotten fed up with all of it and wants out of the whole marriage.

She is writing to me to tell her what to do. Oya na
over to your court of public opinion. I listen

She's seeing what she wanted to see... at least now, she can stop suspecting him after they get divorced... mumu woman.

She is just being unreasonably agitated for no good cause. I am sur her love for him resonated from his handsomeness hence her decision to have him to himself. Now you have him yet you are just irrational and childish. The man has not given her any reason to be scared of, she access his phone whenever and he knows his charm and yet kept assuring her of his loyalty yet omotena no wan rest. She over do am o.

Women and insecurity can exhaust ones energy.

Inferiority complex breeds insecurity.

She is not okay.. so it's now a sin to be fine as a man abi?

The man should end the marriage and have peace. Let her go and look for her ugly type to marry. What rubbish.

KingDash:
this story just be like this me and my babe own, the story just funny die.

98% of women become possessive of their partners once they enter a relationship.. snooping on the guy's phone and suspecting all his female friends and colleagues at work but guys hardly do that. Is it joblessness or just insecurity cos it's not something funny atal.

flokii:


98% of women become possessive of their partners once they enter a relationship.. snooping on the guy's phone and suspecting all his female friends and colleagues at work but guys hardly do that. Is it joblessness or just insecurity cos it's not something funny atal.

I dey tell you bros, my bae dey even go my recent calls go check the kind calls wey I dey make.. women eh.