Timibraun0010:
Hi guys, please I need an advice on what to do next. I know many people will say I bleeped up but the did is done. I just need the next line of approach.
There is this girl I met online sometimes in October but we started talking very well in Nov. At the point we met, I wasn't in a relationship neither was she. But at some given times why whining her she would always reference the fact that her bio reads no relationship.
All these while, I had no intention of going into a relationship with her but all that changed after we saw each other.
We talk everytime, everyday including video calls most of the time.
While on Christmas break and new year break in Lagos from her base in Kaduna , she came to see me in Osun and spent 4 days. Throughout her stay, I felt a kind of peace I never felt around any girl. I was my real self, we talk and act like we've known each other for eternity.
Though I made attempts for sex but it didn't happen cos she was always removing my hand.
There were smushes and kisses but I won't push further since she was resisting.
She was like she didn't want any kind of friend with benefits cos at the end, we knack and do same the following morning. I told her I'm not her friend and shouldn't categories me as such cos I won't end up in anyone's friendzone.
I'm the kind of person that won't bother once she display such.
Now she's back to her base in Kaduna and I'm beginning to develop feelings for her. I recently notice she wasn't as excited as we she used to be when we talk before.
Now that I have feelings for her, I don't want to appear weak nor be added to the retinue of guys running after her. I honestly don't know how to navigate it and make her think of me in a relationship manner.
Also, before she came to see me, we made the arrangement of her coming while I will go visit her during my leave break. Honestly ,with the way the recent communication is going, I doubt if we might survive and still be talking before march when I'm to visit .
Talking with her now is harder cos of the emotion of my side. More like there is an expectation on her side
One more thing, while I don't even do it at all, I guess I got too comfortable around her and check through her phone galleries. She was angry and everything was settled after my apologies.
I know some will call me a simp, while some will insult and those who will advise will do so. Your imputes please absence is to love and feelings what wind is to flames....it estinquishes the small, but creates a conflagration to the large!!!! i have spoken in parables maybe....but think about it well |
