Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 2,968,442 members, 7,205,677 topics. Date: Thursday, 08 December 2022 at 03:54 AM

Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You - Romance (2) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You (3461 Views)

My Girlfriend Who Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is A Porn Addict / Unfortunately Marriage Is Overated, Here's Why You Should Not Marry Anyone / My Dad Says Sex Is Overated & Sex Styles Are Demonic, My Mum's Shocking Reaction (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Nobody: 9:30pm On Feb 26
Mrlance15:
Yes you helped a great deal, thank you.

Don't mention comrade
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by SenecaTheYonger: 9:35pm On Feb 26
Maybe try letting a gay man fvck your anus. You might enjoy it.

Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 9:36pm On Feb 26
SenecaTheYonger:
Maybe try letting a gay man fvck your anus. You might enjoy it.

See how deluded and brain dead you are? Seems you do it, that's why you're so into it.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by SenecaTheYonger: 9:38pm On Feb 26
Mrlance15:
See how deluded and brain dead you are? Seems you do it, that's why you're so into it.

You just said you don’t enjoy sex with women. If your dick is working properly then maybe it’s women you don’t like.

Or maybe you’re asexual

1 Like

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Nobody: 9:39pm On Feb 26
Mtcheew... this one when go soon go for rematch undecided

2 Likes

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 9:43pm On Feb 26
SenecaTheYonger:


You just said you don’t enjoy sex with women. If your dick is working properly then maybe it’s women you don’t like.

Or maybe you’re asexual
Did you know how to read? I can't be having a conversation with someone that has your kind of IQ.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Nobody: 9:50pm On Feb 26
My first time was wack too. I had just wanted to get it over with. The second i started feeling funny, i knew that was my cue to pull out (I'm a control freak, i leave nothing to chance), still followed up with the MA pill.

Lucky enough for me she was a virgin too. So we had at it again, and again until we both started feeling it. I realized i was more of a straight-out fùcker than a love-maker. I'll advise you experiment some more. Explore your sexuality. Refrain from putting labels on anything. Let sex is be sex, something that happens when the mood is right. Overated or not, needn't matter.

All the best.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by SenecaTheYonger: 10:20pm On Feb 26
Mrlance15:
Did you know how to read? I can't be having a conversation with someone that has your kind of IQ.

Why are you being defensive? grin

1 Like

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 10:42pm On Feb 26
SenecaTheYonger:


Why are you being defensive? grin
I'm not being defensive, I have the freedom to choose who I talk to right?
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Fashionista01(f): 10:45pm On Feb 26
The way young men of these days venture into sex as if they are going to win an Olympic medal afterward.

Remember, you are the soul pilot of your destiny.

Drive it with care to avoid regret.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Realist12: 1:01am On Feb 27
Hmmm
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Realist12: 1:02am On Feb 27
Wrong tread
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Ade3131: 4:06am On Feb 27
Mrlance15:
So I didn't enjoy it because she's not the right person?

That's my opinion....
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by UnclePrincipal(m): 9:21am On Feb 27
Fashionista01:
The way young men of these days venture into sex as if they are going to win an Olympic medal afterward.

Remember, you are the soul pilot of your destiny.

Drive it with care to avoid regret.


Can't you form a sentence without bias? Abi the young men dey fork themselves. No be women dem dey fork. And how many time do you see men buying sexual gadgets the way your gender do.

2 Likes

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Adsexpert: 9:31am On Feb 27
Mrlance15:
I created this account for anonymity, I am 26, and I lost my virginity very recently, I stayed a virgin this long because sex wasn't my priority, I was chasing money and education, I had several opportunity but it just doesn't feel right, even when I was in school I do sleep over at my girlfriend's but I never touched her or make a move.

