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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by SweetVibe: 1:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lordm:Wait!!! Are you for real??
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Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Advancedman(m): 1:45pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: She only told him fictitious stories. Women have made me coined words like no be every market Dem dey sell with mouth! |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by lordm(m): 1:45pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
SweetVibe:yes bro. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Emmanuel30a: 1:45pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Psoul:Let him do what he can do for himself&wife to neighbours. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Teerach: 1:47pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Hide and do your giving in peace. I know of someone who's wife hates that he gives. Even the kids look out for their mom. So the guy gives codedly. One instance, he was in the estate pharmacy buying drugs with his kids and added extra to the cashier while paying. She called him back and his response was "that's yours. Are you sure that's not yours" . The lady knew almost immediately. I've witnessed first hand too. And the guy's a pastor and a bank manager. I'm sure he's learnt to understand and deal wisely with that. Since you af married her already. Na to manage am be that since she's not all that terrible. She may be putting your best interest at hand out of ignorance. She doesn't know that he that scattereth according to the laws of nature tends to plenty. And he that withholds turns to nothing. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Johel(m): 1:48pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Run from here, she's after your money...no talk say I no tell u. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by pashiano: 1:49pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: I think she perceives you as someone who overgives |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by delishpot: 1:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Abeg, help them at their parents house. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kushme: 1:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
MarketDispatch: Me too. Respect to that female for saying it the way we know it.. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by FryMosquito: 1:52pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Categorically, Women are selfish creature. Rare to see one that have the heart of giving. Man up and you're the Lord of the house, I see no fault to helping the needy even little at least. Talk sense into her and use TV programmes or movies on such as an example to orient her. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by Alove1(m): 1:53pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
A woman is naturally selfish, its her strength and her weakness too. Lucky are you when she considers you as a part of herself, and of course its has its downsides like the one you're experiencing. She doesn't have a child yet but you're running up and down looking for whose child to train. Sir, it's not like that. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by mastermaestro(m): 1:55pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
RightToReject: Very insightful. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kushme: 1:58pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
uptownemmygee: . Eh dey behave like one of my bros that year, can't tell if he has changed his ways now. Na everything him dey tell the wife. I don ghost am for years now. Correct Simp. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:58pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
SmartPolician: I do not agree, I am sorry. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by girlygirlyMain: 2:00pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Why shoud you want your wife to carry the burden of another person's child? If you want to help people help them and be wise enough to keep them out of your home... Bring 1 or 2 children into your home What if something happens to them in your house? What if they get kidnapped or fall sick and die in your house? What will you tell the parents? It's like you've not seen problem that is why you want to use your hand to bring it upon yourself... Unmarried women out here, PRAY that you don't marry a man who lacks wisdom. ElonEmpire: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by jrusky(m): 2:01pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I hope you are not that boy that said he went to his village to marry unknown Queen or Angel advising other fellow folks to follow his step? It is in NL I have seen a guy saw a lady within 3 weeks of knowing each other they got married 7 months later he came here asking for which way easier to divorce he is fed up. Check yourself young man from what I just said you know where your mistake is pls rectify it before its too late. You can not within 3 months or 6 moth know someone who is not your sister or brother fully well it always end in deception and regret. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kushme: 2:03pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
RightToReject: Wow, better oil dey your head... Op, please read this again and again. Then you' ll have a clear understanding to your current confusion. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by redsun(m): 2:04pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Don't make the mistake of having kids with that kind of selfish behaviour. She will bring you down. if you scrutinize her background, you see that her behaviour is inherent and your prospective children will inherit the same trait. Some people are not just cut out to give and they are the losers. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by SmartPolician: 2:06pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I always tell people, "What you believe in cannot change what is." Tell me you have seen one rich man who became broke because he goes about helping people, then I know you are a pathological liar (no offense intended). |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by TechSkill: 2:09pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Help but MAKE SURE YOU DO IT WITH SERIOUS control... She has her fears for kicking against it. People take advantage of generous people. There was a Nairaland member that made a quote that has stuck to me... "if you act like food, people will eat you" While it is good to be good, don't overdo it because you will regret it for real. I have seen people do good to their own detriment that led to their own death and the children suffered because of that. Listen to your wife. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by drimzsmoke(m): 2:09pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Please how old was you wife when you guys dated dating |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:12pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
