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Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by dre11(m): 5:46pm On Feb 10, 2022
Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers In Kaduna, Former Senator Narrates

A man from Zaria in Kaduna State has divorced his wife of 20 years after she was freed by kidnappers following her abduction, a former Senator who represented Kaduna Central, Shehu Sani, said on Thursday.

His reason for the divorce: he suspected that his wife was raped by the bandits who had abducted her.

The lawmaker disclosed this in a tweet on Thursday and called on religious leaders to intervene in the matter.

Sani posted on his Twitter page, “A man from Zaria (name withheld) divorced his wife of twenty years after she was released by Bandits who kidnapped her along with others, on the ground that he suspected she was raped by the bandits. I call on religious leaders who are aware of this to please intervene.”

Kaduna, like some other states in Northern Nigeria, has been at the mercy of terrorists and bandits.

Earlier in February, Governor Nasir El-Rufai reeled out stark details of the spate of insecurity that has held the state by the jugular.

El-Rufai said Kaduna lost 1,192 residents to bandit attacks across the state in 2021, while 3,348 citizens were kidnapped.

The report also shows a 27.21 per cent increase in deaths, compared to 2020.

The governor confirmed that an average of nine persons were kidnapped daily in 2021. The report also gave 891 as the figure of people who sustained various forms of injury during the attacks.

“Kaduna Central senatorial zone recorded the highest number of deaths at 720, followed by 406 in Kaduna South and 66 in Kaduna North. There were 340 children kidnapped, while 2,023 were men and 985 were women.

“Kaduna Central also led in the area of kidnapping with 2,771 abductions, while 397 citizens were kidnapped from the Southern senatorial zone and 180 from Kaduna North,” the report said.

http://saharareporters.com/2022/02/10/man-divorced-wife-20-years-over-suspicion-she-was-raped-kidnappers-kaduna-former-senator

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Trymeagain: 5:50pm On Feb 10, 2022
its really not fair. this is when she needs him the most.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Aufbauh(m): 5:50pm On Feb 10, 2022
It's going to be very traumatic for the divorced wife.
Honestly it'll be a lifetime burden of guilt for the man also to keep recalling an obnoxious scenario of such if it really happens.

My own take is that the woman needs to open up if it actually happened and seek mutual counseling. Denying it will signify complicity.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by OVB123: 5:55pm On Feb 10, 2022
I want to join voice with that of senator sanni to appeal to the husband on behalf of the woman to accept her back because it is not her fault.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Kobojunkie: 5:56pm On Feb 10, 2022
dre11:
His reason for the divorce: he suspected that his wife was raped by the bandits who had abducted her.
Poor woman! undecided

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Abfinest007(m): 5:59pm On Feb 10, 2022
Mental sickness is hard to cure

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by thorpido(m): 6:01pm On Feb 10, 2022
Suspected she was raped?He didn't even confirm it?
Poor woman.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Truvelisback(m): 6:56pm On Feb 10, 2022
thorpido:
Suspected she was raped?He didn't even confirm it?
Poor woman.
Do u think those Animals won't lay their filty hands on her?

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by yuping(m): 7:09pm On Feb 10, 2022
undecided the man sees this as an opportunity to marry new blood that's just the truth.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by izzou(m): 8:30pm On Feb 10, 2022
He probably had another side chic that he wants to elevate to wifey level.

He just needed a reason to ditch this one

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by socialmediaman: 4:19am On Feb 11, 2022
One of those times you just shake your head and move on

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Steep(m): 4:33am On Feb 11, 2022
Probably has 3 extra wives and will soon marry more to fill the vacuum.

Women are slaves in Islam.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by imagrg(m): 5:13am On Feb 11, 2022
Preposterous!

Even if his suspension is true, it isn't her fault that she was raped.

Some men jealous die!

Be charitable; see my signature below please.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by cococandy(f): 5:27am On Feb 11, 2022
Steep:
Probably has 3 extra wives and will soon marry more to fill the vacuum.

Women are slaves in Islam.

You think it’s only a Muslim man that will do such a thing? You have too much faith if that’s the case.
Just do a small survey of men of other religious leanings and see if they won’t do the same.
Additionally they might even add blame on the wife for “allowing” herself to be raped. Because apparently it’s better for them that she dies than for someone else to have intimate knowledge of her.
Don’t be shocked

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by baby124: 8:21am On Feb 11, 2022
He probably organized the kidnap and rape. Which is why he’s very sure. What some people will do to get their way will shock you!

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by DMerciful(m): 8:28am On Feb 11, 2022
Yeye man with archaic mentality

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by xcesspaschal(m): 8:30am On Feb 11, 2022
Full details would have been great.
Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by DMerciful(m): 8:30am On Feb 11, 2022
This is misandry talking undecided
cococandy:


You think it’s only a Muslim man that will do such a thing? You have too much faith if that’s the case.
Just do a small survey of men of other religious leanings and see if they won’t do the same.
Additionally they might even add blame on the wife for “allowing” herself to be raped. Because apparently it’s better for them that she dies than for someone else to have intimate knowledge of her.
Don’t be shocked

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by emmykk(m): 8:30am On Feb 11, 2022
If you are a woman and happened to be kidnapped,there's no way those that kidnapped you will not be enjoying you while they wait for their Ransome.

As a woman when you are finally released you must tell your husband all that happened while in the den of kidnappers.
Which most importantly if you are slept with.

However as a man if your wife didn't tell you stories of what transpire which should include rogues slept with her, you should not counting it as crime against her but rather be grateful that she came back alive.

There is no woman in idiot den that will not be slept with. Beautiful or not beautiful.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by globalresource: 8:30am On Feb 11, 2022
Truvelisback:
Do u think those Animals won't lay their filty hands on her?

What if they dont

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by oluseyiforjesus(m): 8:30am On Feb 11, 2022
He's mad
Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Millimann: 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
dre11:

El-Rufai said Kaduna lost 1,192 residents to bandit attacks across the state in 2021, while 3,348 citizens were kidnapped.

Now, this is where all the millitary men should be deployed to. Not the south where they are only interested in collecting money and intimidating civilians.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by AZControversial(m): 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
undecided
In other words, he thinks she's been 'contaminated'
Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Ladycewhy(f): 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
cococandy:


You think it’s only a Muslim man that will do such a thing? You have too much faith if that’s the case.
Just do a small survey of men of other religious leanings and see if they won’t do the same.
Additionally they might even add blame on the wife for “allowing” herself to be raped. Because apparently it’s better for them that she dies than for someone else to have intimate knowledge of her.
Don’t be shocked
I agree .


I for one know that in my culture ,raped or not she will kill a white c0ck or goat and schnapps, kolanut and all that for cleansing. For even allowing a man touch her and spending night (s) outside her matrimonial home , abducted or not.

Some churches will tag it adultery and ask the woman to go for penance.

So either way the woman still gets balmed for a situation that is no fault of hers.

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Walkee: 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
Intervene how?
Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Offpoint1: 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
Way some people reason baffles me...

Imagine divorcing your partner of over 20 years when she needed you the most.
They should get that woman a therapist else she might end her life, that's too much of a trauma to go through

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by bewla(m): 8:31am On Feb 11, 2022
If you man enough and you don't want this to happen

Why you don't fight them to protect her from kidnap in the first place

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Re: Man Divorced Wife Of 20 Years Over Suspicion She Was Raped By Kidnappers Kaduna by Aloof: 8:32am On Feb 11, 2022
If he can't cope, let him divorce.

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