kelvinjames01:
Does her IQ contribute anything to the family or just for herself" your money is our money and my money is my money". A woman's IQ, education or money is worthless to a man

Kobojunkie:
Again.... I still don't understand what you are getting at. Are these intelligent women somehow also responsible for raising for themselves men more intelligent than themselves to marry?

DonroxyII:
1. You can also cultivate the habit of raising a "willing" someone to your level of Intellectualism. The problem lies where You don't Have the patience to bring someone Up to your Stack ? It requires a lot, can you put in the time and energy and after everything he still stays without taking Your crafts to Higher Lady than You

2. Also, there is a problem when as a woman you rely solely on your Intellectualism while other aspect of Womanhood in you is Dead. It is possible to know the entire world without knowing yourself

That's Where You need someone to help Defined you for you while you keep nodding like agama lizard. Now How many dudes are really ready to spell out a woman for her when there are thousands of ladies out there that ain't looking for any form of definition to cohabit with the Man.
A too expensive commodity get Jettisoned where there are same specs (Even though not same quality).

3. I still repeat, SapioSexual that's truly SapioSexual must have In her gearbox how to build her own Man and Retain Him because not too many Sane dudes are around nowadays.

4. The limited Sane dudes are not enough to go around the Demanding ladies especially in a Monogamy relationship. I doubt any Sapio would love the idea of Polygamy Yuck.

Kobojunkie:
1. ROFLMAO


2. I don't follow at all. Does relying on one's Intellectualism mean one forgets about self?

3. Build her own Man? So basically, you are advising SapioSexuals to pick men, and fix them up, zit as mother and wife in their relationships?

4. So because there are not enough sane dudes, you advocate for SapioSexuals to become fixers of men?

DonroxyII:
Yeah, just like building a start Up . Fixer of willing man not just any man.

Or Wait for the dude on higher IQ than You.

Kobojunkie:
And how many Nigerian men do you currently know of who would submit to be fixed by a more intelligent girlfriend or wife?

DonroxyII:
That's why I said "Willing". I already addressed everything in my previous posts oya go back and read them all from the beginning.

Some women(Higher IQ) are fixing their men and Nobody knows nothing financially, Emotionally and Intellectually(The Husband/BF makes no decision(s) unless ran through his woman):

I already begged you not to stress me

Kobojunkie:
Care to provide better information to maybe get SapioSexuals here on nairaland find Nigerian men to train?

DonroxyII:
Pack all the SapioSexuals on Nairaland you know come my side:

God knows I have scaled through all Your red wires

Kobojunkie:
Care to provide better information to maybe get SapioSexuals here on nairaland find Nigerian men to train?

lolu2019:
please, what make a man to be insecure.if i can put food,shelter and cloth on my family.i dont think i am insecure.

Mariangeles:


How you take measure her IQ?
With your own?

Senomi:
Most nigerian girls are vampires, just that they feed on money instead of blood

Skidee:


I'm sure my mama also fed on money instead of blood. Infact money flowed through her veins while giving birth to me instead of blood. Misogynist nonsense. My father is a very useless and foolish man.

Munzy14:

With ruler...

bepositive11:


A man can put food, shelter, and clothing on their family and still be insecure. The man who wants his woman to depend on him for everything does so so that he will feel needed and have a lower risk of losing her. They end up attracting insecure women because secure women can't stand insecure men

Overall, insecure men and women don't have healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationships and they end up not achieving their full potential in life

Kobojunkie:
Leave God out of this!

Again...

Kobojunkie:
Care to provide better information to maybe get SapioSexuals here on nairaland find Nigerian men to train?

lolu2019:
it is very simple aunty.as a man,i am going to give her that education that she lacks.as long as she is submissive,she will listen to me and improve with time.when a woman is not submissive,it is going to have effects on d kids.

Princewill1:
Lol I pity men here who know little or nothing about the 'GAME OF POWER' saying that a high IQ woman can also be submissive.

Intelligence is a form of power just like money. A highly intelligent woman is a powerful woman just like a wealthy woman.

Powerful people are not submissive to 'equal power' or 'lower power' but only to a 'greater power'.

If intelligence and submissiveness goes hand in hand, Are high IQ men also submissive to their wives?

Any high IQ woman being submissive to you on the dating phase is tricking you into marriage. It's in the marriage that her color will manifest.

Intelligent and submissive woman are rare.

Kobojunkie:
Interesting!

Why is good character only attached to submisssiveness and low IQ levels in a spouse? Are you of the notion that women with higher IQ levels than yours can't exhibit this good character you speak of?

And I also wonder, what exactly you mean by good character..do you also come with the same or is that only for the low intelligence level women in your life to have?

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They say two heads are better than one when it comes to decision making, and life in general. High IQ or no IQ, it is never a good idea when only one head is making the decision as far as that which concerns the many.

lolu2019:
bro,i cant be insecure when i have money.

bepositive11:


You can do a Google search for signs of insecurity and assess yourself

Some wealthy men are extremely insecure

lolu2019:
it maybe a case of forced marriage.as long as I focus on my job.Bleep insecurity.my job,my passion.

ImoleNaija:


You just described a virtuous woman in this post.

Faithful18, am I right?

faithfull18:

You are left

You missed an 'l' though.

EkelediliBuhari:
Na that IQ she go take colonize you

Truth is to make sure your IQ matched hers unless you have another way of making her loyal/submit

Women don’t respect men that are beneath them in any way…

ImoleNaija:


Loabatan


Oh, noted. That means you came across the mention by chance?

faithfull18:

Exactly, people tend to make the mistake a lot, so I do my due diligence by checking before I miss out on a big deal, you know

ImoleNaija:


You use the NL search engine for 'faithful18'? You're wise. No wonder you don't miss out on big mentions like mine.

Ayinke93:
What kills me about this submission thing is the only men I’ve seen demanding it like their lives depend on it are insecure, broke and have nothing going on for them and only seek a sense of relevance from the women they are romantically involved with. Most can’t even guide themselves to make reasonable live changing decisions, but you want me to submit myself to you. Real case of a blind man leading.
See them willing to substitute IQ for “submission”. It’s hilarious. Unna go Dey alright.