It was alot of pressure then because I was the only Virgin in my clique, when my friends discuss sex I just say stuff I learnt online just to contribute and not feel left out, they all believed i am a pro who have had sex many time, I never told any of them that I am a virgin because they'll mock me, I was so troubled that I vowed to loose my Virginity this year, getting a girl isn't hard for me as I am average looking and doing a little well financially, I have dated girls in the past and I didn't attempt anything sexual with them, one even came to my place one morning, joined me on bed and tempted me till I got an erection but I didn't make a move still, one even left me because I didn't try anything sexual with her, I didn't know it was her reason until she told me five months after we broke up,

Fast forward to when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, we clicked so fast and within a week it became a serious relationship, at first I told her no sex, she pretended like she doesn't want sex too, until one day she came around and we were cuddling and she started touching me, asked me to lay down and she was kissing my nipples and bitting my ear, so I got aroused, lost control, when I tried to take her clothes off she let me, her bra same thing until she was stark naked, so I dived in without protection, it happened so fast and I wasn't even enjoying it, it was way different from what I expected because I have fantasized about sex alot,

After the sex, I became gloomy and filled with regrets and fear, especially when I started having muscle pain the next day with serious tiredness, I thought I have contracted something, so many things going on in my head,

First problem is, why did someone like me who is always careful make such a mistake having sex without protection, I was so scared of STDs but I wasn't thinking when it happened,

Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.

You got to deal with your mindset and free yourself from the beliefs of remaining virgin or hating against sex..

I guess you are a xtain.. feelings like this always happens in most scenario which is not needed all the time.. hating yourself and beating yourself up wishing if you could turn back the hands of time..

You are dealing with anxiety and fear if sex.. you are not forced to do it . But know that the 1st time sex is always like that it truly happened to me , the first time I had sex was when I was 20 years old.. and that day I wasn't able to cum cus it felt strange ..

You might decide not to have sex , but if u do it second and 3rd time that's when you get to know what sex truly is..and it's good sensation

Sex is not everything though.. but with the right yansh , pussy, dick and chemistry .. na bomb oh.. you didn't have a chemistry with her and also it was your first time , chillax .
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 11:40am On Feb 27
Adsexpert:


You got to deal with your mindset and free yourself from the beliefs of remaining virgin or hating against sex..

I guess you are a xtain.. feelings like this always happens in most scenario which is not needed all the time.. hating yourself and beating yourself up wishing if you could turn back the hands of time..

You are dealing with anxiety and fear if sex.. you are not forced to do it . But know that the 1st time sex is always like that it truly happened to me , the first time I had sex was when I was 20 years old.. and that day I wasn't able to cum cus it felt strange ..

You might decide not to have sex , but if u do it second and 3rd time that's when you get to know what sex truly is..and it's good sensation

Sex is not everything though.. but with the right yansh , pussy, dick and chemistry .. na bomb oh.. you didn't have a chemistry with her and also it was your first time , chillax .
This makes alot of sense, and it's exactly what I'm going through, thanks for this.

1 Like

Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Lordedifice1: 5:39pm On Feb 27
No pre-intimacy
No romance
Sucking of whatever she sucked for how long?

Number 1:you sex hormones are dead form the day you were born
Number 2: you don't know how have intimacy with a lady,so therefore you are not man in enough to handle a woman on bed
Number 3:your mind is filled with junks
Number 4: stay off sex am i communicating comrade?
You can't come here and start running your mouth or crying and wailing on what you know that you are very inexperienced with.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Adsexpert: 6:23pm On Feb 27
Mrlance15:
This makes alot of sense, and it's exactly what I'm going through, thanks for this.

Your welcome
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Nobody: 6:29pm On Feb 27
Non- nigerian girl never fvck your brain comot na why

My swedish ex that girl be purnstar and na only one guy she been don date b4 me, but Nnnaa mehnnnnnn dat girl really make me see nigerian girls as log of firewood
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Nobody: 6:33pm On Feb 27
UnclePrincipal:


Can't you form a sentence without bias? Abi the young men dey fork themselves. No be women dem dey fork. And how many time do you see men buying sexual gadgets the way your gender do.
That gender don make me and my papa no dey chop cucumber again, I dey even suspect say dem dey also use carrot sef
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 5:40am On Feb 28
Lordedifice1:
No pre-intimacy
No romance
Sucking of whatever she sucked for how long?

