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Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by teedoxman89(m): 3:09pm On Feb 15, 2022
Aunty slapped her brother in-law for taking food from her pot by himself without telling her.

Brother in-law stopped eating at home to avoid further insult.

Brother in-law is an undergraduate.

The brother noticed and asked why, he said nothing.

Brother wasn't satisfied, asked his wife, aunty said ask your brother.

Brother insisted on finding why, so he asked other souls in the house and they told him what happened.

Brother was very angry and felt disrespected by his wife who could have reported to him to handle the issue.

Aunty doesn't work so brother provides everything down to maggi.

Brother told wife to apologise to his brother, aunty said never. That the house is hers.

Brother in-law jejely carried his kaya and left without telling anyone.

Brother has told his wife to leave his house since she cannot accommodate his family members but feels free with her own family members.

Aunty feels her husband is being unreasonable and seeking advise on how best to proceed.

Please members of this group, advise her please ���

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Zonefree(m): 3:12pm On Feb 15, 2022
Aunty is a very foolish human!

Aunty is a perfect example why every reasonable man should avoid Nigerian girls.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by FirmTR(m): 3:13pm On Feb 15, 2022
Na them, evil gender .

Before marriage, them go do like say na dem love your family pass.
But after you marry them, you go see their real nature.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Romanoff(f): 3:18pm On Feb 15, 2022
Aunty went too far and slapping her BIL is disrespectful to her husband.

She should have gone through her husband to tell the brother what ever she wasn't comfortable with.

This isn't about him footing the bills, what if she's the one footing the bills?

She should sha swallow her pride and apologize and if she doesn't want to see any in-laws, she should also prepare to ask her siblings to stay away as well.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Premiumwriter: 3:20pm On Feb 15, 2022
Why do people attach so much importance to things like pot of foods?

Like someone is staying in your house, sleeping on a bed there, yet he cannot touch the pot of food?

Like the same food you'll still put in the plate for him to eat?


I just don't understand when people quarrel and say it's wrong to go into the pot of food of another family member when they are not stealing the food.

Tell her that she's not only being unreasonable and a drama queen but also wicked and devilish.

Like what's so special about going to fetch food from the pot that she'll be causing trouble. Lemme guess, does the brother take permission before drinking water in the house or before using their bathroom?

Some people just hear things and follow them without ever thinking about them

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Jeremani: 3:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
So bc he saves you the stress of serving him you then slapped him?

You can't still apologize?

The bro was never in control of his house.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by goshikid: 3:35pm On Feb 15, 2022
Na very foolish woman she be. No woman go fit try that nonsense with me o
You know how we take start before you come meet me, if you fit accomodate your family members watin stop you from accomodating mine?
When na me the provide for house, the pay house rent, the pay school fees, assisting both families, Omo them no born that woman well, she must be able to accomodate both families,


She must apologise to the guy,

if not, kasala go burst undecided

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by scrolldown88: 3:42pm On Feb 15, 2022
Aunty should gettat!!!
Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by bigcee(m): 3:43pm On Feb 15, 2022
Food? What kind of woman is that. You slapped your BIL because of food. This one just weak me undecided

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by tommy589(m): 3:51pm On Feb 15, 2022
Premiumwriter:
Why do people attach so much importance to things like pot of foods?

Like someone is staying in your house, sleeping on a bed there, yet he cannot touch the pot of food?

Like the same food you'll still put in the plate for him to eat?


I just don't understand when people quarrel and say it's wrong to go into the pot of food of another family member when they are not stealing the food.

Tell her that she's not only being unreasonable and a drama queen but also wicked and devilish.

Like what's so special about going to fetch food from the pot that she'll be causing trouble. Lemme guess, does the brother take permission before drinking water in the house or before using their bathroom?

Some people just hear things and follow them without ever thinking about them

It is pride

It is like marking a territory so everyone will know who is in control. Most times you find this attitude from people of humble beginning

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by bigdammyj: 3:53pm On Feb 15, 2022
Let her advise herself
Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by yomi007k(m): 5:31pm On Feb 15, 2022
Husband and BIL are real men.


