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Re: My Confused Marital Life by Socratiz: 1:44pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
I advise that you ask him if he's still interested in the marriage rather than assume he wants you back under the same roof. If he says yes, request that both of you see a marriage counselor. The marriage/family Counsellor will first uncover the reason for the toxicity in your marriage for seven years. That's too long for adjustment in marriage so there must be an underlying reason for it. It could be that some of your attitude contributed to it. If this is not resolved it would erupt again when you begin to live together. Secondly, he may also just want to relate with you at arms length. Maybe he prefers the distance between you like this and does not want you under his roof while he provides financial support for you and the children. You'd be surprised that it may be healthier for you to live far away from him. Counselling would unravel all these and help you both of you to make the right decision for your marriage |
Re: My Confused Marital Life by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
adajoe555:I am afraid you are wrong! They aren't more common. ... you are simply hearing more about them is all. These stories are meant to be taken as lessons to aide who don't already know in making better decisions in their lives. 1 Like |
Re: My Confused Marital Life by adajoe555: 5:22pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Ok...... |
Re: My Confused Marital Life by Saintmary(f): 6:10pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
emotionalwoman: Hmmmm, the final decision lies with you. Much as I'm elated to read that you want to stay put. Please remember that it's okay to second-guess yourself once in a while. Don't be strong just for the fun of it. Also keep in mind that beating you up while pregnant is a horrible crime that you and your family should have followed up with. At least let him get some resetting from police men. It looks like time and hormones have healed your wounds and you have forgotten each punch that put you and your unborn baby within an inch of your delicate lives. KEEP YOUR DISTANCE. |
Re: My Confused Marital Life by naija4life247: 8:17pm On Feb 07, 2022 |
2goodbobo: This poster should be arrested for attempting to push another human into being beaten to death. Thus poster deserves to be charged for conspiracy to commit murder. Won de ma lu e pa ni aiye e ni. |
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