Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

who train all this boys of this generation... What is love,alaye wise up!

seguno2:


Stop stereotyping.
Please stop the BS. Thanks

another Edo/Delta girl spotted.
Keep bringing bad image to your people

seanwilliam:
how many years of relationship did you have with her and how were you able to break up without her resorting to violence ..?

3 years, distance helped the breakup

Dmacqh:
What’s the need of piercing and leg chain wearing ?
I don’t think it adds to beauty .
Our ancestors did it for pure beauty , but now it’s meanings are very deep .
If not for ashawo vibes , it’s lesbian vibes , etc .
When I’m ready , I know my woman type .
Any woman who isn’t contented in her natural beauty ( facial , hair , skin color , boobs and ass size ) isn’t my woman type .
Granted men will always congregate around the chain wearing , make up and piercing ladies for fun but when it comes to settling down for business ( marriage ) , I doubt .

Yea right. Settle down with the one that doesn’t wear leg chain, then continuously cheat and cause her emotional pain with your polygamous activities. You might even go a step further by renting a luxury apartment for the leg chain wearer. Buy her Benz for Valentine.

I wonder if there is still anything special in this una settle down. Little wonder some ladies have opted to be career single mothers and babymamas. Nothing special for the legally married wife anymore. Just pains, war room and anointing oil.

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

A SIMPLE ADVICE, "IF YOU MULTIPLY THIS CURRENT ATTITUDE TIMES 10, THAT'S HOW MUCH YOU WILL GET FROM HER WHEN SHE FINALLY BECOMES YOUR WIFE".
IF YOU STILL THINK YOU CAN TOLERATE OR LIVE WITH THAT, THEN GO AHEAD.

HOWEVER IF YOUR ELASTIC LIMIT IS NOT THAT STRETCHABLE, MOVE ON!

MOTHERS CAN BE RIGHT YOU KNOW�

Marry her, she is right for you

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

Well you can choose to be with an honest woman (according to you) that will turn you into a monster,

Or you can give your self a chance by giving yourself more options by being single,

luckily for you, you have a choice cos you are not binded by anything

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..


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Run for your dear life man...
Dont take in the morning what you cant take in the evening...
Its that simple

Its better to have a broken engagement than a broken marraige.. . Cant you see the pattern in her Mother and sister. Children from broken homes usually end up with broken homes too.. Wise up

poweredcom:


True bro na Dem identity be dat , any girl I see wearing it I don't trust Dem

I got niggas whose wife's still water it these r advance ladies but sometimes I wonder can't these ladies respect themselves

Any girl of 18 to 30 that rock leg chain omo na olosho

Neck chain means notin I hate piercing to much in d ear one is ok In the ear lobes

Exactly my brother. It has been a norm with prostitutes since time immemorial.
I am well read, Like I have read lots and lots of books and when I tell people about leg chains, some mumu Nigerians go dey defend am.
See what an article says about leg chains.

TechSpecialist:
another Edo/Delta girl spotted.
Keep bringing bad image to your people

You say delta. Brother those ones na olosho from birth.

Hmmmm, run for your life.

BLoomfrancs:


You say delta. Brother those ones na olosho from birth.

especially urhobo and isoko people Dem dominating warri

I am pretty sure the babe is Igbo cos Igbo women and violence are not far from each other. Most especially Mbiase women in particular.

You can turn your wife to a hoe, you can’t turn a how to wife

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

BLoomfrancs:


Exactly my brother. It has been a norm with prostitutes since time immemorial.
I am well read, Like I have read lots and lots of books and when I tell people about leg chains, some mumu Nigerians go dey defend am.
See what an article says about leg chains.

My son, you are not well read anything. If you were, you ideas won't be as myopic as it is. It is a shame that you even open your mouth to voice rubbish.
I am so saddened by your mentality, it speaks of no home training.
Meanwhile, that website you uploaded is full of virus and known for phasing people's mobile devices.
Cheers

drnoel:


My son, you are not well read anything. If you were, you ideas won't be as myopic as it is. It is a shame that you even open your mouth to voice rubbish.
I am so saddened my your mentality, it speaks of no home training.
Meanwhile, that website you uploaded is full of virus and known for phasing people's mobile devices.
Cheers

I mbecile. It seems you are not okay upside your head. Madman if you marry, allow your wife to wear leg chain.

