Good evening my people .
I have been reading in this forum for some time now .so god I choose to post this shit guy man jus d face .
I and my ex broke up last year after we dated for over 1year and 10mnths . I didn’t want to go into anything called relationship anymore until my so called present gf came up board . We both got talking when she packed in her new apartment and she was staying with elder bro . Just the same flat . So something lead to something guy man chau. So after then I noticed she had this simple conversation with me . She is very hardworking tbvh. Some times before I knew she would come and tidy up my room wash my clothes and even cook for . Tbh I needed someone like that and besides I need to settle down and I didn’t let her know my plans all this while cos of the messy stuff I discovered from my ex gf. So alone the line I started seeing her attractive and homely and that’s when I began to take her serious o. Mind you she never demanded a dime from me . So based the nature of my job i and the distance I had to pack from previous house to another place and I was actually avoiding her cos she was really gummy so sometimes she distracted me from been focused while work from home . I left the house for her with Most of my properties decided to get new stuff to my new app. So recently I noticed when she comes to my house she always hide her phone and I don’t care about that . Some times we stay in a month I don’t bother her about sex . Cos I want something serious.
So Sunday last week I called her to come for vacation in my house . The babe come o we talked and she even introduced me to her aunt and elder sis . So I told her since your holidays is on . I will like you spend just a week here then go and help your parents at home . So as she was sleeping a WhatsApp text came in her .mehn wetin my eyes See eh I almost fainted. The other guy was asking her how was it last time. Hope she gets over it .
The other guy was like Tomorrow he will have to come over to his house so they can sort themselves on how to get it done . Mehn I was confused and she been visiting this last guy they even had sex. So her response to the last guy before she slept was , she will come to his house in the morning before she travel. So I lock up . Waka her go reach road told her bye . Naso I call this babe all through yesterday till this evening she no pick up. I called her sis . Her sis said she was come o but not seeing Her . Called her friend lied that her phone was hanging that’s why she couldn’t pick up
Surprisingly she called me me I refused to pick she sent much I’m sorry fill my my WhatsApp space . Pardon with my lengthy post
Now what does this girls really want. My mom is coming from The UK this week and I was planning to introduce her to my family.
I’m totally control over this like this . She doesn’t demand anything some times I sent her money she will use it and buy thing to my house and her their doings very fine
What should I do.
Sincerely ,feel free to insult but your advice is needed aje

She no dey ask for money, she dey wash my room, she dey wash my clothes, she dey do this, she dey do that!, everything na demo! Oje lo je....

She is up to something, and when she gets what she is looking for, you will see her true color...

The babe dey yo oko do... .Leave the babe completely and start all over again...look for another babe .....

Find someone else, it's that simple.

Don't be a dēmøn. If you are/were not emotionally committed to her, why do you think she owes you sexual faithfulness??

Have you really put her 'in the know' as to your plans regarding her, or you were just keeping her on a lease? Were you clear, without any hints of doubt, that you'll be faithful and committed to her? Did you give her such signs or say it in clear terms? Someone you just started seeing as a potential 'wife' to settle down with - because you seem like the type who wants to have free options, with no strings.

Aniboo:
I didn’t want to rush into it
I needEd to follow my heart but when I gotta realize I needS a woman like her that’s when the whole stuff turns upside down

Pele o. If you will stay with her like that is up to you. Just extend the same grace to her and imagine that she has the same thoughts of not rushing and doesn't want to give herself to you. When you were not clear from the beginning. If you'd made your intentions known to her, and not let previous experiences drive your decisions, and she went ahead to 'cheat', this might have been different. All I'm saying is, you didn't put no tag nor definition on what you guys 'shared.'

Aniboo:
If you don’t mind my typo error
Read it clear you will see where I mentioned ( to introduce her to my mom and my whole family) it was obvious I like her . I’m lazy when it comes to ask a girl Out

Okay. And was the decision to introduce her to your family and the likeness you have for her in your head or HOW did you make it obvious? We're not supposed to know all these and even not the girl. Remember you said you were holding back and when your mind towards her changed, it was still probably an internal thing.

