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The Joys Of Being Single by nickyj19: 1:45pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
Does anyone else here enjoy being single? I thought it
might be fun to have a thread for people who enjoy being
on their own. This isn't to say being single is superior to
relationships, or you can't enjoy both. But, so many threads
in Love and Dating are very negative, or about how awful it
is being alone.
While I enjoy activities with others, I like being single
because I don't have to plan everything with someone.
After a week of worrying about other people's needs at
work, this is enjoyable...and often necessary.
While I never expected a perfect partner, it's also nice not
having to worry about other people's insecurities. I don't
mean people who work on their problems, which is fine. I
mean those who want to dump their unwanted feelings on
you. I'm happy to deal with my own issues, work on my own
goals, and pursue my own desires, instead of feeling like a
free therapist--especially for issues the other person
doesn't want to resolve.
It's fun to plan what you want, go when you want, and live
how you want, within reason. To find your own balance,
instead of constantly feeling exhausting while trying to
recharge.
I also find I have time to be in touch with myself more
deeply and know myself better. Too much of my own
relationship experience was me communicating directly
with someone who didn't want that. My life feels more my
own, instead of endless compromises with no one ending
up happy.
What do you enjoy about single life |
Re: The Joys Of Being Single by Nobody: 1:47pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
My unclothedness. I don't like wearing clothes inside a house |
Re: The Joys Of Being Single by Nobody: 1:52pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody. |
Re: The Joys Of Being Single by AdeniyiA(m): 2:09pm On Feb 16, 2022 |
Wisesaying001: Anti-divine school of thought |
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