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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 6:11pm On Mar 11, 2022
InfinityFabric:

1. Define misogynist and how does it relate to the comment u replied to?
2. What is misandry ?
3. Women in the work place are replaceable. Men are not.
If you think you're irreplaceable,we will gladly replace our soldiers with females ones and let us see how many Boko will have for dinner. Oil rigs ? Road constructions ?


Yes, it is. Women are mostly working nowadays because of the inadequacies of their men.
Since men realized this, they don't even bother, they just settle for 50 - 50.

Telling a woman to work is like telling a man to stay at home and take care of the kids.
Can they do it? YES.
But do they really want to ? Obviously NOT.
women. Aren't working Because of the inadequacies of their men,they are working BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.Anybody wey no work,Na hunger go kill them.meanwhile you're referring to male soildiers fighting bokoharam.as if bokoharam aren't already killing them like flies

In the days of old women too also went to war,they protested for what they want and they had it so his comment is very misogynistic
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 6:14pm On Mar 11, 2022
Tomek09:
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SIMPle and kind man grin
thanks for the compliments wink those are beautiful and attractive attributes.they are also fruits of the spirit.the type that God is endeared to wink

If you are a Christian, you'll understand this wink
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by derecho(m): 6:19pm On Mar 11, 2022
Oga it's not a matter of hands and legs.
Just saying don't call someone misogynist simply because he voiced an opinion that clearly states gender roles that women are better adapted to. By the way, he is looking at it from an angle that many ignore which i believe is important. Would you prefer a home that is broken because the wife is overambitious?

It's unfortunate that people don't know some married men sacrifice and endure all sorts in their carrier because of marriage too.

A good marriage increases us howbeit not without sacrifices. It's an illusion to think you'll continue living your life like it was before marriage. Those who cherish their career above marriage are free NOT to marry. And who says you can't have more in marriage? After all, two are better than one.

Summary,
Marriage comes with it's own responsibilities.None of them was forced to marry.If marriage isn't important to them, they shouldn't disturb us with their new way of thinking that is creating confusion everywhere.Na choice
irunoko:
if God didn't want women to work and be successful,he won't create then with hands.he Will only provide hands and legs for the men but statements like his irritates me.meanwhile if a girl is lazy and entitled,una go still tag am say she no wan work.now to see a woman working and becoming a success out of it is giving people like him sleepless nights
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 6:20pm On Mar 11, 2022
Tomek09:

In a competitive world, they should compete like everyone not whipping up sentiment that women are not given opportunity to exploit their potential thereby making all attention be fixed on them. Nobody stops a woman from reaching the peak of her career. They are just belittling themselves in their perceived men dominated world. Nonsense
of course nobody stops a woman from reaching her potentials but cleverly conceived policies meant to limit women reaching their full potentials are always in place e.g the indigenization policies.those are crafty road blocks to limit women, doing important meetings at the dead of the night where important decisions are made are also deliberately done to EXCLUDE WOMEN from having equal chances because they know women Will not be able to Go out at 2am for one political meetings because it's unsafe and extremely dangerous for her
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by NaijirianKing: 6:21pm On Mar 11, 2022
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safarigirl:



Labour Market has always been favourable and is still favorable to men. More men are in higher positions of power, more men are still billionaires, more men are still economically advantaged, but even more men have become totally useless as well.

They cannot even enter farm like their fathers before them and make themselves useful. They sit by and allow women to go out of the home and hustle.

You are talking of governors and I am talking about the ordinary people. People in corporate organizations are not more than 30-40% of the population. A majority of Nigerians are artisans, traders, farmers and small business owners and of that number lots are women, because a lot of men are slackers.

Atiku ran a loan company some years back and came with the report that women were more likely to pay off their loans than men. You know why? Because most women actually used the money gotten to help their business, while most of the men used it to marry new wives

These are the sort of men you think gender equality did bad? People who cannot think beyond their libido.
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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by NaijirianKing: 6:24pm On Mar 11, 2022
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BigBashiru:


The ratio is 100:1

100 occurrences by men to 1 occurrence by a woman. Women do stuff like this for revenge or greed.

While men can even kill themselves over a woman bcis una mumu well well, release female prisoners like chidinma because u lot are stewpid, and do all sorts like murderers, kidnappers, ritualists, yahoo Boys, armed robbers, and boko haram and spend the proceeds on women.