A typical lowly pick me idiot. No sense of self worth whatsoever.
Sit your ignorant ass down and let me educate you.

Leg chain is also worn by women who are married but are open to other men for sex. It is rooted deep in cuckoldry.

My boy, it is not a bad thing to be ignorant but being adamant at the same time means your foolishness was from birth. idiotic nonentity.

BLoomfrancs:



I mbecile. It seems you are not okay upside your head. Madman if you marry, allow your wife to wear leg chain.

A typical lowly pick me idiot. No sense of self worth whatsoever.
Sit your ignorant ass down and let me educate you.

Leg chain is also worn by women who are married but are open to other men for sex. It is rooted deep in cuckoldry.

My boy, it is not a bad thing to be ignorant but being adamant at the same time means your foolishness was from birth. idiotic nonentity.

Complete BS what U are spewing. You actually need to be re-educated. U are one of those lost children of probably sane men. I pity your father's people, I pity your father.
Good luck with Ur madness.
Cheers

drnoel:


Complete BS what U are spewing. You actually need to be re-educated. U are one of those lost children of probably sane men. I pity your father's people, I pity your father.
Good luck with Ur madness.
Cheers

Incoherent bastard.
Get lost bro.

BLoomfrancs:


Incoherent bastard.
Get lost bro.

Actually U are the incoherent one not me but who is counting?
U are already lost, talkless of you telling someone to go there.
Like I said, I pity your family.
Ur orientation need to be re-evaluated. I think U are neurotic hence Ur almost madness.
Cheers though. Don't quote me again

drnoel:


Actually U are the incoherent one not me but who is counting?
U are already lost, talkless of you telling someone to go there.
Like I said, I pity your family.
Ur orientation need to be re-evaluated. I think U are neurotic hence Ur almost madness.
Cheers though. Don't quite me again

Bro abeg if English no gree you speak, speak broken.

It is not a must to appear as what you are not and cannot be.

Stupid lowlifer.

Run ooo�

socialmediaman:


This could get really violent. She could draw a knife or other weapon on you someday. You both don't seem compatible enough for marriage and you need to get help for your anger issues

They both have anger issues and sometimes get physical, they both aren’t compatible with each other neither are they compatible with other persons until they work on themselves

What do I know sef

You cant win all. English proverb says if you cant beat them join them. I dont anything wrong with having her stopped some of her lifestyles which are harmless.

My dear, marry her stop bating around the bush

BLoomfrancs:



Bro abeg if English no gree you speak, speak broken.

It is not a must to appear as what you are not and cannot be.

Stupid lowlifer.

Lol, English no gree me speak. ROFL
OMG, there is nothing one won't see on NL.
U won't be able to speak with me in real-life. That's why these faceless forums are usually golden for insulting people.
So far U are the one throwing insults and the one getting pained by the insults. It's a wonderful combination my son. A hilarious one to say the least.
Advice for U my son is for U to work on Ur angermanagement and Ur attitude towards Ur elders. Also am sure U have female relatives, you should treat other ladies with respect regardless of their status or works of life.
An lastly, go and get a job or do a training in something. It will occupy you and make you more productive in this life. It will also make U channel all this energy to something fruitful and not always come here to insult Ur betters.

drnoel:


Lol, English no gree me speak. ROFL
OMG, there is nothing one won't see on NL.
U won't be able to speak with me in real-life. That's why these faceless forums are usually golden for insulting people.
So far U are the one throwing insults and the one getting pained by the insults. It's a wonderful combination my son. A hilarious one to say the least.
Advice for U my son is for U to work on Ur angermanagement and Ur attitude towards Ur elders. Also am sure U have female relatives, you should treat other ladies with respect regardless of their status or works of life.
An lastly, go and get a job or do a training in something. It will occupy you and make you more productive in this life. It will also make U channel all this energy to something fruitful and not always come here to insult Ur betters.

Dumbass says treat women with respect. Are you a blockhead? You are prolly a misfit cause no where in any of my posts did I regard anybody with contempt. Maybe why you are hellbent on dying for promiscuous women is maybe– just maybe– because you have sisters who are typical examples of the caliber of girls op's girlfriend fall into.

