.

You like drama. All this back and forth never tire u obviously.

CandyOps:
This story is funny sha.. but I'll be brief.

So I met my current babe 4 months ago. She's cute and fine asf. Let's just say she's a spec

The only issue we have is she's homeless and broke and I'm not looking at settling down at the moment. To put it mildly, we like to say she's having accomodation issues.

I'm not so sure but I think she came from the east to Lagos with a guy she wanted to marry but it didn't work out. So she left the guy's house and have been working sales-girl jobs that offer accomodation alongside.

She quit her job and had to vacate the room.
Now she wants to keep her luggage in my place while she figures out herself. The thing is, there's no time limit on how long it'll take her to find a place because she's short on cash and I don't have spare cash to help her rent a room with.

Now here's the 2nd problem,

She has always told me from Day 1 that she's looking for a man to get married to. And she don't believe she is with me. She says I'm not serious. She says it indirectly at times and I think it's because her Ex bought her a car and opened a store for her while they were together.

She's a great person and someone I would have loved to settle with if I was financially capable.

She moved in and stayed with me for 2 weeks sometimes last December when she had issues with her female friend where she was squatting but I had to send her packing because she was rationing the sex with me.

She will give me today and remind me we're not married the next time. We always have a fight about that because I don't like to be sex-starved.

I mean, I'm providing almost everything for her. She has no reason to.

She left my place to her male friend's place who had 2 rooms and stay alone but she had to leave the guy because she said he was too possessive. And the guy was ready to settle down I think.

Luckily for her, she got accomodation at her new job but the place is not manageable. Too much mosquitoes. No fan and no mattress.

She even begged me to stop calling her so she can move on but we couldn't stay apart from each other.

Once again, she had to quit the job.

Now she is looking for where to lay head while she finds an accomodation. She got a new job too 45k. It's poor and she can't get a house with that salary in Lagos.

I stay in a mini flat so no spare rooms. Besides, I don't want a repeat of what happened the last time when she had to pack out of my house angrily and created a scene.

I believe she already lost that privilege.

I found a place for her to keep her luggage while she sleeps in my place but she's feeling bad because I didn't let her to keep it in my place. So she said we should move on..

As we speak, she has refused to come into the room. She insists on sleeping in the sitting room because she's trying to break things off with me and wants to cut off some things that will spring up more emotions.

I understand but it's tiring. I just tire!

Me, I don't want to keep someone in my house who's homeless. I mean, it's just like marriage na

Besides, she no de even give me BJ she say she will only do that when married. She doesn't have relatives in Lagos and don't want to go back to the East.

I just weak!
My guys no dey even make matter any better by calling her 'our wife' anytime she's around.

I never buy car yet and my business is young. This is my 3rd year in Lagos. My buisness revenue is roughly around 2.5 million monthly (net) not enough to buy a car pay rent and stay afloat

How do I end this? and still be friends with her?

I dey find wife.. I'm serious.. link me up with her

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Patented:
You like drama. All this back and forth never tire u obviously.

Ok how do I discharge her? That's the question

tosteMedia:



I dey find wife.. I'm serious.. link me up with her

Lol she fit no gree based on say na me recommend you bro. But like I said she's a complete spec. It's unfortunate she has this accomodation issue

You'll be brief but you ended up writing a textbook

Oga You're a wicked man, you want her to be giving you sex but you don't want her to stay with you

Drama Queen.

Na only bj she no dey give u dey vex u nothing else…

CandyOps:
This story is funny sha.. but I'll be brief.

So I met my current babe 4 months ago. She's cute and fine asf. Let's just say she's a spec

The only issue we have is she's homeless and broke and I'm not looking at settling down at the moment. To put it mildly, we like to say she's having accomodation issues.

I'm not so sure but I think she came from the east to Lagos with a guy she wanted to marry but it didn't work out. So she left the guy's house and have been working sales-girl jobs that offer accomodation alongside.

She quit her job and had to vacate the room.
Now she wants to keep her luggage in my place while she figures out herself. The thing is, there's no time limit on how long it'll take her to find a place because she's short on cash and I don't have spare cash to help her rent a room with.

Now here's the 2nd problem,

She has always told me from Day 1 that she's looking for a man to get married to. And she don't believe she is with me. She says I'm not serious. She says it indirectly at times and I think it's because her Ex bought her a car and opened a store for her while they were together.

She's a great person and someone I would have loved to settle with if I was financially capable.

She moved in and stayed with me for 2 weeks sometimes last December when she had issues with her female friend where she was squatting but I had to send her packing because she was rationing the sex with me.

She will give me today and remind me we're not married the next time. We always have a fight about that because I don't like to be sex-starved.

I mean, I'm providing almost everything for her. She has no reason to.

She left my place to her male friend's place who had 2 rooms and stay alone but she had to leave the guy because she said he was too possessive. And the guy was ready to settle down I think.

Luckily for her, she got accomodation at her new job but the place is not manageable. Too much mosquitoes. No fan and no mattress.

She even begged me to stop calling her so she can move on but we couldn't stay apart from each other.

Once again, she had to quit the job.

Now she is looking for where to lay head while she finds an accomodation. She got a new job too 45k. It's poor and she can't get a house with that salary in Lagos.

I stay in a mini flat so no spare rooms. Besides, I don't want a repeat of what happened the last time when she had to pack out of my house angrily and created a scene.

I believe she already lost that privilege.

I found a place for her to keep her luggage while she sleeps in my place but she's feeling bad because I didn't let her to keep it in my place. So she said we should move on..

