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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 8:33pm On Mar 30, 2022
BRATISLAVA:


This boring anthem again?

Grow up. Be a man. Change.

Bye Felicia.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by apatheticme(f): 8:40pm On Mar 30, 2022
DoctorOlasDesk:
You broke tins think every one online is as idle as you. You started this 8am today, you're at it 6pm today. What a wonderful way to waste existence.

Back to my work. Continue wasting your time

Dude is just insufferable!

He claims I'm angry and hyperventilating, yet he has taken this issue personal since yesterday, running amok and fighting everyone!

The guy needs help, this ain't ordinary. He's having a mental breakdown. Womenfolk remain his greatest nightmare!!

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Exedyne: 10:23pm On Mar 30, 2022
Marriage isn't always a bed of roses. It could be a nightmare from hell too.

Children aren't always blessings from God. There's children who've caused their parents nothing but pain from the get go.

People don't realize the magnitude of responsibility on a person when he or she becomes a parent. That child is your responsibility for life.

Children and marriage complicate lives a lot. As a single person my life is pretty complicated already.

I will manage to get married, but I'm not having kids. I've seen too much to fall into that illusion of "children are a blessing from God"

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 4:44pm On Mar 31, 2022
apatheticme:


Truth is he can't change!!

Leave him to his folly. Don't respond to his taunts anymore. Whatever he likes he should say, na him get him mouth/fingers to type.

He's just a troll and cyberbully, but I'm done responding to him. He's just an attention seeker! Starve him of attention and see how he fizzles away like smoke cool

A man correcting you does not make him a "bully"; it makes him a man. You need that in your life.

I am sure you are not used to that since your husband is weak and you dominate him.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 4:47pm On Mar 31, 2022
Exedyne:
Marriage isn't always a bed of roses. It could be a nightmare from hell too.

Children aren't always blessings from God. There's children who've caused their parents nothing but pain from the get go.

People don't realize the magnitude of responsibility on a person when he or she becomes a parent. That child is your responsibility for life.

Children and marriage complicate lives a lot. As a single person my life is pretty complicated already.

I will manage to get married, but I'm not having kids. I've seen too much to fall into that illusion of "children are a blessing from God"

When you are married to women who argue senselessly and nag like apatheticme, then I am sure it would be a nightmare from Satan's home.

Don't do it!

Stay single and enjoy your life!
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 1:26pm On Apr 04, 2022
AntiBshit:


Dude, you're dragging TRP in the mud! At the end of the day, apatheticme made more sense than you, and she was more logical and objective in her points. She was also quite assertive, stuck by her points regardless of your jabs that you threw at her man. You were the emotional one, calling people names, cussing out anyone with a contrary opinion and generally being confrontational all over the thread.

Relax dude, take out time to read TRP's dogma again, internalize it and digest it. Once you understand it, you'll realize you looked like a scared kid fighting and calling everyone simp and emotional. TRP does not fight or argue especially with a woman, rather TRP is a way of life, a part of you. It is to be acted rather than argued. Once you realize that, you'll stop being emotional here!

She floored you dude!

You are reeeetarded!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Is this a second account? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BigBashiru: 4:13am On Apr 05, 2022
richie240:

Truth be told, right from inception what a woman had to bring to d table had bn nothing but:
1: Vagina
2: brezz
3: womb and most importantly
4: Agreeability ie submission.

The 'woke' women of nowadays only come with d first 3.
Their failure to be submissive to dr man is what's causing men regrets in marrying in d first place.

