Everyone is asking you to tell your brother but my advice is DON'T!

E get reason.

One thing that elude most men is that they dont know that women are more cunnier than a cat, and if you were lucky enough to catch them once cheating, just know that they have done it a thousand times behind your back! Such a very terrible creature. I will die of heart attack or BP if after paying dowry on the head of a woman and i later caught her cheating, my girlfriend have numerous boyfriends outside and i dont give a Bleep, but for my wife, i swear i wont survive it. This is one singular reason am scared of marriage and women in it totality, am very sorry to say this, but i will never get married because my peace of mind is priceless. Today i prepare pounded yam and egusi soup and ate it alone in peace and no wife dey here to follow me drag remote to watch ZEE world

Your brother and your brothers wife are already reading this post, so no need to tell ok

kenzysmith:
If I were u I will neigociate with her to give me 100k a dnd pussy for 1 week non stop then tell my bro

Blackmail will put you in prison faster than you can say "Jack"!
And you will get neither money nor the kitten that ruined your life

@Op:

Take her Call and record the conversation.
Whether you tell your brother or not, you have seen what you were not supposed to see and that Woman wll declare WAR on you.
As long as you are alive, she sees you as a threat and her survival instincts wont allow her to have such threat hanging around.

- So, if you tell your Brother but you dont have proof (like the recorded conversation), she would manipulate your Brother against you and create life-long enmity between the two of you. She can even say you wanted to sleep with her and when she did not agree, you decided to blackmail her!
But you owe it a duty to tell your Brother.

- If you dont tell your brother, she will be busy scheming on how to create enmity between you and your brother, on how to eliminate you and (or) your brother! The "Lover-man" will plan with her, against your Life!
Your Brother, if he gets to know later on, will also never forgive you because you have betrayed his trust.

You are not the cause of your Brother's wife sex romp, it is normal to go to one's brother's house unannounced, so dont let all these ladies blackmail you into any sense of guilt, they are all birds of a kind.

Get as much evidence as possible (Let her apologise and confess on phone) and present it to your brother but dont bet on it, your brother may be a SIMP and he would still turn around to fight you.

But at least, your Conscience is clear that you have done what a true brother should do.

Those comments shows how foolish some Nigerian girls/women are.
I spit on their forehead

Your brother no dey the same twitter to get this your update ba??

Competence5050:
brother man, this matter na only God fit handle am ooo ...

. Humm.....no be lie.

Qatar2022:

You people i wonder the kind sense you guys have, so he should leave brother with this kind pf woman?

I wonder ooo, tomorrow my brother go catch std and i will still keep quiet like i no no where it come from

showafrica:


I wonder ooo, tomorrow my brother go catch std and i will still keep quiet like i no no where it come from

That's true and then you will be saying i wish i tell him

I remembered when i was 21years old, was staying with my aunty and husband then, one day my aunty traved to village for a burial. so on Sunday I dressed for church, (my sister husband don't like going church) but that morning he was busy asking me if I was not going church ,something that he hasn't done before. So when I dressed finished, I told him am off to church he said okay. On my way to church my shoe cut, and I have already walk like 15 mins, cause from our house to church is 28mins walk, so I come back to put on another shoes, to my surprise, my sister's husband is in the room with another lady which happens to be our nibo having sex. I was shocked. I wanted to tell my aunty but I gave it a second thought. What if I tell my sister and I become the person that end her marriage, will I be ever happy. Till today, I didn't tell my sister anything. What yhat woman did was wrong that she have to sent packing, but my dear, I will advice to allow your brother to find out himself than you telling him.

You have to tell your brother.
You didn't suspect but saw her in the act. You have no reason to hold on to that.

How does that affect you, why don't you close your eyes and assumed that u haven't seen anything, don't look for untimely death.
Run away from the scene and never discuss it with anybody because the woman will fix her foot soldiers around you, any miss yaan, na death.

She how ladies are saying to the guy to mind his business.
Hypocrisy on rampage
The future is what again??........ Female abi

You better tell him or he is going to die before his time.

Mr. Man's posting it on the Internet alone demonstrates that you don't need someone to tell your brother whether or not it's true, because your brother has already been informed/ seen it on social media before you know it. If you don't want to chat, you can remain silent.

Nowadays I have learnt to mind my business. Even if you tell him it won't change anything cause they will still make up and see you as the evil one here. I would advice that you pray that God should reveal to your brother the devil he called a wife.
I am speaking from experience.

SHEY WE GO FIT SEE WIFE MARRY FOR THIS GENERATION?

SmartPolician:
Look at the comments from the ladies up there.

Women are rarely just with their judgement.

It even happens here on Nairaland.

That's why Mosdii said that they were all useless and that campaign earned him a life ban.

So Mosdii was banned for life...Wow!

tunmoj:

So Mosdii was banned for life...Wow!

Don't mind me. I am not sure. I got that elsewhere

WoundedLamb:
Sad... I think the right thing is to tell your brother and let him decide what to do with that piece of information. I'd also tell my sister if I catch her man with another lady cause she'd never forgive me if she learns later that I knew about it and kept quiet. [s]To those above calling out ladies, I hope y'all now see how ridiculous it is when men rush to defend cheating men? Those ladies in the comment section just served you a dose of your own medicine. If this case was reversed, most of you would be typing exactly the same thing.[/s]

You initially made a valid submission until you decided to indulge in another baseless and unnecessary comparison thereby forming a classless mini gender war in your last statement!
So ALL the guys in this world support men who cheat on their spouse according to your sample analysis?
What is wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it and what is right is right even when everyone is doing it!

Tapout:
But why will people be having intimacy and not lock the door

Meanwhile, I no dey believe stories from Twitter sha...