Number 1:you sex hormones are dead form the day you were born
Number 2: you don't know how have intimacy with a lady,so therefore you are not man in enough to handle a woman on bed
Number 3:your mind is filled with junks
Number 4: stay off sex am i communicating comrade?
You can't come here and start running your mouth or crying and wailing on what you know that you are very inexperienced with.
Lol look how ludicrous you sound, where in the world did you learn that sex hormones can die? So dumb.

Intimacy is subjective, what's intimacy to you differs from the next person, like I said earlier, you're dumb.

Third, you're not my psychologist, so how could you possibly know the content of my mind?

You're not communicating, I don't speak stupid and I can't interpret psychobabble, so get your leash back on, thank you.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Lordedifice1: 12:14pm On Feb 28
Mrlance15:
Lol look how ludicrous you sound, where in the world did you learn that sex hormones can die? So dumb.

Intimacy is subjective, what's intimacy to you differs from the next person, like I said earlier, you're dumb.

Third, you're not my psychologist, so how could you possibly know the content of my mind?

You're not communicating, I don't speak stupid and I can't interpret psychobabble, so get your leash back on, thank you.

OMG I just realise that I just spoke to an idiot
For you to come here telling us we the professionals,veterans,experts and experienced people that sex overrated shows that your demented mental psychosis brain is long dead. Tell us you dont know how to do it rather than criticizing what you have no idea of.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Mrlance15: 12:29pm On Feb 28
Lordedifice1:


OMG I just realise that I just spoke to an idiot
For you to come here telling us we the professionals,veterans,experts and experienced people that sex overrated shows that your demented mental psychosis brain is long dead. Tell us you dont know how to do it rather than criticizing what you have no idea of.
Oga you can't even construct a simple sentence, I won't be caught debating with an imbec.ile, so bye.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by Lordedifice1: 12:47pm On Feb 28
Mrlance15:
Oga you can't even construct a simple sentence, I won't be caught debating with an imbec.ile, so bye.

I don't answer to psychopaths
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by DonroxyII: 10:32am On Mar 06
Mrlance15:


Second, she's not a virgin, she is a pro when it comes to sex she was only pretending at first, I felt used, I felt stupid, then I asked her about her period, something I should have done before sex, she said it's fine but I still don't feel relief, I just hurriedly put on my clothes and asked her to leave, she just looked at me with confusion, put on her clothes and left, then she chat me up in the evening, and mentioned the sex, that was when I realized that I suddenly hate her and I hate myself for same reason, I have been avoiding her since then, my only thought so far was, "shey na the sex sex sex people dey hype be this" it's not worth it at all, if you're still a virgin please cherish it and don't loose it until you're married, sex is overated.

Sorry for the long read.
Na so You just Buy Market grin ... Sex is not Overrated but not meant to be done anyhow.

Most of us fell but we Dust up not running Mouth like Ofe-Akwu stuffed Tongues.
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by DonroxyII: 10:33am On Mar 06
Zonefree:
After devouring someone's daughter kpekus, you come here to lament.
Leave am now grin
He no get am for Respect shuuuu !
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by DonroxyII: 10:36am On Mar 06
Mrlance15:
The sucking of nipples and bitting of ear is what comrade? undecided
That Girl Don pour you no be small grin .. u no cum ni
Re: Sex Is Overated Don't Let Anyone Fool You by DonroxyII: 10:38am On Mar 06
IamV:
Post nut clarity
Dude Don Reset !

(1) (2) (Reply)

Why Do Couples Cheat On Each Other / I Think I Am Falling In Love With My Subordinate / Should I Accept His Proposal Or Not? Urgent Advice Needed!

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2022 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 189
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.