If not for need for legitimate sex and children, marriage is inversely proportional to a man's peace of mind!
cool

That sex isn't legitimate cos the time they wanna marry they no longer fresh
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BigBashiru: 4:20am On Apr 05, 2022
holicupp:


Babymama is still an option dear fu*k marriage
Imagine after spending ur hard earned money to marry a leech she will still have the audacity to be misbehaving like a small child i rather remain single and enjoy everything I have worked for
After all b*tches don't need niggas to survive cause whatever a nigga can do a b*tch can do better

Don't forget the only reason she's getting married is cos she's on the verge of expiration
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by holicupp(m): 11:06am On Apr 05, 2022
BigBashiru:


Don't forget the only reason she's getting married is cos she's on the verge of expiration
grin
BigBashiru:


Don't forget the only reason she's getting married is cos she's on the verge of expiration

grin grin grin
og u bad o.....
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by gforce5: 10:17am On Apr 06, 2022
Bro, it is not delusional for men to try and be financially successful before getting married. Even though money is not everything, it is a very important ingredient in any relationship/marriage. So many marriages have collapsed simply because the man couldn't provide for his family. I have seen with my own eyes the stress married men go through simply because they couldn't settle one bill or another on time. Who has time for that? It's only those who live in the rural areas or parts of the North that can say that money isn't important. If you live in the south especially big cities like Lagos, Port Harcourt, Enugu, Ibadan or Asaba, you will realize the importance of finance in marriage.
MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by gforce5: 10:41am On Apr 06, 2022
The main reason why so many men in this country are single is because of the state of the economy. The present state of the economy is not favoring many young men. As a single man, it's difficult to have savings because of the rising cost of living. Which sane man wants to put himself in perdition in the name of marriage? Our parents generation enjoyed free education, low cost of living, massive job opportunities and affordable housing. What are young men of today benefiting from Nigeria? Nothing.

In this part of the world, men are expected to pay for everything. In fact, many men are expected not only to take care of their immediate family but their extended family and their wife's family. Why won't many men prefer to stay single under those conditions. Most women in this country don't want to build with a man. They keep harping about 'hypergamy'. The concept of relationships and marriage in this part of the world has been destroyed by materialism. Love doesn't exist in this part of the world. Marriage is just a poverty alleviation scheme for many. Nigerian women are looking for a messiah to rescue them from poverty. Since a lot of men have realized that women are only interested in their pockets, they go through extreme lengths to make that money and treat women, even their own wives, as nothing more than sexual objects. It is what is.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:54am On Apr 07, 2022
gforce5:
Bro, it is not delusional for men to try and be financially successful before getting married. Even though money is not everything, it is a very important ingredient in any relationship/marriage. So many marriages have collapsed simply because the man couldn't provide for his family. I have seen with my own eyes the stress married men go through simply because they couldn't settle one bill or another on time. Who has time for that? It's only those who live in the rural areas or parts of the North that can say that money isn't important. If you live in the south especially big cities like Lagos, Port Harcourt, Enugu, Ibadan or Asaba, you will realize the importance of finance in marriage.

- you dont have to be financially successful to get married.
- you dont have to be financially successful to have a family.
- you dont need to provide more than what YOU need (and so does your wife) to have a family and/or get married
- if you cant provide for your own life necessities (food shelter etc) then getting married is not your problem, YOUR MISPLACED PRIORITIES OF LIFE is the problem
- the stress you have as a "single" man (not being able to settle a bill), will be exactly the same as a married man. the difference is that now you will have a gainfully employed spouse to help you deal with the stress/bills etc

- any person (whether male or female) need money to live in cities like Lagos, Port Harcourt, Enugu, Ibadan or Asaba.... nobody lives there for free. so as two people decide to get married, they join forces AND their finances, in order to be financially stronger together, and have a family together. gone are the days where one man is footing all the bills while his unemployed useless wife does absolutely nothing (but be an expert in Telemundo). today, ANY man who wants to go get married should look for a gainfully employed intelligent woman to marry, and not some liability who does not bring shiit to the table. if a man's ego is too big to seek for such woman, then let that fool shut the fukc up and suffer in silence with his useless good for nothing wife.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Exedyne: 8:39pm On Apr 10, 2022
Gamesmart:


When you are married to women who argue senselessly and nag like apatheticme, then I am sure it would be a nightmare from Satan's home.

Don't do it!

Stay single and enjoy your life!

I tell you.
Marrying the wrong woman can drive one mad.

I remember my ex...... everything na fight

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