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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by HeyHey(f): 5:09pm On Mar 18, 2022
oliviabeem:
When she is submissive, then you can work on her IQ


How exactly will he do that?, kindly shed more light
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by inumidun2010(m): 5:10pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Again, stop reading that book upside down. . undecided

1. In Genesis 3 vs 16(a) you are told by God that the curse only applies to men and women in marriage meaning that curse is on marriage and does not affect those who are not in marriage. undecided

2. There is no such thing as the curse of the Law so i suggest you review these silly ideas and beliefs you hold to since they have no meaning. The curse Jesus Christ came to save(Salvation) from is the condemnation of sin aka Death and this is as defined by God in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22. undecided


I'll try as much as possible not to use GUTTER LANGUAGE with you... If JESUS has taken away the PRONOUNCEMENT like you CLAIM ...

---- why do Women experience labour pains and some die during child birth.. Gen 3vs16
---- why do man have to die physical death Gen 3vs19
---- Why do Man have to till the land to plant and harvest as opposed to the case where God planted the GARDEN and placed MAN IN IT to take care of it ( Gen 2 vs 8 and 15)..

The list is ENDLESS.... CHRIST came to redeem YOU AND I from the CURSE OF THE LAW OF MOSES and not from the PRONOUNCEMENT in THE GARDEN OF EDEN...
CHRIST reconciled us BACK TO GOD as it was in the GARDEN OF EDEN ..... MARRIAGE was not CURSED....
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 18, 2022
inumidun2010:



So SUBMISSION is a CURSE right?... Everybody just MISQUOTING the SCRIPTURES to suit their WARPED MIND....
Mind you, SUBMISSION wasnt meant for WOMEN alone, the SCRIPTURES talked about SUBMISSION to AUTHORITIES...
>>>Rom.13.1 - Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God.
>>>Rom.13.2 - Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation.

SUBMISSION in MARRIAGE was never part of the MOSAIC LAW, MARRIAGE is OLDER than THE LAW...
Gal.3.13 - Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree:
This PORTION of the SCRIPTURES was making reference to the MOSAIC law that states that CURSED IS ANY MAN HUNG ON A TREE..

Deut.21.22 - And if a man have committed a sin worthy of death, and he be to be put to death, and thou hang him on a tree:
Deut.21.23 - His body shall not remain all night upon the tree, but thou shalt in any wise bury him that day; (for he that is hanged is accursed of Godwink that thy land be not defiled, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.


NO DEY MISYARN SCRIPTURES , YOU HEAR...
if you CHOOSE not to SUBMIT to your HUSBAND, it DOESNT AFFECT ME... but it will AFFECT ME IF , you twist the WORD OF GOD to JUSTIFY YOUR INADEQUACIES.... PEACE



Brooo! When I saw the comment, I just weak. Women will always find something to defend themselves no matter how stupid it sounds.

Submission no be by force, nobody is forcing anybody to submit. Let every body go their way & find their partners that suit their ideology, what I find amusing is the need to twist every thing just to prove a point.

We are working and plowing the ground daily for food, shelter and wealth, she didn't know that was part of the Curse too.

Or when God bible says Husbands love your wives and wife submit to your husbands, that sef na curse abi?

Arguing with Women on Nairaland is absolutely pointless.

Besides even if we leave the Bible out of it, whether you submit or not, if you choose to argue with every decision your husband is taking, that marriage won't last 6 months. At least sometimes allow things breathe.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 5:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Mariangeles:
[s][/s]

From this moment on, you’ve been banned from food section! angry
If I catch you there ehn…
Na when you see food, you dey form better person.
By then, Nigerian girls go turn wife material.
undecided
Omo,aunty rest naa ☹️ why you dey interpol my matter like this
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by JONSYN7154: 5:23pm On Mar 18, 2022
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Our guys will always chose submissive ladies with no brains maybe because most of them can't match up with a high IQ lady. They believe a lady with high IQ will challenge them and they will appear dumb most of the time.
But real men with high IQ will go for women of high IQ because they know the value of such women.
They know that a woman with high IQ can still be submissive around a responsible man who knows that women should be treated right. But a submissive woman may never grow and IQ let along having a high IQ.
Won't respond to men with low IQ who may decide to call me demeaning names cos they feel attacked.
You're right.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 18, 2022
Mariangeles:


Guy! No such thing as a sure game. You suppose know.
But na me dey play the game na, If e enter na my luck
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 5:24pm On Mar 18, 2022
inumidun2010:
I'll try as much as possible not to use GUTTER LANGUAGE with you... If JESUS has taken away the PRONOUNCEMENT like you CLAIM ...