Very possible esp if it wasn't planned!

openmine:

You initially made a valid submission until you decided to indulge in another baseless and unnecessary comparison thereby forming a classless mini gender war in your last statement!
So ALL the guys in this world support men who cheat on their spouse according to your sample analysis?
What is wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it and what is right is right even when everyone is doing it!

Which part of my statement remotely suggests that all the guys in the world support men that cheat? You rush to quickly attack me for calling people's attention to the effects of gender dichotomy, but I'm sure you read all the derogatory comments about Nigerian women on this platform and look the other way. As annoying or painful as it may be to you, the comments of those ladies up there are not different from what we read on this platform everyday. You know this as much as I do.

NaijaSumi:
What was her reason for doing what she did? Have you asked her first

Na wa for una ohhh

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WoundedLamb:


Which part of my statement remotely suggests that all the guys in the world support men that cheat? You rush to quickly attack me for calling people's attention to the effects of gender dichotomy, but I'm sure you read all the derogatory comments about Nigerian women on this platform and look the other way. As annoying or painful as it may be to you, the comments of those ladies up there are not different from what we read on this platform everyday. You know this as much as I do.

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WoundedLamb:
To those above calling out ladies, I hope y'all now see how ridiculous it is when men rush to defend cheating men?

This is your generalized statement about men!
I ask again.....So ALL the guys in this world support men who cheat on their spouse according to your sample analysis?
There is no need for comparison.....you are either against or for such! Simple! No need to add unnecessary salt and maggi!

So in other words, If i stumbled into a cliff and my sibling or anyone was approaching but unaware of it,i should keep quiet because its none of my business abi?

nairaman66:


You gave a nice advice and recommendation. Yet you can’t stop being a lady, can you? You also found a way to justify the comments by the ladies.. What a wonderful species the womanfolks are

As in ehh....
She made a good recommendation then thought she is meant to make her usual baseless generalizations about her opposite gender instead of a full stop!

openmine:
[s][/s]


This is your generalized statement about men!
I ask again.....So ALL the guys in this world support men who cheat on their spouse according to your sample analysis?
If your answer is NO then edit your last statements or stop where you are against such!
There is no need for comparison.....you are either against or for such! Simple!

I see this is a problem of comprehension. There's a difference between "I feel bad that men defend cheating men" and "I feel bad when men defend cheating men". The word "when" makes all the difference. It means "on the occasion of" which means it's not all the time.

So the expression "this is how ladies feel when men rush to defend cheating men" does not in any way suggest that all men defend cheating men. I'm even shocked that anyone would interpret it that way. That I feel sad when pastors scam thier followers does not mean all pastors scam thier followers. It means there are pastors that scam thier followers and when they do, it makes me feel bad. The word "when" means "on the occasion of", "whenever", etc. Tell me, don't you feel bad when mothers push thier daughters into marrying rich men? Does that mean all mothers push thier daughters into marrying rich men?

I don't know how the English language is used in Nigeria but the fact that you read my comment to mean "all men defend cheating men" is a function of your understanding and I'm not to be judged by that, neither am I changing a single word in that correctly written comment. Sorry.

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WoundedLamb:


I see this is a problem of comprehension. There's a difference between "I feel bad that men defend cheating men" and "I feel bad when men defend cheating men". The word "when" makes all the difference. It means "on the occasion of" which means it's not all the time.

So the expression "this is how ladies feel when men rush to defend cheating men" does not in any way suggest that all men defend cheating men. I'm even shocked that anyone would interpret it that way. That I feel sad when pastors scam thier followers does not mean all pastors scam thier followers. It means there are pastors that scam thier followers and when they do, it makes me feel bad. The word "when" means "on the occasion of", "whenever", etc. Tell me, don't you feel bad when mothers push thier daughters into marrying rich men? Does that mean all mothers push thier daughters into marrying rich men?

I don't know how the English language is used in Nigeria but the fact that you read my comment to mean "all men defend cheating men" is a function of your understanding and I'm not to be judged by that, neither am I changing a single word in that correctly written comment.[/s]

Sorry for the usually hasty generalization and apparent hate towards men.

You would have saved yourself the time and stress of hilariously and fruitlessly trying to explain with a flurry of benighted ramblings by admitting you erred(which i doubt you would) with your usage of 'men' instead of attaching a corresponding word like 'some' or 'most' to validate your claim!
But like i said abinitio, you just could not resist the usual urge to dish out your frustration on the other gender just to feel satisfied!
The subject is about a cheat who was caught which you had elaborated on and rightly included what the brother should do....FULL STOP!

openmine:
[s][/s]
You would have saved yourself the time and stress of hilariously and fruitlessly trying to explain with a flurry of benighted ramblings by admitting you erred(which i doubt you would) with your usage of 'men' instead of attaching a corresponding word like 'some' or 'most' to validate your claim!
But like i said abinitio, you just could not resist the usual urge to dish out your frustration on the other gender just to feel satisfied!
The subject is about a cheat who was caught which you had elaborated on and rightly included what the brother should do....FULL STOP!

Read the statement in the image below:

When men cheat on their girlfriends or wives, do the women go back to the men who cheated on them?

Does this mean all men cheat on thier partners?

You simply dodged my explanation to keep parroting the same thing. If you don't know the meaning of "when" in that sentence, it is not my fault. But like I said, there's nothing in my statement that suggest all men defend cheating men. I don't need "some" when I have used the mark of occasion "when". I understand English is a second language in Nigeria but there are some inherent features of the language that make a lot of difference to native speakers. I don't know how else to explain that to you. But I'm certainly not responsible for your understanding. I said what I said, you can feel however you want to feel.