Hoe many boko haram soldiers are female?
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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by InfinityFabric: 6:26pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
women. Aren't working Because of the inadequacies of their men,they are working BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.Anybody wey no work,Na hunger go kill them.meanwhile you're referring to male soildiers fighting bokoharam.as if bokoharam aren't already killing them like flies

In the days of old women too also went to war,they protested for what they want and they had it so his comment is very misogynistic
In the days of old women too also went to war,
Uhm... they don't. They are called: war brides. The older are killed and the younger ones are kept for reproduction by the victorious army.

,they are working BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO
They have to because someone is NOT providing duh!

you're referring to male soildiers fighting bokoharam.as if bokoharam aren't already killing them like flies
They won't kill the women, they will hump them like and send the videos to YouTube and NTA - every 30 minutes.

they protested for what they want and they had it
So men gave it them because they can't stop shouting. Sound like what women does, and what stupid men succumb to.
Women never actually fought for anything, like an actual battle. Their men always give it to them, they become spoilt and the generation decays.
Rinse and Repeat, USA and W.Europe is going that route now.

they had it so his comment is very misogynistic
misogyny: is the hatred of women.
misandry: is the hatred of men.

I don't think you know anything of what you're talking about. How does the comment constitute hate ?
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 6:26pm On Mar 11, 2022
derecho:
Oga it's not a matter of hands and legs.
Just saying don't call someone misogynist simply because he voiced an opinion that clearly states gender roles that women are better adapted to. By the way, he is looking at it from an angle that many ignore which i believe is important. Would you prefer a home that is broken because the wife is overambitious?

It's unfortunate that people don't know some married men sacrifice and endure all sorts in their carrier because of marriage too.

A good marriage increases us howbeit not without sacrifices. It's an illusion to think you'll continue living your life like it was before marriage. Those who cherish their career above marriage are free NOT to marry. And who says you can't have more in marriage? After all, two are better than one.

Summary,
Marriage comes with it's own responsibilities.None of them was forced to marry.If marriage isn't important to them, they shouldn't disturb us with their new way of thinking that is creating confusion everywhere.Na choice
and I'm saying gender roles are things of the past.nobody cares if you are a man or woman.the issue is can you do this work effectively? Are you a problem solver? Challenges is not a respecter of gender roles.if its the woman that is paying the bills,fine,if it's both of them,super excellent but the point is when it comes to work or family responsibilities,there are no gender roles and there should be no gender roles.just fix the issue,that's all
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by kazyhm(m): 6:29pm On Mar 11, 2022
The topic and its content are two parallel line....I couldn't find their convergence point.


Statically, women are literally counting scores........

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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 6:32pm On Mar 11, 2022
InfinityFabric:


Uhm... they don't. They are called: war brides. The older are killed and the younger ones are kept for reproduction by the victorious army.


They have to because someone is NOT providing duh!


They won't kill the women, they will hump them like and send the videos to YouTube and NTA - every 30 minutes.


So men gave it them because they can't stop shouting. Sound like what women does, and what stupid men succumb to.
Women never actually fought for anything, like an actual battle. Their men always give it to them, they become spoilt and the generation decays.
Rinse and Repeat, USA and W.Europe is going that route now.


misogyny: is the hatred of women.
misandry: is the hatred of men.

I don't think you know anything of what you're talking about. How does the comment constitute hate ?
it is because he's implicitly condescending by saying Women should focus on family while the men should go out to work Saying that is the only way a family can be healthy.if she wasn't made to work she's not supposed to have brains,hands or legs.shes supposed to have only a face, vagina and breasts

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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Tomek09(m): 6:36pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
of course nobody stops a woman from reaching her potentials but cleverly conceived policies meant to limit women reaching their full potentials are always in place e.g the indigenization policies.those are crafty road blocks to limit women, doing important meetings at the dead of the night where important decisions are made are also deliberately done to EXCLUDE WOMEN from having equal chances because they know women Will not be able to Go out at 2am for one political meetings because it's unsafe and extremely dangerous for her
Late Aisha Al-Hassan nearly got it in Taraba when High Court disqualified and sacked Darius Ishaku as Governor.

Dame Virgy Etiaba ruled Anambra for 3 months when Gov Obi was impeached.

The scenario you gave doesn't justify anything.

Women have won Local Government Chairman, HOA, HOR and Senatorial election in Nigeria and still occupying same position today.

Numerically, you may say they're few but men shouldn't take blame for it.