Naija girls are useless.


Ask mosdi.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by AoifeNightfall: 5:53pm On Feb 15, 2022
Zonefree:
Aunty is a very foolish human!

Aunty is a perfect example why every reasonable man should avoid Nigerian girls.

So because of this one aunty men should avoid Nigerian women

If it's like that every man should avoid white women na because of what this one white woman did to the man below.

Nigerian men have sense sha cheesy

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Jeon(f): 8:22pm On Feb 15, 2022
AoifeNightfall:


So because of this one aunty men should avoid Nigerian women

If it's like that every man should avoid white women na because of what this one white woman did to the man below.

Nigerian men have sense sha cheesy


#TEAMFOREIGN
stop being hater angry

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by candidladyTemp(f): 8:36pm On Feb 15, 2022
yomi007k:
Husband and BIL are real men.


Naija girls are useless.


Ask mosdi.


When will you kiddos grow lil balls and stop leaving under the spell of your so-called God "mosdi"


Think for yourself ..
Don't worry you won't get brain freeze

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by yomi007k(m): 9:21pm On Feb 15, 2022
candidladyTemp:



When will you kiddos grow lil balls and stop leaving under the spell of your so-called God "mosdi"


Think for yourself ..
Don't worry you won't get brain freeze

Senseless talk...lol grin

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by candidladyTemp(f): 9:25pm On Feb 15, 2022
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yomi007k:


Senseless talk...lol grin


[/s]

Wasted egg... Egg that your mum shoulda fried cry

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by yomi007k(m): 9:26pm On Feb 15, 2022
candidladyTemp:





Wasted egg... Egg that your mum shoulda fried cry

Your talking about yourself, becos you sound so bitter and so wasted. grin

You know filthy words come out of a filthy mind.

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by AoifeNightfall: 8:01am On Feb 16, 2022
Jeon:



#TEAMFOREIGN
stop being hater angry

grin cheesy

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Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by drnoel: 8:09am On Feb 16, 2022
teedoxman89:
Aunty slapped her brother in-law for taking food from her pot by himself without telling her.

Brother in-law stopped eating at home to avoid further insult.

Brother in-law is an undergraduate.

The brother noticed and asked why, he said nothing.

Brother wasn't satisfied, asked his wife, aunty said ask your brother.

Brother insisted on finding why, so he asked other souls in the house and they told him what happened.

Brother was very angry and felt disrespected by his wife who could have reported to him to handle the issue.

Aunty doesn't work so brother provides everything down to maggi.

Brother told wife to apologise to his brother, aunty said never. That the house is hers.

Brother in-law jejely carried his kaya and left without telling anyone.

Brother has told his wife to leave his house since she cannot accommodate his family members but feels free with her own family members.

Aunty feels her husband is being unreasonable and seeking advise on how best to proceed.

Please members of this group, advise her please ���

The action was synonymous to sending her home and asking her to go and cool down. If she has children then she goes to her parents house without her kids.
She can come back once her head has corrected.
If she does it again, then this time while she is in her parents house she will have to give reasons why she has to be allowed back home with that kind of horrible character.
Why would U slap Ur BIL? That is a grave action that could make the family return your dowry. A case of "eti biala isii Mmauwu" (breaking the head of the masquerade), an abomination.
Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by pretydiva(f): 8:36am On Feb 16, 2022
Na her ego go kill her las las. She better go and apologize if she wants her marriage to work
Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by luwiizy(m): 8:46am On Feb 16, 2022
Such kind of woman builds resentments in the extended families...

Over pot of food...
Like are the lacking food in the house...
Or what?

And she can't apologize...
Like she's right?

She's a time bombing waiting to explode
And when these happen you better
Don't get shocked.
Re: Please Members Of This Group, Advise Her Please by Double0h7(f): 8:56am On Feb 16, 2022
Poverty caused it...

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