1. why do Women experience labour pains and some die during child birth.. Gen 3vs16
2. why do man have to die physical death Gen 3vs19
3. Why do Man have to till the land to plant and harvest as opposed to the case where God planted the GARDEN and placed MAN IN IT to take care of it ( Gen 2 vs 8 and 15)..

4. The list is ENDLESS.... CHRIST came to redeem YOU AND I from the CURSE OF THE LAW OF MOSES and not from the PRONOUNCEMENT in THE GARDEN OF EDEN...
CHRIST reconciled us BACK TO GOD as it was in the GARDEN OF EDEN ..... MARRIAGE was not CURSED...
1. Well, I have never in fact met any woman or man who has actually attained Son of God status as a result of the rolling back of the curse in Genesis 3 vs 16, so I can't speak to that. undecided

2. Salvation, as offered by Jesus Christ, instead promises that rather than cease to exist - be returned to dust from which we were made Genesis 3 vs 19 - that those who believe are gifted with eternal life instead something which we are clearly informed man was not bestowed with at his creation- Genesis 3 vs 19 - 22.. undecided

3. Jesus Christ already explained over 2000 years ago that those who follow Him will no longer work for food that spoils since that is according to the curse - John 6 vs 25 - 35. - So those who continue to work as under the curse, do so in rejection of Jesus Christ. undecided

4. You and I, as gentiles, were never under the Law of Moses. God made this clear in Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20. That you ignore what is written does not change what God has made clear to you from thousands of years ago. undecided

Salvation, as offered by God, to all of mankind, is from God's curse on mankind in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 and God does this by giving us Jesus Christ, His New Covenant Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God. undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Dominatrix(f): 5:25pm On Mar 18, 2022
I'll take both cool
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 5:28pm On Mar 18, 2022
HELLASJ:


Okay! Na so e de start... Good luck buddy
No be everybody wey dey like una wey go jam vampire girlfriend
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by macrodata(m): 5:29pm On Mar 18, 2022
alphaNomega:


I can show you a unicorn if you want. This one is blue
Hahahaha! I'm at the zoo about to see a white elephant and goose which lay golden eggs. Where's the blue unicorn area please? grin grin
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by macrodata(m): 5:30pm On Mar 18, 2022
rayval:


you now added strive....
Yes boss, they are rare indeed.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by macrodata(m): 5:32pm On Mar 18, 2022
Munzy14:

A combination of the two is that good woman that cometh from the Lord.. smiley

Very scarce..but find her and you are already a king without much stress.
I agree with you. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Understanding can be attained in school.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by alphaNomega: 5:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
macrodata:
Hahahaha! I'm at the zoo about to see a white elephant and goose which lay golden eggs. Where's the blue unicorn area please? grin grin
Send me bitcoins with your location and I will be on my way with the bluest unicorn you have ever seen
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by fynex(m): 5:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed


Most of you still don't get it
Whether she's career driven with the best IQ or she the business minded type or the one that chooses to be a house wife, or whatever, she has to be submissive.

But you have to truly and genuinely love her in both words and actions and then she submits to you
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:41pm On Mar 18, 2022
Princewill1:
Lol I pity men here who know little or nothing about the 'GAME OF POWER' saying that a high IQ woman can also be submissive.

Intelligence is a form of power just like money. A highly intelligent woman is a powerful woman just like a wealthy woman.

Powerful people are not submissive to 'equal power' or 'lower power' but only to a 'greater power'.

If intelligence and submissiveness goes hand in hand, Are high IQ men also submissive to their wives?

Any high IQ woman being submissive to you on the dating phase is tricking you into marriage. It's in the marriage that her color will manifest.

Intelligent and submissive woman are rare.
. I will sleep with this.

