WisdomDannie:
Good evening Nairalanders,

Please, I have been thinking about this lately and don't know how to go about it.

I have this very loud neighbor who always likes staying in my room most of the times.

Well, I'm not complaining about that because I need company sometimes..

But what I really cannot put up with him is the fact that he likes flirting with numerous girls and always talk about them.

He can chat with a girl for a whole 8 hours and not get tired.

Even right now, as I type, he's in my room at this time (11:11 pm) and has been talking with a girl for over one hour.

And I get pissed off with that because it irritates me. Like he can come as early as possible in the morning to gist me about his latest hit.

I want to tell him to reduce his visits to my room since he doesn't have any sensible discussion asides from women.

But I don't know how to go about it, so I don't sound
Please guys, how do I go about this?

P.S: I would be grateful if this makes the front page. Thanks!

SNEFF:
calm down son, you can learn a thing or two from him ..

dawnomike:
When he starts talking about his nonsense, change the topic

Carcholce:
He can’t stop now, you can’t stop him either. Give him some space, when he gets burned he’ll get sense.

flames007:
Well, if you find it hard to actually tell him to stop, you could pretend to be hard at work on your laptop or something. When he comes with the rubbish gist don't give him much attention. In fact, always remind him that he should not disturb you while you work cos it will actually DUSTURB you. Do this consistently until he gets the message. Don't know if I made sense.

That's what I would do though.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... Talking about women round the clock, there's a name for that here. I think it's redpill or something like that.

OP, when people talk to us, we tend to pretend to be interested out of politeness. You've probably been doing this in order not to hurt his feelings, but that only keeps him going. There's really no point complaining on NL when you've not given the person any hint that you don’t want to hear his stories anymore. I, therefore, suggest you quickly change the topic whenever he's about to start his stories or just go mute and concentrate on something else. If he's not thoughtful enough to get the message, jokingly let him know you're done. A simple statement like "dude, please, don't even start with these your stories now" could be said with different degrees of seriousness. Start from the first degree (with laughter and mild interest) and gradually switch it up each time. I know you don't want to sound unnecessarily riled up, but trust me, he'll get the message long before it comes that.

SNEFF:
calm down son, you can learn a thing or two from him ..

Baloranking:


leave op with his exaggerated story. He's probably jealous.

internationalman:
I have one like that that sexualizes every woman that walks past us be it married, old or young woman.. He's very annoying.

WisdomDannie:


There's absolutely nothing I would learn from someone that sexualizes women.

WisdomDannie:




I have tried that already. But it seems he doesn't get the idea. No sooner had we started talking about other stuff than he began to divert to flirty discussions

MrBrownJay1:
are you really annoyed about it OR SIMPLY jealous of the way he easily talk to countless women?!

illicit:
Just tell him

Tallesty1:
Why don't you just cut him off? A band company is worse than none.

I have a friend like him. He talks about women all the time, brags about them like it's some sort of achievement.

There was a time we had a fall out and he told me that I cannot in my entire life sample 10% of the woman he has already sampled.

But aside this, he's a good friend, very useful so I called him one day and told him to stop talking about girls when we are together. It was difficult in the beginning but he stopped eventually.

The crazy thing though is that a lot of guys are like him.

Boogyman557:
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Since d MANCHI de always lap 4 ur AP (house)..


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Give d MANCHI d Rice to EAT!


I SWEAR DOWN!


Em go START de BEHAVE mature!


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Em go de TALK TINZ like...


How to make MONEY!


How to REASON like a Guy MAN!


Many many REASONABLE TINZ wey em go de tell u..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

WisdomDannie:


It's not encouraging. it would help if some of us learn to respect ladies and not see them as s*x objects, despite the fact they aren't helping matters too.

lilvicky68:
I don't enter other people's room and I don't like my neighbors entering my room either.. we just greet ourselvese good morning and move on..

Kobicove:


Next time he starts his nonsense discussion just pretend to be very busy working and don't respond; he will eventually get the message