Nairalander,
I have tried almost everything for this marriage to work but it seems things are getting worst. And fortunately, I did not do court marriage for some reasons.
I have a small stature but i married a fat woman, thinking she could just complement for my unborn children. But she uses her big stature to cause violence of any acts.
The following are my summarized observation about her so far;
1. She spend most of her time outside- She works in unilag as a porter in a female hostel and rarely comes home. I could count 5 times a month at home.
2. She speaks angrily in curses. (e.g like you shall run mad, you shall die etc)

3. She is very violence in all angle(e.g i could remember public disgrace of pouring water on me, holding tight on my neck, etc)
I just endure most injuries I sustained as i man. Most times, I just find excuse to avoid what gave me injuries to people...

4. She is rarely wrong and hardly say sorry( e.g I remember how she broke my birthday gifts to her)


5. And many more

What do a woman want in a man
1. I dont smoke
2. I dont get drunk
3. I dont womanize
4. I work with good pay in tech company
5. I pay all my dues as husband( she only feed herself)
6. I am first class graduate...

PLEASE LAWYERS IN THE HOUSE. HOW CAN I BRING THIS MARRIAGE TO AN END IN ORDER TO GAIN SANE MIND IN LAGOS

Bring your wife to nairaland and let her give us her version of the story.

Deal with her spirit husband and you will thank me later . Many will not agree with me but this is the bitter truth. Most couples love themselves, but most men and women have individual spirit wives and husbands. These are the ones responsible for sex in the dreams. They fight very hard to make sure that marriages continue to experience problems. They are incharge of high rate of divorce in our society today.
Apply wisdom to capture your wife
I saw that you weded in CAC.
Get your Reverend involved.
If it doesn't work out, look for Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries.
You will be happy you did.
NB. Divorce may just be an avenue to leave a lower devil for a higher one.
The possibility of you still ending up with the same type of individual or worse is still there.
Moreover God hates divorce. I wish you the best in Jesus name, Amen.

You can approach a Customary Court for the dissolution of the marriage if the marriage is unbearable. You can call this number for further information 08034925522

I stand to be corrected.
You must not get married in court before dissolving it in court na..
As for as you it statutory marriage.
Even if you marry in shrine the court will annul it.

We we need to hear your wife's side of the story sha..

Hmmm! marriage and its palavar.

u no see all this one b4 u marry abi na now she begin display

kibev:

What do a woman want in a man
1. I dont smoke
2. I dont get drunk
3. I dont womanize
4. I work with good pay in tech company
5. I pay all my dues as husband( she only feed herself)
6. I am first class graduate...

PLEASE LAWYERS IN THE HOUSE. HOW CAN I BRING THIS MARRIAGE TO AN END IN ORDER TO GAIN SANE MIND IN LAGOS

A first class graduate indeed!

I think so long as your marriage was registered, you should be able to walk into the court or talk to a lawyer to start the proceedings. Something tells me there is more to your story than you are letting us know of here. However, you are a grown individual....so....

Dreal1247:
Deal with her spirit husband and you will thank me later . Many will not agree with me but this is the bitter truth. Most couples love themselves, but most men and women have individual spirit wives and husbands. These are the ones responsible for sex in the dreams. They fight very hard to make sure that marriages continue to experience problems. They are incharge of high rate of divorce in our society today.
Apply wisdom to capture your wife
I saw that you weded in CAC.
Get your Reverend involved.
If it doesn't work out, look for Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries.
You will be happy you did.
NB. Divorce may just be an avenue to leave a lower devil for a higher one.
The possibility of you still ending up with the same type of individual or worse is still there.
Moreover God hates divorce. I wish you the best in Jesus name, Amen.

Oga any relationship wey no work make we leave..

Why must there by spiritual husband and wives , with anyone so as to end in church..

Omo man no fit kill himself.. if a woman frustrate too much.. God sef no fit tell me make I hear .. my heart strong and stubborn seriously.. leave her alone with her spiritual husband make she follow am die abeg .

Dreal1247:
Deal with her spirit husband and you will thank me later . Many will not agree with me but this is the bitter truth. Most couples love themselves, but most men and women have individual spirit wives and husbands. These are the ones responsible for sex in the dreams. They fight very hard to make sure that marriages continue to experience problems. They are incharge of high rate of divorce in our society today.
Apply wisdom to capture your wife
I saw that you weded in CAC.
Get your Reverend involved.
If it doesn't work out, look for Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries.
You will be happy you did.
NB. Divorce may just be an avenue to leave a lower devil for a higher one.
The possibility of you still ending up with the same type of individual or worse is still there.
Moreover God hates divorce. I wish you the best in Jesus name, Amen.

Deal with her spirit husband and he will thank me later, shey e dey find pastor scammer abi wetin b dis one. how many spiritual problem una don solve for Nigeria? blacks n backward thinking

Seriously I don't feel a thing when I see people in bad marriages, because they didn't put gun to your head to do wedding.. I can't feel your pain

house10s2:
Deal with her spirit husband and he will thank me later, shey e dey find pastor scammer abi wetin b dis one. how many spiritual problem una don solve for Nigeria? blacks n backward thinking

The so-called spiritual problems seem to pile up higher and higher for all those who subscribe to such thinking. It never seems to end at all.

Kobojunkiee:
The so-called spiritual problems seem to pile up higher and higher for all those who subscribe to such thinking. It never seems to end at all.

u dey mind them

Didn't you see the signs before you entered?

kibev:
Nairalander,
I have tried almost everything for this marriage to work but it seems things are getting worst. And fortunately, I did not do court marriage for some reasons.
I have a small stature but i married a fat woman, thinking she could just complement for my unborn children. But she uses her big stature to cause violence of any acts.
The following are my summarized observation about her so far;
1. She spend most of her time outside- She works in unilag as a porter in a female hostel and rarely comes home. I could count 5 times a month at home.
2. She speaks angrily in curses. (e.g like you shall run mad, you shall die etc)

3. She is very violence in all angle(e.g i could remember public disgrace of pouring water on me, holding tight on my neck, etc)
I just endure most injuries I sustained as i man. Most times, I just find excuse to avoid what gave me injuries to people...

