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Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Aaay: 3:45pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Really |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Timidangote(m): 3:46pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Op share your contact. I'm going through same thing as you, we can find a solution together. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Bamzyriches451: 3:53pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Damn!! |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Carot: 3:54pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Kingpin1000:i get six sure odds for you. Dont miss this opportunity |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by cliqtips: 3:59pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Please what kind of gambling ? Yankeeboy02: |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Laxy009(m): 4:00pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Go get a new job and disclose your monthly net pay to your wife. Go to your bank and initiate a standing order that a specific amount of the net pay should go to your wife’s account. You may say 80-90% should hit your wife’s account . And your wife should not give you any money or lend you any money. Except the circumstances is very important and your wife will have to oversee that . Set a limit for your betting activities. The only fund you should have in your account should be the funds that will get you to work for the month and the limit amount you have set aside for your betting activities if you’re still interested in your betting activities . Stop looking for sudden wealth ;when you look for sudden wealth you tend to lose more money and make you more poor than you imagine . Betting is based on luck most of the times. Betting is not work . I would advice you to invest than looking for ways to get rich quick . Shalom !!! 1 Like |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by backnbeta(f): 4:00pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
GOTVee:Alfaa mumuni is back... Jesus will touch you and you'll truly and surely become that christian you're claiming 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Favmil101(m): 4:05pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
First off... Working on your thoughts will really help. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Damaug: 4:16pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
[quote author=Yankeeboy02 A demon is involved. The demon is manipulating your mind. Your predicament is spiritual. Trust me, you can't help yourself. All you need do is to humble yourself the more by going on 3 days fasting and prayer and ask God to help and deliver you. Having done that, discipline yourself never to visit the gambling shop again.. Sorry for the loses.. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by na2016: 4:20pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
elpochas: OP, read and reflect on this. this thing is in your mind, once u make up ur mind, u will stop it.[b][/b] |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by lereinter(m): 4:21pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
How do you see gambling Sin, investment, fun If you don't see it as sin it will be hard for you to stop |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Yankeeboy02: 4:33pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Right now am at home crying, seriously in pain, each time I see my son call me daddy and telling me I love you, I just break down and weep....what kind of father am I, since I lost all my resources none of my family call or want to associate with me, my wife has been my only companion, she knows this is not the man she married and think believe I can rise again, but I have lost hope, if I tell you ow much I lost within the space of three years, it giving me headache |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by fof1: 4:36pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02: KEEP ASKING URSELF SILLY QUESTIONS...! My Advice...Give Ur Life to Jesus Christ Now that, ur Eyes are Clear of ur IRRESPONSIBLE Behaviours that hurts. GAMBLING is a Sin...any Genuine Believer will accede to. Go for Deliverance in a Church like Chosen and God will Terminate that illicit Urge to Err. Surrender UR HEART TO THE SAVIOUR OF MANKIND NOW. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Joyceogechi(f): 4:45pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Chat me up on Whatsapp let's discuss 07014813820 quote author=Yankeeboy02 post=110233040]I just want to share my story to the world. When I graduated, I was so blessed that I didn’t hurt for job, before I got one. I was working in the bank and was paid well, within a year I rented an apartment and got married, things was falling in place and I felt on top of the world before I started gambling, how I started it, I can’t explain. I lost all my resources and money within two years, I was sacked eventually and life became worst for me. I got another job and promised my wife, family and kids to be a responsible father, but the urge for gambling keep coming, I couldn’t control the urge, I lost the job again. My wife believed am a good man, but I see myself like am cursed and it is not that am getting money from the gambling. I am sick and tired of life, I am a failure, sometimes I feel like committing suicide, I have brought shame to my family and kids. Please I need help, am jobless, money can’t stay in my hand, I will go to gambling shop and lavish it. Am I cursed, I need help[/quote] |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Deldrax29: 4:47pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
My advice is: Try as much as possible to convince yourself that you will never win. So, when the urge comes again, remind yourself that you will never win no matter what, if you play. Then divert the money somewhere else. Another one is silly. Put rubber band on your hand, whenever... I mean WHENEVER the thought comes, even if you don't want to bet yet, just pull the rubber band inflict pain on your hand . With time(21 days at most) I assure you the thought won't come to you again |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Bolsman(m): 4:56pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Common man! It had really ruined you. You have to stop it by all means. Nobody can help you stop it. Except you! Just take a look at what it had caused you to lose. From car to land. That's outrageous. Stop what's not helping you. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by iamjahmeyou(m): 4:56pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Kingpin1000: Quitting is not easy but possible |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by dalass(f): 5:09pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Gamesmart: Don't ever quote me again 1 Like |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by pcaliphate(m): 5:09pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02: Please Chat me on whatsapp 07063205899. GOD Is In Control. I have something for You. 1 Like |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by pcaliphate(m): 5:11pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Timidangote: Please chat me on Whatsapp (07063205899). I have been there and I want to share with you how I escaped the cage. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by DJInfluence: 5:37pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
You need to see a good therapist to help you combat the gambling issue. Anybody that tells you one religion or the other can help you with this is deceiving you or themselves or both. For your suicide thoughts and feeling of low esteem, it's the same thing. Please go see a therapist. Even a professional therapist can't help you with a single session, so i don't see how anyone can help you here when they are not trained for it or even know anything about you to be giving advice. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Gamesmart: 5:38pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Nairanation2: Nigerian "yoots" are the dumbest and most useless in the World. It really does not get dafter than this. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by aktolly54(m): 5:38pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
GOTVee:yes most Muslim don't drink because of their religion belief but that don't make them better than us ( Christian) that drink . During Muslim fasting period, we know how hotel dey also short patronage because Muslim do adultery pass |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by lebete3000: 5:43pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02: My own na alcohol wan finish me... |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Yankeeboy02: 5:49pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
pcaliphate:Baba thank you for the call....you give me hope, tears in my eyes, but I believe with all u said , I can rise again. One love |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by foreverproduct: 5:54pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02: What you really need is Jesus. Surrender to Him let him take the driver's seat in your life. A life without Christ is in crisis. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by foreverproduct: 5:54pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
lebete3000: Jesus can set you free. Accept Him genuinely today. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by edoman2016: 5:58pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02:Your wife is not a good woman. When you were selling your land, car, etc , why didn't she stop you against selling your properties for gambling? She should have been very firm with you. There is no way she won't be aware during the period |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by balowo(m): 6:34pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
This is just a fake story just to discourage others |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by mhozzis(m): 6:55pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
If it's sports betting. 1. Stop funding your wallet 2. Pick games like you want to gamble 3. Screenshot your slip and save 4. Review the games won/lost after 5. Once again never fund your wallet You get the same thrill as betting with actual money. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Olaideolayemi(m): 7:09pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Yankeeboy02:There's solutions to your problems, You're having spiritual problems..Which religion are you..If you believed in God,That spirit will leave you.. It's spiritual attack, that's affecting you.. |
Re: How I Lost My Job Through Gambling & Becoming An Irresponsible Father by Olaideolayemi(m): 7:14pm On Feb 15, 2022 |
Please be precise,how do you lost your first job and second job?To me,there are forces disturbing you,You need to fight them to regain your life, before they destory you.. |
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