As we speak, she has refused to come into the room. She insists on sleeping in the sitting room because she's trying to break things off with me and wants to cut off some things that will spring up more emotions.

I understand but it's tiring. I just tire!

Me, I don't want to keep someone in my house who's homeless. I mean, it's just like marriage na

Besides, she no de even give me BJ she say she will only do that when married. She doesn't have relatives in Lagos and don't want to go back to the East.

I just weak!
My guys no dey even make matter any better by calling her 'our wife' anytime she's around.

I never buy car yet and my business is young. This is my 3rd year in Lagos. My buisness revenue is roughly around 2.5 million monthly (net) not enough to buy a car pay rent and stay afloat

How do I end this? and still be friends with her?

Is any girl looking for a female roommate?
Location- Okota, Lagos?
Budget- 100k

Mumu Man, you end it when you want to end it, shikenah.
Not Sorry To Call You Mumu Ooo, but you be Mumu Man

Qatar2022:
Oga You're a wicked man, you want her to be giving you sex but you don't want her to stay with you

She left her home all the way from the east, with no plans of accomodation ( spare me the ex boyfriend ish) , and here's someone willing to share her burden (feeding, accom).

There's no free lunch, even in freetown!

Tell her you are ready to marry her. She should go and inform her people.

CandyOps:


Lol she fit no gree based on say na me recommend you bro. But like I said she's a complete spec. It's unfortunate she has this accomodation issue

You don't have to recommend me.. you can set us up and it will look natural..

Cansops your problem plenty o
E pass mine
Werik you go do an to help her live in that house op
Make she go manage mosquito net o
Else I Dont know what to tell you
Person tell you she wan marrybut because of your ojukokoro you collect am put for house to dey chow am anyhow
Na your Cross Carey am

You should have simply said:

A lady is looking for a house mate around Ogba. Budget is 100k. She is cool and hardworking.

That would have helped you solve your so-called problem. Unfortunately, with this story you have painted her in a very different light and you would not get the solution to your problem.

Summary, the gist wasn't necessary.

Back to my matter, if you want a practical way to earn online, check my signature.

Lagos people be dating each other for years and they won't even know each other's name not to talk of where the partner came from The city of roamers

What of the car her ex bought for her?

I don't support you allow her stay since you don't want commitments now.

You will have to let her go completely even if you won't remain friends.

Why won't she give you a blow jab? She dey maaad?

She doesn't really love you!

Op the situation here is that you guys are frns with benefits period

CandyOps:
This story is funny sha.. but I'll be brief.?
Budget- 100k

Op That girl is nothing but A Parasite with Bad luck on her side. She has a lot of problems, moving from one house or job to the other.

You'd be a Fool to get married to such a person.

hmmm op you never serious :-

You said she's from the east? don't do couples life with her if she's an ibo girl because if she mistakenly get pregnant, the child will belong to her family because you're yet to pay dowry. #Justsaying

All this in 4 months

odinson1:


Op That girl is nothing but A Parasite with Bad luck on her side. She has a lot of problems, moving from one house or job to the other.

You'd be a Fool to get married to such a person.

Boss I'm not ready for marriage now. Na Vision 2025 I get. I need to grow my financial base to like 5 to 10m before I engagae person pikin.

Besides, men who are ready usually travel down to the East or village and marry a girl that fits their specs and set her up in town when she's your wife. I can marry her and get her a job.

I'm not just ready for it now. I don't want it to be a move I make because she's with me and has accomodation issues

Victorrhymez:
All this in 4 months

My guy! I just weak

4 months wey be like 4 years o

sojisenai:
You should have simply said:

A lady is looking for a house mate around Ogba. Budget is 100k. She is cool and hardworking.

That would have helped you solve your so-called problem. Unfortunately, with this story you have painted her in a very different light and you would not get the solution to your problem.

Summary, the gist wasn't necessary.

Back to my matter, if you want a practical way to earn online, check my signature.

Guy that story is needed because na me go still drop the 100k.

I'm expecting to hear suggestions from men who are good with women and have been in such a situation not just advice from every Tom Dick & Harry.

I'm looking for advice from men who have game on the best way to discharge her

Whois:
You said she's from the east? don't do couples life with her if she's an ibo girl because if she mistakenly get pregnant, the child will belong to her family because you're yet to pay dowry. #Justsaying

We don't sleep together anymore. That's the first step to a breakup I think

JustPowerApps:
Lagos people be dating each other for years and they won't even know each other's name not to talk of where the partner came from The city of roamers

My guy
This town just tire me lol looks like u have been in such situation abi?

CandyOps:


Guy that story is needed because na me go still drop the 100k.

I'm expecting to hear suggestions from men who are good with women and have been in such a situation not just advice from every Tom Dick & Harry.

I'm looking for advice from men who have game on the best way to discharge her

Smh. You obviously don't want a solution.

arthurwillia:
Cansops your problem plenty o
E pass mine
Werik you go do an to help her live in that house op
Make she go manage mosquito net o
Else I Dont know what to tell you
Person tell you she wan marrybut because of your ojukokoro you collect am put for house to dey chow am anyhow
Na your Cross Carey am

I been dey even advice am to travel go back East but her friend go tell am say I be wicked person to give her that kind of advice.

Nna men this kin cross tire me .. wetin be ojukokoro abeg? I think I understand sha this no be laffing matter abeg.

CandyOps:


Guy that story is needed because na me go still drop the 100k.

I'm expecting to hear suggestions from men who are good with women and have been in such a situation not just advice from every Tom Dick & Harry.

I'm looking for advice from men who have game on the best way to discharge her

Smh. You obviously don't want a lasting solution.