They should take bold steps in contesting because it's a competition and not to be offered to them because they're females.
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by BigBashiru: 6:40pm On Mar 11, 2022
NaijirianKing:
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Na shame dey catch you so?? Then do something to end it.....talk sense into your fellow men....
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Tomek09(m): 6:40pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
it is because he's implicitly condescending by saying Women should focus on family while the men should go out to work Saying that is the only way a family can be healthy.if she wasn't made to work she's not supposed to have brains,hands or legs.shes supposed to have only a face, vagina and breasts
Same work exposes them to rape and sexual harassment which make some men to stop their wives from working. Women are just complicated and difficult to please.
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by BigBashiru: 6:41pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
it is because he's implicitly condescending by saying Women should focus on family while the men should go out to work Saying that is the only way a family can be healthy.if she wasn't made to work she's not supposed to have brains,hands or legs.shes supposed to have only a face, vagina and breasts

Nice response and I love it....

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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by InfinityFabric: 6:44pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
it is because he's implicitly condescending by saying Women should focus on family while the men should go out to work Saying that is the only way a family can be healthy.if she wasn't made to work she's not supposed to have brains,hands or legs.shes supposed to have only a face, vagina and breasts
How many invention have women made ?
List the women inventors and their inventions.
List the Civilization built by women.

I'm listening...

NOTE: Don't list nonsense things ooo
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by derecho(m): 6:54pm On Mar 11, 2022
In simple terms bro,

A man can't be a woman and a woman can't be a man.
Every work isn't office based too.
Even as a man who value your marriage and family you can't take every job because of marriage.

Stop defending these set of women who are looking for excuses to get undue advantage abeg.

The Okonjo iwealas and Ibukun Awosikas no be women? And dem no get children?





irunoko:
women. Aren't working Because of the inadequacies of their men,they are working BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.Anybody wey no work,Na hunger go kill them.meanwhile you're referring to male soildiers fighting bokoharam.as if bokoharam aren't already killing them like flies

In the days of old women too also went to war,they protested for what they want and they had it so his comment is very misogynistic

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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by derecho(m): 7:02pm On Mar 11, 2022
And who decides those?
Some things are constant even in mathematical equations there is a Constant with all the variables.

You just dey make me laff..
We ain't talking about academics bro we are talking reality.
It's the role of a woman in procreation to carry the foetus in her womb and not to provide the sperm.
irunoko:
and I'm saying gender roles are things of the past.nobody cares if you are a man or woman.the issue is can you do this work effectively? Are you a problem solver? Challenges is not a respecter of gender roles.if its the woman that is paying the bills,fine,if it's both of them,super excellent but the point is when it comes to work or family responsibilities,there are no gender roles and there should be no gender roles.just fix the issue,that's all
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Kelvin3476: 7:08pm On Mar 11, 2022
post=110945426:

Many women who transfer service to their husbands’ states after marriage often get petitioned upon recommendation, on the basis of states of origin, regardless of years of service.

One of such cases occurred in 2012, when High Court Judge, Ifeoma Jumbo-Ofo, was recommended for the position of Justice of the Court of Appeal in Abia state.

A petition was written against her to the CJN at the time, Aloma Mukhtar, pointing out that though she had been married into the state, she was not an indigene and could not assume the position.

This is so wrong in all ramifications.
It's totally wrong bro .
But can a man assume any one in his wife's place?
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Kelvin3476: 7:10pm On Mar 11, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy

Who rule the world? Girls
Very soon we'll take over tech.
Women rock. kiss
Squatting in a man's built world
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Kingcalls: 7:38pm On Mar 11, 2022
BigBashiru:


Men are responsible for 98% of murders, kidnaps, ritualists, yahoo Boys, armed robbers, etc

U really hv a low IQ ..I dont argue with low IQ
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Kingcalls: 7:43pm On Mar 11, 2022
safarigirl:



Labour Market has always been favourable and is still favorable to men. More men are in higher positions of power, more men are still billionaires, more men are still economically advantaged, but even more men have become totally useless as well.

They cannot even enter farm like their fathers before them and make themselves useful. They sit by and allow women to go out of the home and hustle.

You are talking of governors and I am talking about the ordinary people. People in corporate organizations are not more than 30-40% of the population. A majority of Nigerians are artisans, traders, farmers and small business owners and of that number lots are women, because a lot of men are slackers.

Atiku ran a loan company some years back and came with the report that women were more likely to pay off their loans than men. You know why? Because most women actually used the money gotten to help their business, while most of the men used it to marry new wives

These are the sort of men you think gender equality did bad? People who cannot think beyond their libido.

U are very funny... women are the laziest and unintelligent living thing God ever created... u women can't live without a man.... u women can't mange businesses or run companies...u cant run lead a government... simply because u women are self entitled and are never logical ...