Mumu man, I have told you that if you see nothing wrong in a women wearing leg chain then the problem is with you. Why don't role models like Okonjo Iweala or Chimamanda dress up with leg chains? Maybe you are a ghetto nigga who has lived most part of his life around hood hoes who dress up like the girl in question.

Useless pick me idiot. If you come from a home that bred wayward girls, where such inappropriate behavior is seen as normal, live with it and stop trying to defend your dysfunctional background.

BLoomfrancs:


Dumbass says treat women with respect. Are you a blockhead? You are prolly a misfit cause no where in any of my posts did I regard anybody with contempt. Maybe why you are hellbent on dying for promiscuous women is maybe– just maybe– because you have sisters who are typical examples of the caliber of girls op's girlfriend fall into.

Mumu man, I have told you that if you see nothing wrong in a women wearing leg chain then the problem is with you. Why don't role models like Okonjo Iweala or Chimamanda dress up with leg chains? Maybe you are a ghetto nigga who has lived most part of his life around hood hoes who dress up like the girl in question.

Useless pick me idiot. If you come from a home that bred wayward girls, where such inappropriate behavior is seen as normal, live with it and stop trying to defend your dysfunctional background.

The two Rolemodels you mentioned are people that have achieved something for themselves.

The loophole in Ur write-up is that you can never know if those women actually have leg chains or waist chains. The reason is because those women usually have attention on their faces and no where else.

You really are a pervert when you go into using those women as examples implying that you have looked at their legs and waist in details to arrive at such a statement?

My son that idea is perverse and I advice you to visit your pastor for absolution.
You can still change your life if you do godly things and try to follow in the steps of Christ.
Godbless you and cheers

drnoel:


The two Rolemodels you mentioned are people that have achieved something for themselves.

The loophole in Ur write-up is that you can never know if those women actually have leg chains or waist chains. The reason is because those women usually have attention on their faces and no where else.

You really are a pervert when you go into using those women as examples implying that you have looked at their legs and waist in details to arrive at such a statement?

My son that idea is perverse and I advice you to visit your pastor for absolution.
You can still change your life if you do godly things and try to follow in the steps of Christ.
Godbless you and cheers

Madman, you speak of being godly. Ill-informed punkass.
I guess you do not know what the Bible says about women who wear leg chains. Read your Bible first before making unfounded and stupid comments.
You must be sick in the head to think the way you think.

You said that those women have the public eyes on them. Doesn't that alone tell you that leg chain wearing doesn't sit well with majority of the populace? Keep contradicting yourself kid.


The use of leg chains has been associated with prostitutes even before your useless ancestors were born. This is not even what the Bible says about leg chains but read your Bible to see for yourself. Mumu man.

BLoomfrancs:


Madman, you speak of being godly. Ill-informed punkass.
I guess you do not know what the Bible says about women who wear leg chains. Read your Bible first before making unfounded and stupid comments.
You must be sick in the head to think the way you think.

You said that those women have the public eyes on them. Doesn't that alone tell you that leg chain wearing doesn't sit well with majority of the populace? Keep contradicting yourself kid.


The use of leg chains has been associated with prostitutes even before your useless ancestors were born. This is not even what the Bible says about leg chains but read your Bible to see for yourself. Mumu man.

And BS talk. Ur comments speak of Ur myopia and neurosis.
Then you bring up another quotation from the old testament. As if that is all there is to be about the Bible.
Then U revert to insults which seems to be Ur MO when U don't have anything to add in a discuss. My son there was no contraction in my earlier posts, read them all again. You will learn something your parents failed to teach U.
Cheers

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

All these are red flags! Abort mission! Forget marrying that lady as your mom is right on this! Can't have two people with anger issues in a marriage, it will be a disaster! My 2 cents.

omoteacher:



Only few are very lucky in relationship things.

No perfect person, there will always be that

BUT.

Decide so you won't regret later.

Yes, there is no perfect person but not with all these red flags biko!

Keeff:
3 on the ears and one on the nose

Real ahawo and runs girl vibes o on the beat!

Angrygoat:
an agbero, thank God I'm nt married or in a hurry to, naija ladies are trash bro. She gets physical wt u, na your corpse remain. She fit stab u for dream,sleep. U wan marry an agbero,an okpoe on code

You can say that again on the Naija girls are trash comment! Their yama yama thinking na story for another day!