You might have been giving her signals of 'not interested' and she decided to remove her mind from you.

SKhanmi:
Find someone else, it's that simple.

My dear I’m Just confused mehn
Thank God I didn’t introduce such woman to my mom

Advise yourself aboki

Magnoliaa:
Don't be a demon. If you are not emotionally committed to her, why do you think she owes you sexual faithfulness??

I didn’t want to rush into it
I needEd to follow my heart but when I gotta realize I needS a woman like her that’s when the whole stuff turns upside down

Magnoliaa:
Don't be a dēmøn. If you are/were not emotionally committed to her, why do you think she owes you sexual faithfulness??

Have you really put in the know as to your plans regarding her, or you were just keeping her on a lease? Were you clear, without any hints of doubt, that you'll be faithful and committed to her? Did you give her such signs or say it in clear terms? Someone you just started seeing as a potential 'wife' to settle down with.

If you don’t mind my typo error
Read it clear you will see where I mentioned ( to introduce her to my mom and my whole family) it was obvious I like her . I’m lazy when it comes to ask a girl Out

Are you dating her?

Magnoliaa:
Don't be a dēmøn. If you are/were not emotionally committed to her, why do you think she owes you sexual faithfulness??

Have you really put her 'in the know' as to your plans regarding her, or you were just keeping her on a lease? Were you clear, without any hints of doubt, that you'll be faithful and committed to her? Did you give her such signs or say it in clear terms? Someone you just started seeing as a potential 'wife' to settle down with - because you seem like the type who wants to have free options, with no strings.



Pele o. If you will stay with her like that is up to you. Just extend the same grace to her and imagine that she has the same thoughts of not rushing and doesn't want to give herself to you. When you were not clear from the beginning. If you'd made your intentions known to her, and not let previous experiences drive your decisions, and she went ahead to 'cheat', this might have been different. All I'm saying is, you didn't put no tag nor definition on what you guys 'shared.'



Okay. And was the decision to introduce her to your family and the likeness you have for her in your head or HOW did you make it obvious? We're not supposed to know all these and even not the girl. Remember you said you were holding back and when your mind towards her changed, it was still probably an internal thing.

You might have been giving her signals of 'not interested' and she decided to remove her mind from you.

The intention of introduce her to my family all started when mom talked about that angel and you know how old people can act some times. Lol besides my mom is this influential woman doesn’t take shit . I didn’t know how she got to understand our convo . From them she amounts pressure. And I didn’t have to hide it from her cos it’s just an interval of few she’s gonna be around. The only step I made her understand she have to put herself together when meeting my mom . Don’t fake it . Be yourself and all that . I think that range her thinking’ that she can do all she feels cos I don’t understand. Also there are some surprises I know my mom got for her.. the funny thing is I know the guy she slept in he’s place last night

Aniboo:

The intention of introduce her to my family all started when mom talked about that angel and you know how old people can act some times. Lol besides my mom is this influential woman doesn’t take shit . I didn’t know how she got to understand our convo . From them she amounts pressure. And I didn’t have to hide it from her cos it’s just an interval of few she’s gonna be around. The only step I made her understand she have to put herself together when meeting my mom . Don’t fake it . Be yourself and all that . I think that range her thinking’ that she can do all she feels cos I don’t understand. Also there are some surprises I know my mom got for her.. the funny thing is I know the guy she slept in he’s place last night

The other guy was asking her how was it last time. Hope she gets over it .
The other guy was like Tomorrow he will have to come over to his house so they can sort themselves on how to get it done

Was this part referring to sex? When you confronted her, what did she say?

Magnoliaa:




Was this part referring to sex? When you confronted her, what did she say?

It’s was sex ofc .
Sorry to say this i chats the guy like she was the one
The guy analyzed their pornography life dam
Mehn that part sucks
The dude was thinking she was the one that response to the chat

Women are now terrifying creatures


Men this days set have no honor, drilling at every opportunity, no standard no level no value just you and your dck...Spits

Op just save yourself unnecessary headaches and move on...life's too short hang on to one hoe