4. She is rarely wrong and hardly say sorry( e.g I remember how she broke my birthday gifts to her)


5. And many more

What do a woman want in a man
1. I dont smoke
2. I dont get drunk
3. I dont womanize
4. I work with good pay in tech company
5. I pay all my dues as husband( she only feed herself)
6. I am first class graduate...

PLEASE LAWYERS IN THE HOUSE. HOW CAN I BRING THIS MARRIAGE TO AN END IN ORDER TO GAIN SANE MIND IN LAGOS

Can you please chat me up.
08089456258

Bring police and jejely park her things out and tell them to escort her to her fathers house


Police will just cost u like 5 t0 10k

ayoncox:

Can you please chat me up.
08089456258

Noted

house10s2:



Deal with her spirit husband and he will thank me later, shey e dey find pastor scammer abi wetin b dis one. how many spiritual problem una don solve for Nigeria? blacks n backward thinking

But she could not even pray on her own. She cannot pray on her own until her pastor said so. She cannot fast on her own until she is told to do so. She worships her pastor so much.

kibev:


But she could not even pray on her own. She cannot pray on her own until her pastor said so. She cannot fast on her own until she is told to do so. She worships her pastor so much.

pastor said so lol guy u better remove hand from pastors if u want ur life to b on track

Dreal1247:
Deal with her spirit husband and you will thank me later . Many will not agree with me but this is the bitter truth. Most couples love themselves, but most men and women have individual spirit wives and husbands. These are the ones responsible for sex in the dreams. They fight very hard to make sure that marriages continue to experience problems. They are incharge of high rate of divorce in our society today.
Apply wisdom to capture your wife
I saw that you weded in CAC.
Get your Reverend involved.
If it doesn't work out, look for Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries.
You will be happy you did.
NB. Divorce may just be an avenue to leave a lower devil for a higher one.
The possibility of you still ending up with the same type of individual or worse is still there.
Moreover God hates divorce. I wish you the best in Jesus name, Amen.

I heard these your sayings from someone after spiritual consultation....But her characters is also contributing to it. Or does the spiritual husband make her misbehave?

It's funny how niggas think a thing like marriage will change a b!tch.

Antimarraige:
Seriously I don't feel a thing when I see people in bad marriages, because they didn't put gun to your head to do wedding.. I can't feel your pain

Are you married?

kibev:
Nairalander,
I have tried almost everything for this marriage to work but it seems things are getting worst. And fortunately, I did not do court marriage for some reasons.
I have a small stature but i married a fat woman, thinking she could just complement for my unborn children. But she uses her big stature to cause violence of any acts.
The following are my summarized observation about her so far;
1. She spend most of her time outside- She works in unilag as a porter in a female hostel and rarely comes home. I could count 5 times a month at home.
2. She speaks angrily in curses. (e.g like you shall run mad, you shall die etc)

3. She is very violence in all angle(e.g i could remember public disgrace of pouring water on me, holding tight on my neck, etc)
I just endure most injuries I sustained as i man. Most times, I just find excuse to avoid what gave me injuries to people...

4. She is rarely wrong and hardly say sorry( e.g I remember how she broke my birthday gifts to her)


5. And many more

What do a woman want in a man
1. I dont smoke
2. I dont get drunk
3. I dont womanize
4. I work with good pay in tech company
5. I pay all my dues as husband( she only feed herself)
6. I am first class graduate...

PLEASE LAWYERS IN THE HOUSE. HOW CAN I BRING THIS MARRIAGE TO AN END IN ORDER TO GAIN SANE MIND IN LAGOS

We hope we can hear her side of the story.

kibev:


I heard these your sayings from someone after spiritual consultation....But her characters is also contributing to it. Or does the spiritual husband make her misbehave?

I don't understand. The spiritualist you mean misbehaves or cen you make it clearer?

Dreal1247:

I don't understand. The spiritualist you mean misbehaves or cen you make it clearer?

I mean my wife misbehaves

kibev:

I mean my wife misbehaves

Of course, I said that most couples love themselves but the activities of the so so-called spirit wife or husband have set them against each other. Just try to Google the activities of the spirit husbands/wives.

Any woman that gives you problem in the name of marriage....just kick her out or else you die prematurely....I have witness lots of men die all in the name of my wife this and my wife that.....if it doesn't work...just let it be....move on

Yes God hates divorce! But what should be done when one partner says he/she is no longer interested!?

Dreal1247:
Deal with her spirit husband and you will thank me later . Many will not agree with me but this is the bitter truth. Most couples love themselves, but most men and women have individual spirit wives and husbands. These are the ones responsible for sex in the dreams. They fight very hard to make sure that marriages continue to experience problems. They are incharge of high rate of divorce in our society today.
Apply wisdom to capture your wife
I saw that you weded in CAC.
Get your Reverend involved.
If it doesn't work out, look for Mountain Of Fire And Miracles Ministries.
You will be happy you did.
NB. Divorce may just be an avenue to leave a lower devil for a higher one.
The possibility of you still ending up with the same type of individual or worse is still there.
Moreover God hates divorce. I wish you the best in Jesus name, Amen.

Marriage is sweet. Please enjoy yours quietly and leave us alone.

Marriage isn't compulsory and it's not necessary to bear offspring.

Alot of people will slip into depression due to failed marriages so what's the essence of this marriage.