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by vince96w2(m): 5:42pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed
submissiveness doesn't mean dumbness.. Humans adjust as u give them responsibilities.. If u don't let a child fall,he won't learn how to walk
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by mechanics(m): 5:42pm On Mar 18, 2022
I will go with the former.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Lucky5000(m): 5:44pm On Mar 18, 2022
It's takes a great IQ for a woman to be submissive,

Trust me you don't want to be with a Woman that is not submissive
It's a No for me

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by lolu2019: 5:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
HeyHey:



How exactly will he do that?, kindly shed more light
it is very simple aunty.as a man,i am going to give her that education that she lacks.as long as she is submissive,she will listen to me and improve with time.when a woman is not submissive,it is going to have effects on d kids.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by lolu2019: 5:49pm On Mar 18, 2022
Lucky5000:
It's takes a great IQ for a woman to be submissive,

Trust me you don't want to be with a Woman that is not submissive
It's a No for me
thank u
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Mariangeles(f): 5:54pm On Mar 18, 2022
Senomi:

Omo,aunty rest naa ☹️ why you dey interpol my matter like this

I no go leave you, until you hear word! undecided

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by NamelessOGBENI(m): 5:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
Zonefree:
It takes a lady with Great IQ to be submissive.

Have you seen a feminist with an IQ above 2 before?
With two bawo, it's usually -0.0003 or slightly below.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Dshocker(m): 6:03pm On Mar 18, 2022
Zonefree:
It takes a lady with Great IQ to be submissive.

Have you seen a feminist with an IQ above 2 before?

Oga truth be told;women with high IQ are not that submissive,they believe they have equal rights as their husband

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Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Nobody: 6:14pm On Mar 18, 2022
Mariangeles:


I no go leave you, until you hear word! undecided
Oya sorry
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheGift: 6:18pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed

Both. Just like my Woman. They are not mutually exclusive.

Meanwhile, before wives submit to your husband (Ephesians 5:22) , the Bible says Submit your selves one to another in (Ephesians 5:21) It further says , Husbands love your Wives. You can’t love Her if you can’t submit yourself to Gods Love and honoring the marriage institution

Submission is not only for women.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by achimendy(m): 6:20pm On Mar 18, 2022
Senomi:
Most nigerian girls are vampires, just that they feed on money instead of blood

Hahahaha, abeg i no wan laugh scatter.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by kelvinjames01: 6:21pm On Mar 18, 2022
Does her IQ contribute anything to the family or just for herself" your money is our money and my money is my money". A woman's IQ, education or money is worthless to a man
macrodata:
Why not strive for a woman with great IQ that's submissive? Yes, they are out there.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Samfloxin(m): 6:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Senomi:

Guy forget am, when you see game wey go cut you go know, unless say u be strong headed manchester city fan
No yawaa, good luck
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Kobojunkie: 6:24pm On Mar 18, 2022
TheGift:
Both. Just like my Woman. They are not mutually exclusive.

Meanwhile, before wives submit to your husband (Ephesians 5:22) , the Bible says Submit your selves one to another in (Ephesians 5:21) It further says , Husbands love your Wives. You can’t love Her if you can’t submit yourself to Gods Love and honoring the marriage institution

Submission is not only for women.
According to Bible, the idea of submission in marriage was born of a curse placed on marriage by God in Genesis 3 vs 16, and it is the very same curse that God then sent Jesus Christ to give men, and marriage Salvation from - John 3 vs 16 - 21 undecided

Jesus Christ came and decreed that those who belong to Him are instead equals and bow only to Him as Head/Master, Teacher, Shepherd, Authority over their lives. undecided

Now as for those in the world , submission and high IQ are mutually exclusive in the sense that anyone able to critically reason issues understands that the best relationships are ones grounded in partnership not rulership which is what submission is about. undecided
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Omzz: 6:29pm On Mar 18, 2022
You also get both
Having a high IQ does not stop you from been submissive or been submissive does not mean you have a low IQ..
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by TheGift: 6:30pm On Mar 18, 2022
Kobojunkie:
According to Bible, the idea of submission in marriage was born of a curse placed on marriage by God in Genesis 3 vs 16, and it is the very same curse that God then sent Jesus Christ to give men, and marriage Salvation from - John 3 vs 16 - 21 undecided

Jesus Christ came and decreed that those who belong to Him are instead equals and bow only to Him as Head/Master, Teacher, Shepherd, Authority over their lives. undecided

Now as for those in the world , submission and high IQ are mutually exclusive in the sense that anyone able to critically reason issues understands that the best relationships are ones grounded in partnership not rulership which is what submission is about. undecided

Hmmm… food for thought.
Re: A Submissive Spouse Or A Partner With Great IQ by Johel(m): 6:55pm On Mar 18, 2022
Streetbabah:
It's a dilemma choosing to marry between a spouse with good character and submissiveness who relies on you to make 80% of all decisions.... And a spouse with high IQ of great intellects whom u can discuss anything with be it business politics and so on with who is also a self starter... people's opinions are needed


Partner with great IQ

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