I can bet that 90% of those paid back loans by those women were paid by men or they had to 4k men to get the money... 90% of women depend on men to feed or run a business
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by BigBashiru: 7:43pm On Mar 11, 2022
Kingcalls:


U really hv a low IQ ..I dont argue with low IQ

Its confirmed in police records around the world in every major city.
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by Kingcalls: 7:44pm On Mar 11, 2022
irunoko:
nonsense ideology.if God didn't want Women to work he won't give them hands, brains and legs to work.

Secondly stop giving excuse or justifying lazy men or men who wait for their wives to bring money home.its not because more women. Are working,it's because they're lazy.laziness is a choice

Thirdly there is no Human being that cannot be challenged.youre not super human or god.you don't know everything so you need people to challenge you (positively) so that you will not be satisfied with mediocrity and be forming man on top emptiness.every human needs someone to check them otherwise they'll misbehave and it's not gender specific.a woman can challenge her husband, likewise a husband can challenge his wife

Fourthly if you look at the way God created the world,he did it in such a way that There'll be no poverty and people will have everything they want but because of greed and foolishness, Africa is poor.that was definitely not God's design for Africa looking at the number of human and natural resources we have.if we have a world where women and men are all wealthy, NOBODY or no man will be hungry to dominate another person or gender.na poverty tendencies dey cause all this domineering behaviour and tendencies

I stopped reading when u said God wudnt hv given women hands and legs ...so hands and legs are only meant for work... u dull sha
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by flamingREED(m): 10:04pm On Mar 11, 2022
BigBashiru:


The ratio is 100:1

100 occurrences by men to 1 occurrence by a woman. Women do stuff like this for revenge or greed.

While men can even kill themselves over a woman bcis una mumu well well, release female prisoners like chidinma because u lot are stewpid, and do all sorts like murderers, kidnappers, ritualists, yahoo Boys, armed robbers, and boko haram and spend the proceeds on women.

Hoe many boko haram soldiers are female?

100 occurrences to 1.
What's the source of your statistics?

Asking for a friend.
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by budaatum: 10:17pm On Mar 11, 2022
Animegirl:
cheesy

Who rule the world? Girls
Very soon we'll take over tech.
Women rock. kiss

Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by budaatum: 10:21pm On Mar 11, 2022
Kingcalls:


Thats the simple effect of women's liberation ... ...

So you want women to remain unliberated, you funny dude.

Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by darediamond(m): 11:37pm On Mar 11, 2022
safarigirl:



Women are not forcing themselves to do anything

The problem is that men have become ineffective in their roles of provider and protector, thereby forcing women to pitch in to provide especially.

In today's reality, most men can no longer afford to take care of the family with one means of income, so, unless you want the kids to starve, women have to work.

If more men were effective in their roles, less women would have to work. Working is an act of survival
And is it only the Men that must bring food to the table in the family?

What if the "effective" husband dies suddenly?

What would the wife resort to if not prostitution coded or open most times...

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Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 4:31am On Mar 12, 2022
Kingcalls:


I stopped reading when u said God wudnt hv given women hands and legs ...so hands and legs are only meant for work... u dull sha
you lack the mental capacity to comprehend because you're stuck in your ways.pele grin tongue
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 4:32am On Mar 12, 2022
derecho:
And who decides those?
Some things are constant even in mathematical equations there is a Constant with all the variables.

You just dey make me laff..
We ain't talking about academics bro we are talking reality.
It's the role of a woman in procreation to carry the foetus in her womb and not to provide the sperm.
ok
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 4:37am On Mar 12, 2022
Tomek09:

Same work exposes them to rape and sexual harassment which make some men to stop their wives from working. Women are just complicated and difficult to please.
abeg let us hear word.before una go say rape is caused by indecent dressing.its no more indecent dressing excuses because you know even women who are fully covered in the longest hijab wearing socks in their hands and on their feets too get raped,it's now going to work or working that causes rape.tomorow una go say eating too or just sitting down causes rape
Re: How Marriage Affects The Rise Of Female Judges by irunoko(m): 4:39am On Mar 12, 2022
Tomek09:

Late Aisha Al-Hassan nearly got it in Taraba when High Court disqualified and sacked Darius Ishaku as Governor.

Dame Virgy Etiaba ruled Anambra for 3 months when Gov Obi was impeached.

The scenario you gave doesn't justify anything.

Women have won Local Government Chairman, HOA, HOR and Senatorial election in Nigeria and still occupying same position today.

Numerically, you may say they're few but men shouldn't take blame for it.

They should take bold steps in contesting because it's a competition and not to be offered to them because they're females.
hmnnn like as if they got it on a platter of gold

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