edunaragold:
To be brief, happy Sunday everon
,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs,
MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.


The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again.

(1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con
Or

(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .

edunaragold:
MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow

CANDYDADDY:

BONDAGE u guys call marriage

But sleeping with countless women is not bondage

A lot of you here are from broken homes so you are broken

Asking others to be like you, will not heal you!

Skullano:
She has moved to the east so let her be and focus on completing your building bros..

When you don't call or send her funds for a long time then we will know how far she's prepared to stay alone.

So what if she remarries Will you go and live in the new building with OP

Skullano:
She has moved to the east so let her be and focus on completing your building bros..

When you don't call or send her funds for a long time then we will know how far she's prepared to stay alone.

donbachi:
Pikin wey grow,go ask for him papa

Datboredberri:
Lol... Most don't

Leave am! Make hime dey console himself!
Make him go ask Regina Daniels. She look for her papa

These days self children dey rent parents to represent in marriage if you do anyhow!

Just love your family, its what people are paying millions to look for, is it too much to ask

Datboredberri:
Lol... Most don't

edunaragold:
To be brief, happy Sunday everon
,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs,
MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.


The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again.

(1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con
Or

(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .

Wazobia2216:

So what if she remarries Will you go and live in the new building with OP

frozen70:

If its her choice to remarry then the Op to will remarry

do you know what he will marry

If this one is asking for N10, do you know if the new one will ask for N1,000

He will marry another one right

Children of today, must you lose what you have before you cherish it

SMH

frozen70:


Congratulations on your building project

Pls continue building your house as building materials goes up every day

Those materials you kept for 6 months in someone shop is no longer what it is now

As for your wife, so far you are not the one that chased her out, she will come back and by then she will start reasoning with you

immortalcrown:
If what you said is truly the problem in your marriage and you are asking for third-party opinions, I am sorry to tell you that you are not mentally mature enough for marriage. I said if because I do not know if you are being honest here.

If you abandon the building to please her, what do you think she will do to you when you are unable to pay rent?

Mumu, complete your building so that even if she divorces you, you and your next wife will have a shelter without insults from any landlord.

ChiefSosa:
I choose option 1. But, you still have to send some money over, in order to cater for the kids. I'm sure she'll understand your plans later, and how important it is to own YOUR own building/house. I sure say belle go sweet am when you finish the house, and people start dey call am 'landlady'. Some money gotten from rent can also be used to help her business. You both just need to sit down and get your priorities in order; the most important things before the least important things. But, don't forget to take care of your family in everything you're doing.
Also, what kinda business did/does she want to do, if such business will bring in good profit that will help in completing the house you're building, then give her some money for business. We just hope she's not the squandering type of individual.
Shalom!

edunaragold:
To be brief, happy Sunday everon
,indeed marriage is a blessing but has it's ups and downs,
MY wife left to east angrily ,and without thinking the consequence of tomorrow, she left ignorantly as money no dey flow again somehow ,but am not saying she marries me for money sake OK,but she is impatience and ignorances,,but somebody somewhere may be remotting her as she has no dad,,now am all alone,this is a woman I paid all and married before white and traditional igbo marriage before touching her, so money were no longer flowing like before and we had ups and down, while the house rent increase skyrocketly and I decide to build my own house ,since then I have not know peace .pls ladies in the house,is it bad if become a young landlord, would not my wife be a young landlady too.


The problems is my wife thinks given her the money for business would be better than building. She sees me as a wicked man, she has relocated back and non of her families has called to ask what is going on,pls mothers ,and great men,was I wrong in building, or should I have taking that money to established my wife,knowing full well that once the house is half way ready I can get few tenenat to rent and use that money join another cash to support her business. The worst part is that I have stop building just to favour her ,I send few of my business profit to her while my uncomplicated building with things I have paid for still lies in the hands of the sells since 6 months now,only coming to repay my rent again.

(1) Pls should I stop sending her money ,so she will learn her lesson to be patience if owu done blow her,she may return with the kids ,and use that money to finish up the building in 5months,just a 2bedroom flat ,and 3 extra self con
Or

(2) should I abandoned the building and keep sending her money at the other end,while I wash my plate,Cook by my self , wash my cloth, and still act as a gentleman ,and snurb the temptation of looking outside since she don't cares any more. And when a woman leave a man house without a good reason or violence, mothers and ladies we all know the wife has left an open doors for another woman .meanwhile another more beautiful lady is knocking and conjeee dey hold me each time ,bit I kept saying the devil you know is better than the angel one don't know .

Wazobia2216:
Your family's happiness will open doors for you!

Take care of them and still build your house!

Thats what a wise young man will do!

dawnomike:
leave her for now and face how to make money and complete your house... She will come back to her senses later.

NB: Ensure you take care of your kids

donbachi:
Pikin wey grow,go ask for him papa