SmartPolician: Thank God say you said "RICH". Where in the post did the OP mention he is rich? I will oblige you to read the initial paragraph you quoted in my first post. This time, slowly. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by SmartPolician: 2:17pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: The point is, whether rich or not, you should just know that nobody can empty their account to help the next person. That's the major point here. Beyond that, nature has a way of rewarding people for both good and bad deeds. Guess what, whether we believe or not cannot change that. |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kingyakos: 2:20pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Can an ocean runs dry....No Can a fountain stop flowing....No Can a Lilly flower stop bringing out it fragrance..No |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by MrTosin01: 2:21pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Wisest contribution... UyaiIncomparabl: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by kushme: 2:25pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Funkyswagzz: I could easily smell the filthy tricks.. I had experience of the same kind with two ex-chicz.... There's a motive behind their giving, especially when both of you are of marriageable ages and in a romance. I once told one that, she buying me things doesn't make me feel comfortable and I see it as some sort of debt I would be dragged to pay for someday. I knew she was trying to lure me into marrying her. Many women hardly help, but when they do, I sense a payback somehow. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by NigerianAngelo(m): 2:26pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: OP she might be right 1%. And others may be making use of you. Not that she does not like giving, but she may be looking at it from the aspect that you people really don't have, really need to build a future, and others might really be trying to make use of you. 2. Sometimes you give people more by saying No. 3. Learn to give people what you perceive they are in truly in need of. That is what God wants. It may be to refer them to what to do. It may be to deny your side so that they might realise the option they really had to take (some persons will slothfully call you if they feel you are the easy option. If you encourage that they might become wicked with time). Saying No isn't always bad. Let in only be said if you perceive it is what is good. St. Paul said: "He that will not work, let him not eat." (2 Thess 3:10). Meaning that you could say no to who had the opportunity to work and refused, that the backfiring hunger may prevent him from being encouraged in sin. So saying No could be the will of God even for your relatives. Save for your future children (It's an obligation). Your wife may be right. 3. Also sometimes help might be about calling the others who could help and forcing them to help out. Help could be many things. Just do what Christ could have done in each case. Help could be networking. In summary, always give people their TRUE need, as you think Christ would have done. You could start by emotionally giving your wife her true need. One Hail Mary for you and your family. Ave Maria |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by stonecoldcafe: 2:28pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: It is too soon to carry anyone's child and put inside house please. That one you are saying small children is not like that. It is your wife who will cook and care for them, worry about school runs and all the planning that revolves about caring for children. Other than that, communicate with your wife on your ideology of giving. It is truly blessed give |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by richie240: 2:28pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
U have bn scammed brah! Have you tried buying sth from our 'traders' in Alaba market, computer village or any other market b4? When bargaining with them, they smile with u, swallow ur insults, allow u to step on them, but as soon as u (make d mistake of ) giving them d money, they bcom ur master! That money will never leave their hands again, if u like go bring police come! Obviously ur woman na pretender, she needed that ring badly and as she done getam, she reverts back to her real position! My 'condolences' to d married! ElonEmpire: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Surprising Me; She Is Now A Direct Opposite Of Whom I Thought She Was by zaynie(f): 2:35pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ElonEmpire: Whose money is used for these philanthropic gestures? If it's hers, she has the right to say no. If it's yours and it's affecting the financial status of the family, she still has the right to say no. Perhaps she sees all the people you're giving to as not needing it. Sometimes people take advantage of your generosity and decide to become leeches. This might be what made her change. Besides bringing in children for your wife to raise is very inconsiderate of you. Very. You want her to put her life on a shelf and do your bidding because you're a generous man? Do you know what it takes to raise kids? Not to talk of kids not yours? You need her consent and she needs to want to do it or else you'll be setting the kids up for some serious trouble. 1 Like |
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