Please see link to the thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/6975775/please-advice-im-having-multiple

I saw many people telling the original poster that he is the cause of the problem and that once he stops cheating, there'd be no issues.

I find those responses very astonishing! I agree that the man's behaviour is unacceptable. However, that should not on any grounds be a justification for the wife's appualing temper.

Bad temper is one of the worst attributes anyone could ever have. Bad temper can ruin within 50 seconds what you or anyone else built for 50 years. Maybe those of you that failed to address the wife's issue don't have life experience.

As much as I agree that the husband should work on himself ( which he also mentioned), I will still focus more on the woman working on her bad temper. The husband should get her a therapist if need be.

If the bad temper issue is not sorted, the woman would still get angry over other things even if the man stops cheating. She would ruin the husband and ruin herself with bad temper. A bad tempered person could kill and regret her actions the next minute.

In Conclusion, the husband should NEVER attempt relocating with her without sorting the wife's bad temper issues.

cc: Lasunray01

Quite right



E fit no be cheating she go react on another day

RexTramadol1:
Quite right



E fit no be cheating she go react on another day

Definitely

Yoruba people will say "iwa ko kin fi oniwa le" which simply means your character can never leave you . All this "working on herself " will not work . something that has been part of her for years , you believe few therapy session would wash it off? never . The best thing is to leave her here o in this lawless country that has no regard for feminism.