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| Advise Her by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
I'm a 23 year old student in my final semester(6 months)..... I met my boyfriend and we started dating in my 2nd semester.My boyfriend was smart and he loved business/investments. So, during my 5th semester he suggested I give him my school fees to do an investment including his own as well.... after so much thoughts that nothing could go wrong,well I think he lost everything and I still stuck with him while he tried to figure things out for me to go back to school(he didn't succeed).... I dropped out of school for a year..and currently my parents feel I'm done with school and i just need to pick my certificate... They gave me money to come back to Ghana and get my certificate but as I type this I'm squatting with my friend because I can't afford a hostel or even feed.... I really want to finish my Last semester and be a graduate so I can work and fix the mess in my life but I know how long it took my folks to raise this money for me to pick up a certificate I don't have... I know how many times I've cried and had suicidal thoughts since I came into this country... I have so much regrets. My so called boyfriend came to finish his school, broke up with me and his living well.... I have thought of things to do to make him suffer for everything he put me through.... I want him dead or suffer greatly... please advice me on how to handle this issue and stay sane.... For a friend 1 Like |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 1:16pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is a scam... Everyone go into it for a selfish purpose... |
| Re: Advise Her by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Idahtee: Forget about the revenge. It's all your fault for falling in love blindly. It's time to pick up the pieces of what's left of your life and make something out of it. Look for money and finish your last year. Cheers  1 Like |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 1:25pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
 Definitely suicide is not the answer.. Does her school offer a loan for their students? Or why not apply as a working student in her school? |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 1:26pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
gabinogem: Not really.. I bet u never been in love yet? I mean deeply madly crazy in love  1 Like |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 1:30pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
JULIE1925:lol...that's where the scam lies...cuz both can't be "deeply-madly-crazy" in love at same time  |
| Re: Advise Her by lilkech(m): 1:34pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
A human being in final semester of final year in a higher institution wrote all this without proper punctuation or paragraphing? Chei! Nigeria... which way? |
| Re: Advise Her by IamLEGEND1: 1:37pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Well,she's the architect of her own misery.
but we won't hold it against her if she became an olosho to raise funds. 4 Likes |
| Re: Advise Her by IamLEGEND1: 1:38pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
lilkech:This one Na Ghanaian product. |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 1:40pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
gabinogem: Then how cud that be a scam na?  |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 1:42pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
JULIE1925:One will always be a sucker for the other that hasn't been caught in the so called "deeply-madly-crazy" love |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 1:55pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
gabinogem: Hahahahah... U have a different definition of LOVE & urs sounds so painful & bitter. |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 2:04pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
JULIE1925:lol...but some defines it as pain...where u have to sacrifice to prove it. ... As for me, I believe in fair play |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 2:27pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
gabinogem: Yeah i do believe in saying "LOVE IS SACRIFICE".. But there is sweetness in every sacrifice u give to ur special someone.. |
| Re: Advise Her by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
I wonder how some girls think. They always give their boyfriend their school fees, then drop out from school. This same boys will still breakup with them. Honestly am baffled when I see such, I wonder what they were thinking  Op, it's a pity uv played kalo kalo with your career. Don't worry forgive him cos carrying so much hate will not help you. Another chance in making it, will come your way again. Just shine your eyes and brain, to be able to grasp such opportunity when it comes knocking. Best of luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Advise Her by LessNoise: 2:45pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
lilkech: She schooled in Ghana chalie |
| Re: Advise Her by alphaconde(m): 2:53pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
i support u kill him but slowly |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 3:05pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
JULIE1925:It will be sweeter if that special someone reciprocate the great gesture  ... not taking ur sacrifice for granted, as seen in the OP's case |
| Re: Advise Her by Stevengerd(m): 3:05pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
lilkech:Ode. where u see nigeria? |
| Re: Advise Her by JULIE1925(f): 3:37pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
gabinogem: Yes i agree with u.. But the thing is when u sacrifice, u do it coz u want it and u are not being forced juz to make ur partner happy... Chaaiii...too much love ooo |
| Re: Advise Her by 9japrof(m): 3:43pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
School Relationships are risks, 98% of it are for selfish reasons, Guys are looking for the cutest and most sexiest lady on campus to insert their ATM into her Machine while the ladies are looking for the money bag that would pay her bills and other frivolities like partying etc I aint contributing shhiit, How she made her bed is how she would lie on it, she made her decision and she should reap the benefits, and let her stupid head not think of vengeance cos its gon back fire. Nonsense, your parents were there sweating their ass off to pay your bills, denying themselves some good things in life to give you a bright future and your useless self is there misbehaving and playing some useless stunt love... 2 Likes |
| Re: Advise Her by gabinogem(m): 3:52pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
JULIE1925:at the bolded, that won't be an outright sacrifice. To my own understanding, I believe sacrifice is something valuable which u give away in order to gain something of value in return. |
| Re: Advise Her by Pubichairs(m): 4:06pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
too much Ghanian Banku blinded you from seeing the dude wasn't a human leave everything to God, nothing more to contribute here
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| Re: Advise Her by lilkech(m): 4:44pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Stevengerd: Shattap ya mouth dia After schooling in Ghana wouldn’t she return back here to finish our eyes in this country with her poorly punctuated writing? Or will she live the rest of her life over there? You are a stup1d human being for not using your brain to quote me Never try it again |
| Re: Advise Her by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
Idahtee: Na wa o. |
| Re: Advise Her by Stevengerd(m): 4:52pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
lilkech:werey u tink say nairaland na ur papa house, callin is fada stupid. |
| Re: Advise Her by lilkech(m): 4:58pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
^^^ chei ! I’ve suffered See pikin wey I fit born dey follow me talk like this Na wao for children of this generation |
| Re: Advise Her by boxer022(m): 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2018 |
My Sister this your case is a serious one oh. He scammed you in the name of investment and left you hanging. Well what I believe you can do is look for minial jobs that you can do to raise money. Try as much as you can to finish up your studies and continue with your life. As for that criminal of a boyfriend, nature will judge him. |
| Re: Advise Her by Nobody: 11:53am On Jan 23, 2018 |
wetin Zykod: |
| Re: Advise Her by Mentorababio: 12:16pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
lilkech:you are a fool...she spelt everything, with the right tenses....and used the same thing i used here (with the dots) to seperate her statements. she is not writing an application letter for you to know she is a qualified graduate...na wa for people oh |
| Re: Advise Her by lilkech(m): 1:09pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
^^^ Anything worth doing is WORTH DOING WELL now Fuk off my mentions 1mbecile  |
| Re: Advise Her by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jan 23, 2018 |
What exactly do you want? Take a revenge on your ex boyfriend or finish your school. If you want the latter, how much do you need to round off your degree programme? |
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