hey all,

I am about to graduate from Stanford with a degree in mechanical Engineering. If I return to Nigeria immediately, will I find a smart womanof similar status to marry? Will I find a job with an oil company and be able to live like a king in Lekki, VI etc? It was like this before I left, but I do not know if it is still like this? I want to decide whether to stick with my white girlfriend or return to be an African Prince.

An African prince without job or money?
what sort of advise are you expecting from the public?

Well u just have to make a decision. Nobody can tell u the future and hey life's a risk.just weigh it.

I need advice on how to get job and money to justify my afrikaan prince status.

go to the job centre,that is where you can apply for a job,
there is no easy fast cash these days,you gotta work you tail out mate.

Are you listening? I said I graduated from Stanford! If i dint have a job, no one, not even you, should have a job.

Do you kow how much I paid for school fees?

Ok ,now your going way too far,
how can one come on a social networking site,asking such a stupid question as this?
how do you expect us to know if you will have a wife and a job?
don't you have plans for yourself?
and for the record,i have a good job and i don't think you can get to where i am(don't mean to sound rude),but you started it.
and what if you graduated from Stanford?
and the school fees?

Go and meet your pastor, he will definitely tell you what to do.

But, with your stanford pali yet you don't know how to search for a job?Never mind.

leave your white girlfriend?

do you hear yourself?

life isn't all about money.  so what was the white girlfriend for if you are on NL asking strangers?  you trust us more than you trust her?  i assume you have slept together and she has had your back on different levels (so you would kick her to the curb or keep her just off the words of NL strangers?)

she should ask God to reveal who you really are to her so she can stop wasting her time and find someone worthy of her and her qualities.

as far as you expanding yourself and capitalizing on options

you reap what you sow - how you handle this situation with this "white girl" will also overshadow you in the workplace and your place in that Nubian Kingdom you refer to

i would highly suggest that you handle that situation quite carefully as your blessings come from God - not from the white girl, an oil company or your prospects in Nigeria but how you treat your fellow man and fellow woman - God doesn't see color - he sees intent and actions.

op
u better remain dere with ur white Womanliness sorry ur GF.